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Hey all I been on Second life for a long time and I am finally getting to a place in my heart to want to have a woman to have me as my own for me to show her the love and care and respect that anyone would deserve. Yes I am a Furry aka furry fandom any human woman would be willing to accept that Great :-) I will warn this though I do take SL dating to the Real life thing as well, Yes Meaning I do take it to RL standards when it comes to dating on here meaning you meet me on Second life and if it gets serious I do ask to take it for RL and meet up one day physically not just behind the glass screen of the computer. 

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Why you need to be that rude? Lots of people get a partner for both worlds, playing SL. Who you are for judge that? Live and let it live others. SL is for second chances and enjoy. Everyone decides how to.

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8 minutes ago, Yunahudson said:

Why you need to be that rude? Lots of people get a partner for both worlds, playing SL. Who you are for judge that? Live and let it live others. SL is for second chances and enjoy. Everyone decides how to.

I think you are the rude one, I was stating a fact . 

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4 hours ago, Laika Ravikumar said:

Seriously you need to get out more RL. SL is not a dating service there are plenty of them RL. 

People use SL for all different reasons, and if people want to date and try their luck at meeting a partner on Second Life, then why not? The real world is full of misery, let's at least try and make the second one happy! 

 

2 hours ago, Laika Ravikumar said:

I think you are the rude one, I was stating a fact . 

What you really stated was an opinion, not a fact! We all have them and if yours is different to the OP's then that's totally fine, but maybe you could have constructed it in a way which was helpful and contributed to the original post? Anyway I am not trying to argue, just giving a little insight as to why you may have been called rude.

 

 

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1 hour ago, tomfrostt said:

People use SL for all different reasons, and if people want to date and try their luck at meeting a partner on Second Life, then why not? The real world is full of misery, let's at least try and make the second one happy! 

 

What you really stated was an opinion, not a fact! We all have them and if yours is different to the OP's then that's totally fine, but maybe you could have constructed it in a way which was helpful and contributed to the original post? Anyway I am not trying to argue, just giving a little insight as to why you may have been called rude.

 

 

Thanks for the insight am sure you are right. 

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We should all obviously take your words onboard , actually most SL relationships do not end in RL so ‘lots’ of people who meet on here do not meet up in RL. 

The vast majority are not here to meet up RL they are here for the fantasy. They don’t even want to see how you look RL

So I beg to differ, have a nice day , don’t want to take this any forward you have your opinion which you are entitled to, same as me.

 

 

 

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2 hours ago, tomfrostt said:

What you really stated was an opinion, not a fact!

Sorry, it is a fact that SL is not a dating site. Not that it can't be used as one. I wouldn't recommend it though.

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Please, keep looking not for a person but for your passion, Your Love, Your Courage, Your goals, your Dreams., your happiness, yourself. keep looking. Explore your worth before you explore another. know your worth. Know yourself only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own. 

SL has a love source it has since it started but you have to be yourself also live life many have but love can be rare best to take your time. Yes they have dating places in world but you. I went real myself in the past many others have. 

Love is rare but if you find it good luck. 

 

Places in world. 

AvMatch

Actually Love: After Dark - Dating Agency

Actually Love - Dating Agency

Kashiu Dating Agency, Anime Dating

Drawn To You: Dating and Hangout 

Sweethearts Jazz & Romance Club 

Romance Love and Discipline

Garden of Dreams

Chained Romance Adult Beach

The Woodland Realm Romance 

Romance in the Clouds

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Dating in SL can totally work.

All the caveats of any long distance relationship apply.

Wish you the very best of luck.

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On 5/18/2019 at 3:40 PM, Laika Ravikumar said:

The vast majority are not here to meet up RL they are here for the fantasy. They don’t even want to see how you look RL

 

 

 

dunno i've met 6 in Rl and they lived nowheres near me.. in fact most guys don't even wanna talk to you unless you got voice or a rl pic up.. 

they always mess up though.. they'll pretend to be single, and yet arent.. or they'll be somebody completely different in reality than they are online. 

it's good for people who wanna be somebody else, but if you're gonna date.. they should at least have the same interests in reality as they do in any game/virtual medium they are in. otherwise how do you even know if you have anything in common with them, right?

as for not treating sl as a dating site.. they shouldnt market it as one on the internet- where people can form lasting relationships. even the sl youtube has alot of sl to rl relationship ads. just like every other site where you can meet friends or others to chat to, whether it be text or voice, cam or no cam.. sl needs relationships and friendships to keep it going.. oetherwise we'd just be downloading our own private servers and pretending to do it all alone.. or play sims lol.

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I don't see how dating on SL is all that different than having a long distance relationship...And even if it was can't the whole "seriously you need to get out more RL" be applied to everything done on the internet/SL.

Regardless, I hope you find what/who you are looking for OP! 

 

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Not that this isn't several weeks old, but the whole "SL isn't RL go date in RL" thing is stupid.
 

I was dating someone RL when I met my husband in SL.  The guy was an emotionally abusive alcoholic, and made me feel like crap about my RL self.  When I met my husband, none of my self image issues mattered, because we both looked like pixel blobs to each other (this was in 2006).  So, we were able to start an emotional relationship before a physical one, and it was fantastic.  We've now been married RL for 11.5 years, and have a mental bond that is unbreakable.

So in a way, SL can actually be BETTER than trying to do real world dating.  Get to know each other's emotional self before their physical.   Just, y'know, take everything with a grain of salt until you've actually met.

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On 5/18/2019 at 11:29 AM, Laika Ravikumar said:

I think you are the rude one, I was stating a fact . 

heres a fact- secondlife is promoting itself on youtube and other social media as a place to meet the love of your life. it's got lots of videos maybe you should check out this one :)  and don't worry just cause you haven't met the love of your life in it doesn't mean no one else can.

 

 

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Tech, Darling, pay no mind to these catty women.  If it's sl love followed by rl love you're seeking then why not give me a try?  I'm younger than I look and always up for a good time.  And, to be totally honest, I've always thought fur would look divine on me.  

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3 minutes ago, WilJacobson said:

Tech, Darling, pay no mind to these catty women.  If it's sl love followed by rl love you're seeking then why not give me a try?  I'm younger than I look and always up for a good time.  And, to be totally honest, I've always thought fur would look divine on me.  

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That’s hot.

 

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If i may have my 2 lindens worth on this topic...

Is it possible to talk to others on this grid. Yes.

Is it possible to interact and even make friends on this grid. Yes.

Is it possible to start a RL relationship? Possibly  .. BUT...

Really be upfront about that you are after a RL relationship,

and make quite sure that others you seek are the same.

Also many avatars look nothing like the real life person (some do look like their real life person however.)

This is an international grid. The chance of meeting someone  that is not in your country is quite possible.

Some people build, script, explore etc, and have no desire to do much social on the grid.

Personally, i think you would have more luck at a reputable dating site than here...

Also, there are people out there that will play with your feelings..

Please be careful and good luck, for i feel you will need it. 

Hopefully that wasn't too direct, but to the point.

 

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14 hours ago, kathyparnes1 said:

Really be upfront about that you are after a RL relationship,

How about just be open about RL relationship status, No one needs to look thirsty. 

14 hours ago, kathyparnes1 said:

Also many avatars look nothing like the real life person (some do look like their real life person however.)

No avatars look like the real person. Not a single one.

14 hours ago, kathyparnes1 said:

This is an international grid. The chance of meeting someone  that is not in your country is quite possible.

LDR's and immigration are a nightmare, but doable.

 

 

 

 

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Now I'm wondering if you're wearing the ladybug slippers, or if they are wearing you.

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9 hours ago, CoffeeDujour said:

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Now I'm wondering if you're wearing the ladybug slippers, or if they are wearing you.

Do not peeve the slippers, Ms. Dujour. They're watching  you...
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44 minutes ago, Madelaine McMasters said:

Do not peeve the slippers, Ms. Dujour. They're watching  you...
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Do they have googly eyes, that shake around in the eye-holes?

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5 hours ago, Love Zhaoying said:

Do they have googly eyes, that shake around in the eye-holes?

OMG, I need new contacts, I really thought that said something else....nvm...slinks out the door and goes back to reading....

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12 hours ago, Madelaine McMasters said:

Do not peeve the slippers, Ms. Dujour. They're watching  you...
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Is that spot next to your barn still open?

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