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The 40+ crowd! Do you exist in SL?

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On 11/27/2019 at 3:43 PM, Marut72 said:

It’s like you know me Nadia. I couldn’t have said that better!!!!

Wait until you hit 60.

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On 11/28/2019 at 1:46 PM, Orwar said:


 

You are sweet to answer in hungarian  😊

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On 4/20/2019 at 1:47 PM, Chicky Delicioso said:

I love young people, no offense. I really do.

 

I need people I can relate to.. 30s - 60s if you are out there, say hi! (Girls or gays only)

I don't love to shop.. sorry if thats a disappointment. I do love to play board games and I have pretty much all of them. Happy to go to a club or venue, discussion, etc as long as theres not like 5 people in the room with tip request spam. (tacky!)

I have a foul mouth and am an east coast girl with a big heart. In a long term relationship almost 2 years and already gone RL with him so you don't need to protect your boyfriends from me! I am totally uninterested in that sort of drama. 

Anyway, say hello my mature ladies! 

Oh we are around, trust me on that.

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I may have said this already, but I have found that most of the people I have met in SL have been my age (43) or older.

I welcome anyone to message me. 

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On 4/23/2019 at 2:23 PM, Selene Gregoire said:

Creating drama to avoid drama doesn't work. The only point in even mentioning it, is to create drama.

Two years isn't that long for a serious relationship. It's when you look back at the 20 (or even 10) year relationship that you realize just what long term relationship really means.

I had to laugh when I read this because I can remember when I thought two years was a long time. That use to be my time limit back in the day that would tell me if the relationship lasted past two years and was still good then it could possibly make it for another 18 and hit that 20 year mark. In two years you can pretty much learn all your partners nasty little habits and decide if that is what you really want to see in front of your face for the next 2 decades. lol :D

On 5/14/2019 at 7:41 AM, Kytteh Wytchwood said:

I see you want to believe there are heterosexual men in SL that are harmless but unfortunately 99.9% of the time, a Hi from a guy I don't know, leads to the guy being interested in getting into my avatar's pixel panties. She has every right to state what she wants so you are in the wrong to harass her because you don't like it. I've never had any male who greeted me just only want to be my friend. They always want sex or just want to flirt. Instead of making comments to make fun of this woman, why didn't you just greet her with a hello and lead by example by your own words?

I actually think both @Drake1 Nightfire and @Zeta Vandyke had to really valid points. Drake asked some very reasonable questions in fact and he was not harassing at all. I find it interesting how some would read that and think how dare he ask that. She has ever right blah blah this and that. I find the mentality of society amusing these days because by that exact same logic then I should be able to post the exact same thing opposite of that and it'd be well with in my right. Like nobody is suppose to ask me any questions or anything about it?

So I can make a post and say hey guys I am looking for the over 40 crowd. I only want to talk to the guys because the guys make sense. I don't want to deal with no women because I don't really wanna hear all their yaps and I don't want to hear from no gays because I don't want to hang out with a dude that thinks it's cute to prance around in a freaking dress. So by your logic, the logic of society now days I can say all that and you think what? Nobodies suppose to get offended? Is that what you seriously think? Would I get that same defense of my rights on such a post too? Nah. I think not. I think you and every other Broadzilla out there with teeth would be ready to rip me a new one while all the gay people sit back and have a good laugh. lol :D

It's just really interesting to me the way people think now days. While I don't want to die there is a part of me that is glad even in fact that I won't be around to see the final product of the entire world turning in to poo. ;)

Now in fairness to the OP if I were to wager a guess on such specifications it'd more then likely be because she don't want her ol'man feeling some type of way about her hanging out and running around with a bunch of dudes and that is understandable. Had she worded herself and the post a lot differently nobody would have probably even thought twice about it, but when you make it a point generalize it and then follow it up with to say I don't want x, w, and z then expect to be asked why. That's just common sense to me. It's not rocket science. Come on people.

Now me personally I am in the over 40 crowd and like Zeta pointed out all guys don't do that random hi thing. I don't do it. If we meet we meet because of circumstance. Somebody introduced us, we met threw a friend, etc., etc., and bing badda bing we're talking. Oh lookie now wesa made new friends. lol I got dozens of friends from all walks of life and every side of the fence and yes some of them are in fact female. Very hot females in fact and my interest level in them out side of a platonic friendship is at an absolute complete zero.

Now that's not to say if they wear something hot we don't look. Every straight guy on the planet will always look at a hot lady. It's hardwired in our DNA. lol We can't help it. lol That being said there is RESPECT and that overrides any and everything even our DNA because we know if we don't have that then we don't have nothing.

That's the type of guy Drake is from what I have seen and that's the type of guy that asked the questions he asked and they are in fact very valid and reasonable questions for any guy to look at and ask those same questions to themselves when they read such a post presented in the way and manner of which it was presented. They are the same exact questions that popped in my head when I read it so I obviously did. So if he hadn't have asked I probably would have if for no other reason to understand the OP's train of thought and thought process on all of that.

Like I said I find it interesting and hypocritical even to generalize a post such as this and exclude a group of people in it and be found acceptable and if I had made such as post as referenced in my example I would have been hung out to dry and more then likely copped a forum ban if not at the very least a warning for it. Funny and interesting how the minds of the world work in this new day and age. And there are even some people who think that frame of mind is actually smart. Very interesting indeed. 🙄

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/me raises her hand for the 40+ crowd.  

Most people I meet claim to be 40+ unless I happened to be craving the chaos of a busy infohub and stopped by to observe.  Many of the people there seem to be under 25.

It would appear to be unusual by the comments in this thread, but most of my friends present themselves as straight males.  They are lovely and intelligent and can hold a conversation and my interest for more than a few minutes or a dance.  I get very few just "Hi" messages, so I have to wonder where people teleport to have that kind of thing  continuously happen to them.  Is it music/dancing venues?  Sandboxes? Shopping sims?

Anyway, the 40+ crowd is active in SL and I enjoy it immensely ❤️

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1 hour ago, Cinnamon Mistwood said:

/me raises her hand for the 40+ crowd.  

Most people I meet claim to be 40+ unless I happened to be craving the chaos of a busy infohub and stopped by to observe.  Many of the people there seem to be under 25.

It would appear to be unusual by the comments in this thread, but most of my friends present themselves as straight males.  They are lovely and intelligent and can hold a conversation and my interest for more than a few minutes or a dance.  I get very few just "Hi" messages, so I have to wonder where people teleport to have that kind of thing  continuously happen to them.  Is it music/dancing venues?  Sandboxes? Shopping sims?

Anyway, the 40+ crowd is active in SL and I enjoy it immensely ❤️

You don't have to tp anywhere. You can be hanging out at your own home. Some guys join a group and go through the list IMing all the female names they see. Some don't even bother to look to see if you are online or not.

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34 minutes ago, Selene Gregoire said:

You don't have to tp anywhere. You can be hanging out at your own home. Some guys join a group and go through the list IMing all the female names they see. Some don't even bother to look to see if you are online or not.

Darn, I was going to check out what groups you are a part of, but your profile is set to private or friends only.  I wonder what groups guys think they'll get lucky in.

Still, you have to admire the perseverance of a phishing trip into the members of a random group. 😂

 

(fellow Oregonian)

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40 minutes ago, Cinnamon Mistwood said:

Darn, I was going to check out what groups you are a part of, but your profile is set to private or friends only.  I wonder what groups guys think they'll get lucky in.

Still, you have to admire the perseverance of a phishing trip into the members of a random group. 😂

 

(fellow Oregonian)

All kinds. I've never been in any kind of sex group. Just clothing stores, builder's groups, vendor groups, a few medieval or Pandorian RPs. Nothing even remotely sexual.

More like desperation than perseverance. 😆

 

(*waves* Howdy neighbor!)

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