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Hey everyone, Honestly i'm looking for a no strings attached Relationship. Where I get spoiled in Lindens, and you get spoiled elsewhere. Anyways, I have a very open mind about any suggestions, and different ideas. I could just give you my time, Maybe sometimes I want your time. Anyways, Wether it goes like this or not, I like friends(:
If any of you are interested, and like to spoil, feel free to message me in game. We can talk all about it.
Anyways yeah so financial rut

CALLING ALL WEALTHY PEOPLE

Will shine shoes..

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51 minutes ago, Vimerietta said:

You call it Sugar Baby, I call it friends with benefits

nope... i call it something totally different not suited for the general section of the forums.
My word isn't meant to be denigrating, patronizing or whatever to get it down, but lets be honest... we don't talk about the carmechanic as if he's a professor either... while both have a quite important job. Sugar Baby is a quite nice way to point to this one.

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6 hours ago, Vimerietta said:

Maybe sometimes I want your time.

Since you're 'friends with benefits' the benefits would go both ways. Would you spoil the other party with Lindens then too since YOU would be asking for THEIR time and not vice versa?

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No, FWB is something else. You can very easily be FWB without any money or gifts involved. In fact, that's usually one defining feature of it, since introducing money or gifts changes the dynamic (presumably to one that's appealing to sugar couples) and may even make it seem like an actual relationship.

On a side note, is there a reason for the current influx of sugar babies? I know they've always been around in SL but I'm sure there weren't this many back in the day. Is it because mesh has increased the costs of beautifying and styling yourself?

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Look, I'm not saying anyone owe's me anything. I mean 2 people compromising themselves to help each other. Wether it be Money, When one person is struggling give them what they need. Visa Versa My dudes. Nothing bad. I'm not a person to just take anyways. I'm just in a very unfortunate situation irl, I have money coming it's just, not rapidly atm. This isn't the season to do what I do irl, So I'm exploring different horizons I'd say. Like, One day I posted on forums about LSL and he said he'd be happy to help me any time he was online, He was going to teach me key things for free. I didn't let him go without paying him for his time and understanding. You guys understand? By the way, you are all right to your opinion.

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36 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

On a side note, is there a reason for the current influx of sugar babies? I know they've always been around in SL but I'm sure there weren't this many back in the day. Is it because mesh has increased the costs of beautifying and styling yourself?

Not founded on real emperical figures, but what i mostly see in their profiles is that most are active as escort or work at adult "clubs". Just a guess there's a lack of clients, to many girls in the same type of job. A more or less steady income aside of the job is welcome.

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11 minutes ago, Vimerietta said:

Visa Versa My dudes.

Wait? You mean your friends? They have a 4 letter world for your job, dude ... and what you just described might not be kosher with the immigration office either...

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I have a theory about money. You definitely need a certain amount of it to be happy; nobody can be happy when they're living hand to mouth, can't pay bills, have to choose between heating or groceries and so on. Once you have your basic needs met, you'll be happier with a certain extra amount; you're happier if you can afford a holiday or to buy a nice outfit for a wedding and so on than if you can't. To a certain extent, money does buy a degree of happiness.

But then you reach a certain wealth level, and past that, more money doesn't make you happier. 

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17 hours ago, Vimerietta said:

You call it Sugar Baby, I call it friends with benefits

Not only is no money usually involved in a "Friends with Benefits" relationship, but part of it is also that there is no commitment, just friendship and sex.  However, typically a Sugar Baby type relationship most definitely involves money and some level of commitment.  Then there is just your basic wh...., um I mean escort, that simply exchanges sex for money with no other expectations from either side.

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12 hours ago, Amina Sopwith said:

But then you reach a certain wealth level, and past that, more money doesn't make you happier.

I am not convinced this is true, but I am more than willing to try it out and see.

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On 2/20/2019 at 9:18 AM, Vimerietta said:

Honestly i'm looking for a no strings attached Relationship. Where I get spoiled in Lindens, and you get spoiled elsewhere. Anyways, I have a very open mind about any suggestions, and different ideas.

Park yourself at an AFK place. If thats not generating enough income, upgrade to be an escort, maybe even with voice or cam service.

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You could go get a Job in real flip burgers or better yourself in education then you can use your  money in world Make your own Sugar cookie store. 

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OP aims to find a guy who pays her bills while she just casually and eventually gives him some sexy time (based on the 'no strings attached'). Unless OP find herself a very naive desperately needy wealthy man, she won't get anywhere with her mind set.

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On 2/21/2019 at 9:01 AM, Zeta Vandyke said:

I am not convinced this is true, but I am more than willing to try it out and see.

I think its true once you hit a really high level of wealth. When you have multiple luxurious houses, have covered every need you and your loved ones could have and can basically do whatever you want all day long. Then it doesn't matter if you earn another milion, in terms of happyness. On the other hand the first milion you get makes you extremely happy.

I've heard this concept before in philosophy class in school, although the example there was food.

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Buying Sugar is really cheap at that store it comes in bags can bake with that you could just make cookies start up that way as I said. 

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1 hour ago, Syo Emerald said:

I think its true once you hit a really high level of wealth. When you have multiple luxurious houses, have covered every need you and your loved ones could have and can basically do whatever you want all day long. Then it doesn't matter if you earn another milion, in terms of happyness. On the other hand the first milion you get makes you extremely happy.

I've heard this concept before in philosophy class in school, although the example there was food.

I am always amazed that even billionaires are hell bent on getting richer, even if they risk going to jail. It can’t really make much if any difference in their happiness level, unless they are spending it all on making life better for others.

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6 hours ago, Sylvannas Zulaman said:

OP aims to find a guy who pays her bills while she just casually and eventually gives him some sexy time (based on the 'no strings attached'). Unless OP find herself a very naive desperately needy wealthy man, she won't get anywhere with her mind set.

So she isn't looking for a sugar daddy so much as she is looking to be some rich fat cat's mistress, in the old fashioned sense of the word.

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8 hours ago, Syo Emerald said:

I think its true once you hit a really high level of wealth. When you have multiple luxurious houses, have covered every need you and your loved ones could have and can basically do whatever you want all day long. Then it doesn't matter if you earn another milion, in terms of happyness. On the other hand the first milion you get makes you extremely happy.

I've heard this concept before in philosophy class in school, although the example there was food.

I do actually agree with you. At a certain point enough is enough. I think it becomes an obsession though, wanting more and more. Once I get to that point ill let you know what happens... 

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