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curious... is there any type of dating/ match up service for sl?

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18 hours ago, Catrie said:

Besides, my partner would kill me if I did something like that. 

Well he should have gotten a signature body then, not your fault is it? 😛

 

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1 hour ago, Zeta Vandyke said:

Well he should have gotten a signature body then, not your fault is it? 😛

   I've got both of them!

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Just now, Orwar said:

   I've got both of them!

Ohhh you have two! Can I date the other one then? Catrie surely does not need both of them...

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Just now, Zeta Vandyke said:

Ohhh you have two! Can I date the other one then? Catrie surely does not need both of them...

   I mean, every time I see you I'm reminded of my cousin, so I don't know if that would work out ... 

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2 minutes ago, Orwar said:

   I mean, every time I see you I'm reminded of my cousin, so I don't know if that would work out ... 

Still look like her?? After I changed my hair, and skin, just for you!

... my heart is broken

So, Neph is no option either then?

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7 minutes ago, Zeta Vandyke said:

So, Neph is no option either then?

   You'll have to ask Cat! 

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3 hours ago, Orwar said:

You'll have to ask Cat! 

 

Sorry, I'm keeping Neph all to myself and Py.

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7 hours ago, Orwar said:

No, but you'd beg me to ... 🤗

and enjoy every minute of it, dear.  💕

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On 3/15/2019 at 8:46 AM, Donna Underall said:

Back in the day, when SL was wilder and had fewer limits, if guys acted that way with me I could set them on fire.  The only way to put it out was for him to log.

I still have my Orbit Gun. Want a copy? Because, as you should remember, back then it was all about SL Community, so everything was full perms. :D

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3 hours ago, Alyona Su said:

I still have my Orbit Gun. Want a copy? Because, as you should remember, back then it was all about SL Community, so everything was full perms. :D

I somehow lost mine over the years - one of those odd SL inventory things, probably.  I'd love a copy, if you wouldn't mind dropping me one sometime.   :)

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My experience : It is much more easy to talk with people in a place somewhere than using dating site in SL.

I am experimenting a dating site. First you have to check each panel and read a text to make your selection. then you decide if you like or not.

I tryed to contact 2 or 3 peoples but I must say it is really hurtfull because people expect something than I didn't give maybe. You have to know the rules and the code or the culture. If you try like that it does not work. At least it is not my way to communicate. As I like to know the person with I am talking. And slowly in the conversation I feel if we understand each other what we have in common etc... I am like that. Maybe I am weird

First contact she said that my avatar was not nice and bye bye. left. Total 2 mn max

Second contact : the  person talk to me like he or she was my teacher with lot of judgement I am like this and like that etc.... with qualificatif that I don't understand but I feel was very negative and finaly --> block All that with strange conversation not live but off line. Total misunderstanding reciprocal. I never saw the communication was off line.

 

My conclusion is : dating site is nice but the expectation is very hight in both way. I don't believe that people don't expect anything and are happy just with a chat or friendship. The code rules culture has to be know before. I experiment it without knowing it. And as usualy with me I don't do things in the right way and it does not work.  Let's talk with people fishing dancing or other place it is much more easy. You will not be blocked

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On 3/20/2019 at 2:21 PM, Alyona Su said:

I still have my Orbit Gun. Want a copy? Because, as you should remember, back then it was all about SL Community, so everything was full perms. :D

Yes!  I would love a copy of the Orbit Gun!  

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On 3/15/2019 at 8:01 AM, Donna Underall said:

Ugh!  Do NOT do that.  I had a SL stalker come to where I worked in RL because I was careless.  It was just too scary when he wouldn't leave.  Be very, very careful!

Did you call the police at least?

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On 3/20/2019 at 12:58 PM, Scylla Rhiadra said:

I kind of love where this whole thread has gone. 

Yeah.  Hey, OP!  Consider this thread your dating service!

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Dating isn't easy on in Second Life may find good apple then up rotten one I know went threw already thought had "the one" end up being wanted more one girlfriends already two days ago a man came up to ask me do I want coffee I asked him isn't coffee or sex and then he poofed so I got my answer. I love to find the one on here most i find are not to bright or starting second life first time has no clue how it works..

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❤️❤️  Love is a choice. You don't find the perfect relationship, you create it!   When Second life began  it was all created   all the art together with love. Go and connect with others make a friend if the spark is their  with love it will happen when it happens you start as friends and more. Communication the soul connection with the deep connection the laughter and love and making someone smile.❤️❤️

 

 

 

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On 3/20/2019 at 2:21 PM, Alyona Su said:

I still have my Orbit Gun. Want a copy? Because, as you should remember, back then it was all about SL Community, so everything was full perms. :D

Oh that is priceless.  I need an orbit gun. Giggles evilly😼.

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I'm a butterfly here. I don't seek either a 'relationship' or commitment. I just want to log on when I can, and do what I want, without having to accommodate anyone else. 

Despite that being my plan, I make friends from chance encounters, and I have a lot of fun doing that. Very occasionally that might involve pixel bumping, but that is rare. When I'm out hunting (for decent conversation), I will sometimes go along with the creeps who tp me home to show their fully equipped bedroom/BDSM lounge/porno art gallery blah blah blah.

Obviously that never ends well for them, although it can be entertaining at times.

So from that rambling on, I just think the best way to hook up with others is not to look. It just happens. My IM ratio is probably 80% inbound/ 20% outbound.

Only a tiny percentage go beyond one chat. I got "come closer" yesterday. Instant 'shields up' moment. 🛸

 

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