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I would like the input of the dancers and escorts that work in the clubs.  What are some good tipping guidelines that guys should follow when they are in a club? 

For example:

If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip? 

How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?

Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?

What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?

Just some ideas to get the conversation started.  I am honestly looking for your feedback as it seems guys (including myself) can be clueless.

 

About me - I always tip when in a chair and I try to keep the tips at a steady rate.  I use the tip jar suggestions as a guideline, if the suggested tips are very high I won't even sit down as I know they are out of my price range.  I use my conversation with the dancer to determine the tips, the more they talk the more I tip. If the conversation isn't happening, I move on to free up the chair for someone that just wants to look.  Let me know if I am totally off with my thought process.  

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I worked as dancer for a short time, and I'm currently escorting. My views:

Q: If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip?
A: Expected? Yes. Honestly I think it's rude to enjoy the show (sometimes interacting - spanking, dirty talking) and then leave, like it would be in RL. But I guess it depends on the houses' rules, most of times it's not mandatory to tip, but recommended. In most places, we are advised to NEVER ask for tips, not even suggest it, so it's not like we are there doing a free show for pure personal joy... We simply can't ask.

Q: How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?
A: Mmm, don't guess there is a rule for that. Some guys seem to feel good tipping once in a night, small values, specially when they are leaving. Others, to show their generosity/weath dropping a big tip in the jar, and maybe other days later...

Q: Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?
A: I don't think so. But in my personal case, tips were usually from 10 to 100L, and very rare, big tipping like 500L (in special when we had a good chat and/or they were paving way for more 'services' in future).

Q: What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?
A: Those who tips and start asking for RL information, sending RL pics. I wanna die when it happens. Or those who think they can decide how you should look for him "hey, I'm tipping you, you should have bigger breasts next time, okay hun?". Apart from that, nothing upsets me in a tip (only when they don't give it  =D)

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Thanks for responding!  It always amazes me the things people do in sl that they probably wouldn't do it to (some of them would).  So many jerks out there.

 

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well Wayne, you know you could ask us each privately when you see us ;) (yes, we met.. )

but here are my thoughts, from a club co-owner p.o.w:

If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip? 

Just sit in the dam' chair and have a good time! Sitting does not imply tipping. If some come to your house as a guest, would you like them standing around? Especially when you invited to get themselves comfortable? To me, guest just standing idle makes me feel they are on their way to leave.  It is a duty of the girls on stage to at least try to keep the fun chat going, and make a guest welcomed, regardless of tips.

However, if  and since it is a strip club, you might actualy want to get the girls naked at some point... thats why they dress nicely and have stuff to peel off of them. It is your choice always, but check each clubs rates. you can undress them slowly, 100 bits at a time, or all at once. You may even get special atention for tips, and you wil probably always get emotes as gratitude.

Do some girls considering the free good time being rude? Probably some do. And it usually depends on how far you go. Keeping a girl for 2 hours to chat without any anttention from you, or getting into her IM for that too, would be pushing it. Many girls will excuse themselves and go offline before that happens. Tipping 100-300 to each girl on the stage then just sitting for a good general chat, is quite acceptable. plus around that amount bras tend to become scarce also... just remeber girls WANT to strip, and cuddle closer, and more, thats why are there.

Even if you do not tip, you should stil be able to have a good time, just maybe not the naughtiest one.

How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?

Totally depends on your budget and how much time you have available. Also if there is a club the favours 1-on-1 ( like 1 dance stage, with assigned chairs to that stage ) or a more team-oriented stage ( like a round stage for examples or chairs that by their location/ arangement do not imply you singled a girl out ). If you plan on singling a girl out ( tipping just one and/or Iming her ) i suggest you would take her aside ( probably all clubs have some fees for side cuddles per amount of time ). If you trully want a socially enagaging club expereince that grows naughtier by the minute, tip round... each lady, even in smaller amounts if on budget. They will engage in thanking you and entice you for more... it is how it goes... see how long it takes for all to burn out their tip energy for what you gifted them :). Want a hint when is too late for the next round? they get quieter or turn to pg topics like weather...

Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?

is best to check each clubs fees. i think the general accepted rules is that if a girl got naked, she is usually satisfied from a club guest visit. Also if you look at most fees around, you will see that an 100 tip usually covers about 3-5 minutes of personal attention you get back at max, including the emote you get.

What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?

singleing out a lady when the club is full of beauties. All men have favourites, fair and true. But if you come to a club that is full and tip just one, the others tend to turn greener.This is usualy a forbidden topic, as each guest is more than welcomed to spend their hard earned lindens anyway s/he pleases. BUT in the presence of 4 girls if 1 gets 1000 and the other 3 get zero, is an out loud statement that the others are not worth it, that you are there just for the one. you wil notice them getting silent, some swalow dry and try to ignore you or even excuse themselves and walk out. Nobody wants to feel that way, is usually quite unpleasant. While is stil their duty and job to entertain you, by rewarding selectively you are stating loud and clear who`s attention you want.If you want 1 girl only , take her to a separee and you wil get all her attention. Should it be diffrently? reward them at the end, before leaving, for the performance you got? Maybe, but in the entertainment world, unless you're watching a street corner begger performer, it has always been that you 1st pay the ticket to get to see the performance...

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On 3/23/2019 at 4:32 PM, dokitten said:

well Wayne, you know you could ask us each privately when you see us ;) (yes, we met.. )

but here are my thoughts, from a club co-owner p.o.w:

If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip? 

Just sit in the dam' chair and have a good time! Sitting does not imply tipping. If some come to your house as a guest, would you like them standing around? Especially when you invited to get themselves comfortable? To me, guest just standing idle makes me feel they are on their way to leave.  It is a duty of the girls on stage to at least try to keep the fun chat going, and make a guest welcomed, regardless of tips.

However, if  and since it is a strip club, you might actualy want to get the girls naked at some point... thats why they dress nicely and have stuff to peel off of them. It is your choice always, but check each clubs rates. you can undress them slowly, 100 bits at a time, or all at once. You may even get special atention for tips, and you wil probably always get emotes as gratitude.

Do some girls considering the free good time being rude? Probably some do. And it usually depends on how far you go. Keeping a girl for 2 hours to chat without any anttention from you, or getting into her IM for that too, would be pushing it. Many girls will excuse themselves and go offline before that happens. Tipping 100-300 to each girl on the stage then just sitting for a good general chat, is quite acceptable. plus around that amount bras tend to become scarce also... just remeber girls WANT to strip, and cuddle closer, and more, thats why are there.

Even if you do not tip, you should stil be able to have a good time, just maybe not the naughtiest one.

How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?

Totally depends on your budget and how much time you have available. Also if there is a club the favours 1-on-1 ( like 1 dance stage, with assigned chairs to that stage ) or a more team-oriented stage ( like a round stage for examples or chairs that by their location/ arangement do not imply you singled a girl out ). If you plan on singling a girl out ( tipping just one and/or Iming her ) i suggest you would take her aside ( probably all clubs have some fees for side cuddles per amount of time ). If you trully want a socially enagaging club expereince that grows naughtier by the minute, tip round... each lady, even in smaller amounts if on budget. They will engage in thanking you and entice you for more... it is how it goes... see how long it takes for all to burn out their tip energy for what you gifted them :). Want a hint when is too late for the next round? they get quieter or turn to pg topics like weather...

Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?

is best to check each clubs fees. i think the general accepted rules is that if a girl got naked, she is usually satisfied from a club guest visit. Also if you look at most fees around, you will see that an 100 tip usually covers about 3-5 minutes of personal attention you get back at max, including the emote you get.

What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?

singleing out a lady when the club is full of beauties. All men have favourites, fair and true. But if you come to a club that is full and tip just one, the others tend to turn greener.This is usualy a forbidden topic, as each guest is more than welcomed to spend their hard earned lindens anyway s/he pleases. BUT in the presence of 4 girls if 1 gets 1000 and the other 3 get zero, is an out loud statement that the others are not worth it, that you are there just for the one. you wil notice them getting silent, some swalow dry and try to ignore you or even excuse themselves and walk out. Nobody wants to feel that way, is usually quite unpleasant. While is stil their duty and job to entertain you, by rewarding selectively you are stating loud and clear who`s attention you want.If you want 1 girl only , take her to a separee and you wil get all her attention. Should it be diffrently? reward them at the end, before leaving, for the performance you got? Maybe, but in the entertainment world, unless you're watching a street corner begger performer, it has always been that you 1st pay the ticket to get to see the performance...

Thanks for the response Dokitten!  This is exactly what I am looking for, real feedback.  I appreciate you taking the time to give a well thought out explanation. Hopefully others will find your post and learn from it! 

I admit I am guilty of tipping just one lady (Since we have met before, you might already know that).  I guess my mindset is since she is the one I am talking with (IM conversation) she deserves the $L.  She is the one having an active conversation with me.  However, the fact that you listed it as a pet peeve has me rethinking my ways. (Yes, I am actually trying to learn and improve).  

I have tried asking privately, but it is hard to get the brutally honest feedback I am looking for.  I don't blame them, you don't want to risk offending a potential tipper. 

TIp at the end of a performance?  I guess I just don't trust the human race, especially horny men (coming from a man, that says something).  I like making a lady feel appreciated throughout my time there, it makes for better interaction and dancers (just like waitresses) have a good memory when it comes to who is a good tipper and who is cheap.

Thanks again for the response! 

 

 

 

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On 3/23/2019 at 9:32 PM, dokitten said:

singleing out a lady when the club is full of beauties.

But that's what men do in strip clubs.

Telling a guy it's a petpeeve and pretty much asking for pity tips for the other girls won't make any woman feel better. Sure the Linden might dampen it a little but let's be real now. Stop milking men dry.

If someone has a clear preference, it's NOT wrong, nor should it be a pet peeve at all to live that preference out.

But hey, the sucker up there clearly is listening, so your fabricated guilt trip is going well!

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On 3/23/2019 at 9:32 PM, dokitten said:

also... just remeber girls WANT to strip, and cuddle closer, and more, thats why are there.

Oh silly me - I always thought they did this to have enough virtual currency to keep up with the Joneses...

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On 3/6/2019 at 1:50 AM, Wayne Langer said:

I would like the input of the dancers and escorts that work in the clubs.  What are some good tipping guidelines that guys should follow when they are in a club? 

For example:

If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip? 

How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?

Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?

What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?

Just some ideas to get the conversation started.  I am honestly looking for your feedback as it seems guys (including myself) can be clueless.

 

About me - I always tip when in a chair and I try to keep the tips at a steady rate.  I use the tip jar suggestions as a guideline, if the suggested tips are very high I won't even sit down as I know they are out of my price range.  I use my conversation with the dancer to determine the tips, the more they talk the more I tip. If the conversation isn't happening, I move on to free up the chair for someone that just wants to look.  Let me know if I am totally off with my thought process.  

Just tip some in the club jar on entry if the place is not cheap and save the rest for the main meal

 

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On 3/25/2019 at 7:24 PM, Syn Anatine said:

But hey, the sucker up there clearly is listening, so your fabricated guilt trip is going well!

Lol, not really.  I am aware she is coming from a club owner's view, in which case they want as many girls dancing attracting and keeping as many guys as possible.  Dancers call it a night if things are slow for them.  My experience is they aren't offended, there is just no reason to hang around.  Should everyone get a tip? I tip the ones that interact with me one-on-one.  I don't tip dancing pixels, sorry not sorry.

 

On 3/25/2019 at 7:24 PM, Syn Anatine said:

 Stop milking men dry.

Isn't that why guys go to gentlemen's clubs, to get milked dry...............yeah I went there, I couldn't help myself.

 

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12 hours ago, Wayne Langer said:

Lol, not really.  I am aware she is coming from a club owner's view, in which case they want as many girls dancing attracting and keeping as many guys as possible.  Dancers call it a night if things are slow for them.  My experience is they aren't offended, there is just no reason to hang around.  Should everyone get a tip? I tip the ones that interact with me one-on-one.  I don't tip dancing pixels, sorry not sorry.

 

Isn't that why guys go to gentlemen's clubs, to get milked dry...............yeah I went there, I couldn't help myself.

 

Let me rephrase then. "Stop milking men dry in the bad way." :P

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On 3/26/2019 at 1:24 AM, Syn Anatine said:

But that's what men do in strip clubs.

Telling a guy it's a petpeeve and pretty much asking for pity tips for the other girls won't make any woman feel better. Sure the Linden might dampen it a little but let's be real now. Stop milking men dry.

If someone has a clear preference, it's NOT wrong, nor should it be a pet peeve at all to live that preference out. 

But hey, the sucker up there clearly is listening, so your fabricated guilt trip is going well! 

Well @Syn Anatine

you are totally entitled to your opinion, and even entitled to play devil's advocate... even if according to your inworld profile you seem to not be part of this adult entertainment world at all.

You got me wrong for the most part, i am totally NOT against picking a lady of preference and spoil her more than the others. I was just saying that there are more elegant ways of doing that then tip just one but expect to still be entertained by the whole lot of beauties. Taking her in a more private place, tipping her more for what you get inside your IM...

Each girl has regulars and friends that come to see her only, it is a fact and cannot be a pet peeve, is normal in any world. But what i was going for was a way to explain how a "whole club adult experience" can get even better.

And if you do know the right/good way to milk men dry, feel free to share it, LOL!

@Wayne Langer, thank you for understanding my point, was a pleasure to reply, is just my opinion and i`m glad you get more point of views here, i`m also curious on how people see this. And you are right, you shouldn't be tipping dancing pixels, it's an entertainer's job to interact with you, try to make you react and make you fell welcomed in a club. I would never suggest rewarding a person that ignores you.

On 3/26/2019 at 2:44 AM, Fionalein said:

Oh silly me - I always thought they did this to have enough virtual currency to keep up with the Joneses...

@Fionalein  It is very true most start into this job because of the needof lindens, no reason to hide that fact. However, they don`t seem to last very long if they are not "into it" and do not like the stripping and teasing and the naughty side or feel ashamed about the status we often get.

 

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On 4/2/2019 at 6:56 PM, dokitten said:

Well @Syn Anatine

you are totally entitled to your opinion, and even entitled to play devil's advocate... even if according to your inworld profile you seem to not be part of this adult entertainment world at all.

So I have to be involved in either going to these clubs as a customer or working there in any position to have and share a valid opinion? That is very unsound logic. If an individual is only allowed to share opinions in fields they're experienced in than that makes for a very stale real world doesn't it? Say, I'm a florist (I'm not) I may only talk about botanical things and god forbid I talk about climate change, how the earth isn't flat, the fact I believe pluto should still be classified as a planet, how idiotic parents are for not vaccinating their children...hell you are insinuating I can't even have an opinion about different brands of dog breeds because I've only seen most of them in passing or on pictures since I'm not a breeder. It doesn't work like that and the fact you even brought the bolded part up makes you look bad.

 

On 4/2/2019 at 6:56 PM, dokitten said:

You got me wrong for the most part, i am totally NOT against picking a lady of preference and spoil her more than the others. I was just saying that there are more elegant ways of doing that then tip just one but expect to still be entertained by the whole lot of beauties. Taking her in a more private place, tipping her more for what you get inside your IM..

Have you ever been to a RL adult club? Males will most often than not single out a girl and most men don't necessarily want to take her somewhere private just because of that. Just because they choose to stay in the main room to lavish attention on one girl, doesn't mean the guy behind the computer is even so much as looking at the other girls. They could literally be zoomed in on the object of their lust without giving a dang about the rest. Did you ever take that into account? Why should they spend pity tips on the girls that aren't even on their screen? And while I'm not male, I'd bet twenty bucks the guys zoom the hell out of the girl they think is hot.

 

On 4/2/2019 at 6:56 PM, dokitten said:

And if you do know the right/good way to milk men dry, feel free to share it, LOL!

 It certainly won't include guilt tripping and then backpedaling.

While it's nice you took the time to reply to the OP and answer his questions it's obvious you are running your place as a business. Of course you do, but instead of having the clients fun as the #1 goal, you clearly choose to have Lindens and how to nickel and dime the client as a top priority. Good luck with that.

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You tip the one(s) that entertain you, that's the only logical approach imo. If that means some girls never get any tips, they might consider a change of career, or in their approach on how they do their job.

If you like visiting a club and enjoy just looking at all the girls, yeah go ahead and give them all small tips. But in general, you will engage with one in IM or more services, and that will be the one who "works" for you and earns her tip. You do not tip every waitress at a restaurant either do you? Just the one that works for you.

If you want everyone to earn something you can also add a general tip jar that gets equally shared so people can choose to leave an extra for the group.

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Hi there

If they sit in a chair, are they expected to tip? 

No, not at all. When I used to dance in my own club, I would get tips from most guys. That is beacsue I enteratain them with conversatiuon, occasional erotic emotes and even stripping fro them. Thats what you tip for, not for sitting there and watching my pixels move.

How often should they tip?  What factors might affect it?

I personally prefer a nice tip when he leaves. If he tips inbetween thast ok, I just don't like these "I throw here and there some pennys at you" thing.

Is there a guideline for how much the tips should be?

This really depends on what you can afford and how good was the entertainment. In my case I was not that concerned about the tips for dancing, as my goal was always to "sell" him some time in the bedroom for around 2 to 3.000 L$ an hour. I had between 100 and 1.000 (seriously) as tips. I think everything above 200 is an ok tip, everything above 500 is very good.

What are some tipping pet peeves that really upset you?

  • Enquiries about my RL
  • Begging for free sex
  • ***** pics
  • Lecturing me about my lifestyle
  • Silly questions like: "Is your partner really ok with that?"
  • Being discrespectful because of what I do
  • Using the club as an afk parking lot
  • Leaving without a tip
  • "Ilove you can I meet you after your yourshift?"
  • Trying to redesign my avatar
  • Using the menu to humb at me without permission
  • Unsolicited TP offers
  • Calling the region a SIM <<joke

 

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@Syn Anatine you are the one you picked on my personal pet peeve, which was my personal opinion, whether you agree with it or not. I sure everyone is expert in everything these days, but with your experince in the field you can absolutely throw around names like "pity tips", it doesn't make it valid or true, just like i could say a flower species is called "such-a-smartass-anatine", but it doenst mean that species actualy exist. And yes, i have been to real strip clubs too, and they differ greatly from SL, you knew that?

Both my heart and my business goals are very much in the right place. You probably are not. I`m sorry i gave you the hook to turn Wayne's topic into a bitching area. Look how nice everyone else responded. Opinions were asked, not debates on ones opinion. You have the honor Syn of becoming my 1st ignored user. Yay!

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29 minutes ago, dokitten said:

@Syn Anatine you are the one you picked on my personal pet peeve, which was my personal opinion, whether you agree with it or not. I sure everyone is expert in everything these days, but with your experince in the field you can absolutely throw around names like "pity tips", it doesn't make it valid or true, just like i could say a flower species is called "such-a-smartass-anatine", but it doenst mean that species actualy exist. And yes, i have been to real strip clubs too, and they differ greatly from SL, you knew that?

Both my heart and my business goals are very much in the right place. You probably are not. I`m sorry i gave you the hook to turn Wayne's topic into a bitching area. Look how nice everyone else responded. Opinions were asked, not debates on ones opinion. You have the honor Syn of becoming my 1st ignored user. Yay!

It is funny you still assume I have no real experience with the adult places in SL.

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in my opinion it's just a business as others.

Imagine a client coming into your shop, looking around for minutes or hours and leaving before buying anything and keep doing that everyday or pretty often.

There is no any big difference going to an adult club, enjoying entertainment but not buying any service or tipping them.

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On 6/24/2019 at 9:11 AM, Adrianthe said:

in my opinion it's just a business as others.

Imagine a client coming into your shop, looking around for minutes or hours and leaving before buying anything and keep doing that everyday or pretty often.

There is no any big difference going to an adult club, enjoying entertainment but not buying any service or tipping them.

I agree, which is why if I spend more than 10 min in an adult club I make sure I tip. 

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@Wayne Langer

Most clubs have their tipping guidelines installed somewhere for you to follow, and if they don't, it doesn't hurt to ask a staff member about it.

Btw, 100 linden tip (approx 40 cents) in the club where I work would get you laughed right out of the front door. Most of the women I work with, myself included are professional phone sex operators. On average- we expect 1000 lindens every 5 mins you engage us (that is less than a dollar a minute). For the man that can't afford that, we highly encourage them to go elsewhere.

Some may say we're too expensive, but as the old saying goes, "You get what you pay for".

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13 minutes ago, MoiraOBusty said:

Btw, 100 linden tip (approx 40 cents) in the club where I work would get you laughed right out of the front door. Most of the women I work with, myself included are professional phone sex operators. On average- we expect 1000 lindens every 5 mins you engage us (that is less than a dollar a minute). For the man that can't afford that, we highly encourage them to go elsewhere.

Some may say we're too expensive, but as the old saying goes, "You get what you pay for".

and when patrons are laughed out the front door they do go somewhere else, and they talk about it with their friends. And their wealthy friends go somewhere else also. And the patrons who are laughed at, also goes somewhere else when their fortunes improve

professional RL sex operators don't play on SL as sex operators. Professionals do this in the RL, it is where the real money actually is.  People roleplay as sex operators on SL, they are amateurs, specially the ones who laugh at patrons

a thing that professional operators understand is that every patron is a source of wealth, some of whom are temporarily down on their luck at the moment. The patron won't get what they want without paying for it, but the professionals will always give the patron respect

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1 hour ago, Mollymews said:

and when patrons are laughed out the front door they do go somewhere else, and they talk about it with their friends. And their wealthy friends go somewhere else also. And the patrons who are laughed at, also goes somewhere else when their fortunes improve

professional RL sex operators don't play on SL as sex operators. Professionals do this in the RL, it is where the real money actually is.  People roleplay as sex operators on SL, they are amateurs, specially the ones who laugh at patrons

a thing that professional operators understand is that every patron is a source of wealth, some of whom are temporarily down on their luck at the moment. The patron won't get what they want without paying for it, but the professionals will always give the patron respect

And no one in our environment will give a damn, because at the end of the day, we get paid regardless of a few hurt feelings. 

Also, when I said professional, I am sorry your 1 brain cell thought that meant that we were only phone sex operators on second life. 

FYI, Second life is just one of the many platforms used by phone sex operators to sell their services and despite what you think, the second life environment is amazing for phone sex/rp'ing as it offers another stimulation besides auditory, it gives visual as well. 

It never fails to amaze me how people will walk into an escort house on SL and expect cheap or free service. You don't walk into a doctors or lawyers office and expect free service or try to haggle their service fees, so why do it to women selling sex related services in THEIR establishment? A patron "being down on their luck" is of no concern to us, this is a BUSINESS, not a charity.

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1 hour ago, Mollymews said:

and when patrons are laughed out the front door they do go somewhere else, and they talk about it with their friends. And their wealthy friends go somewhere else also. And the patrons who are laughed at, also goes somewhere else when their fortunes improve

professional RL sex operators don't play on SL as sex operators. Professionals do this in the RL, it is where the real money actually is.  People roleplay as sex operators on SL, they are amateurs, specially the ones who laugh at patrons

a thing that professional operators understand is that every patron is a source of wealth, some of whom are temporarily down on their luck at the moment. The patron won't get what they want without paying for it, but the professionals will always give the patron respect

Actually professional RL sex operators do work in SL because there is just as much money to be made in SL as the actual phone lines for those who know how to do it. I know this because I also do both myself.

Unfortunately these cheap girls who gush over a cheap guy for giving her a 40cent tip do make it harder for girls who are serious about their job and level of service they give. So I 100% agree with laughing these cheap *****s out of the clubs, and if they go and tell their cheap ***** friends? GOOD!

If you want to be cheap and act as if 100L is 100 dollars then there are plenty of places in SL to do that, most of those places have men behind those pretty avatars of course. But if you want a real woman who is professional and will guarantee you the service you seek? STOP BEING A CHEAP *****!

Its really that simple.

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it is not about being patrons being cheap Sami.  They aren't going to get what they won't pay for, that's a given.  It is about respect for the patrons. You know, conducting ourselves with civility and politeness

same way we don't laugh at or ridicule people who walk into any establishment conducting any kind of business

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