Sex in SL

[Lazaoui]

Sorry

Edited July 20, 2019 by Lazaoui

[Lucia Nightfire]

Ask in the adult section.

https://community.secondlife.com/forums/forum/267-general-discussion/

[Nalates Urriah]

I guess your virtual mom and dad didn't explain... 🤔 SL Sex is something you probably should have a friend help you with. Or you can hire an escort to show you how it all works.

Since this is an answers section... Understand there is more to virtual, pixel, or role play, or whatever you call sex in SL than just fitting the two or more avatars together. That 'fitting' is the simpler part of sex.

Beds, chairs, pool tables... a huge and varied array of things in SL have animations that put the avatars together. So, if you can sit in a chair and change poses, you know the basics of getting the avatars together. There are HUD's, pose balls, rugs, tables, desks, and BDSM furniture that are for having sex and you just sit on them.

The challenging part is meeting someone to hook up with. There are places for that, nude beaches, escort services, dance clubs, strip clubs... Look in the Adult section of the Destination Guide. Explore.

Once you find a place, then it is a matter of how good your pick-up lines are. The other avatar has a person behind it. So, avoid being a self-centered-jerk. There are AFK Sex places where there is no person behind the avatar... usually. AFK places provide a good opportunity to practice. (The Odd AFK Sex Thing…) I think the real excitement comes from another person.

Of course to put genitals together you first have to have them. The quality of genitals ranges from horrible to sophisticated and prices range from free to thousands of Lindens. If you find a hot babe with a smokin body they have probably spent at least L$3k and way likely more on their body. So, wearing a classic body and hitting on them is not likely to work well. However, if you are a smooth silk tongued player you might score even with a classic avatar. Looking good helps in SL just as in RL.

Then there is the role play of having sex... The level varies hugely. It is all about what you say and how you say it.

You need to get past your noob stage. We look at your avatar, how well you control it, and often your profile to decide if you are new. New generally means trouble for the more experienced person and the new are a pain to deal with. So, read up on Stop Being a Noob. Once you have that down, read up on HOW to have sex. You most definitely should read through ALL of the last article.

[Lindal Kidd]

See my blog post: https://acrossthegridwithlindal.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-mechanics-of-cyber-sex.html