In need of friends

[Lolita Uldarmann]

Hi!

My name is Lolita and I need friends. Badly. My second life can be quite boring sitting alone in a club, but it could be so much better if I had someone to chat with.

Things I am into (in SL and RL)

• Art/crafts
• Music 
• Exploring new places
• Disney and cute things
• UFOs and Bigfoot conspiracies 
• Gardening
• Board and table top games
• Cats
• Poetry
• Shopping

Just IM me in game or even through here. 

Thanks!

 

[Lolita Uldarmann]

Still need friends

[Zzevir]

It's really hard to believe that with so broad interest you can'T find friends  

if I have time in the afternoon to log in I will post a few place where you can find some people how shares your interest   

[Zzevir]

Board game place

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Dragon%20Nest/42/61/23

Helping and chating place

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Helping%20Haven%20Gateway/35/47/25

 

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Caledon%20Oxbridge/96/135/27

 

 

[Lolita Uldarmann]

Thank you so much! 

[Talligurl]

I sent to an IM and a request

[Lolita Uldarmann]

Just got on and responded

[ArchangelMarcus]

Yes, finding friends can be hard. But finding friends doesn't really depend on your interests, it rather depends if you're ready to initiate a  conversation with someone or propagate the conversation. There's something i would like to clear for you, most women feel that another person needs to start a conversation with them and they themselves just wait for this to happen.(General Opinion). There's nothing wrong if a lady initiates the conversation, and most people feel glad when this happens (in a positive way).

I would suggest that you do the following, these personal tips shall help you too.

1) Hang around regions where most people are active and not AFK; This ensures that you don't feel ignored.
2) Show good interest when someone texts you; This motivates them to keep talking to you.
3) Initiate conversations with random people; On SL you have nothing to lose, a bad conversation is forgotten easily. Move on, find a new person, start a new conversation.
4) Conversations are like a car starting, they buffer in the beginning and run smoothly later. Don't be lose hope in the initial parts of the conversation, things will be better later.