Alyona Su Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 1 hour ago, halebore Aeon said: But if you leave a review, that seems negative. Even if it is constructive criticism. Like hey, I really like your product, but there are a few things I would change about it. They instantly take it down, that is the issue today. No one likes constructive criticism and will delete those reviews instantly. So it's rather moot to review anything these days, RL or SL. Some will do that. Which is why I keep tabs on it and I will flag it over, and over, and over each time they do that as it is a TOS violation. But it also *rarely* happens. Most legitimate merchants will simply respond to the review. Now if I contact the merchant and no response after a week, or they are rude and unfriendly about things, then I am prepared for any review to become delisted, and ready to flag away. Based on your comment, *I get the impression that* you are paranoid about leaving reviews at the marketplace that are detailed and truthful, even if negative because then the creator may take it down to clear your review. Which, to me, is you allowing them to win. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kali Wylder Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 On 5/26/2019 at 12:09 AM, EveniosReturns38 said: yada yada yada.... basic SL social relations: you don't own the people on your friends list. That list just means you have met them before and engaged in a conversation that resulted in a friendship request being accepted. true friendship develops over time with shared experiences. If: you consistently IM someone the moment you see them log on Then: It should not be surprising when they remove your ability to see when they log on. People like to read notices, invites etc. and change their clothes before prior to engaging in chit chat. Or they might have a specific purpose for logging in and want to accomplish it in a limited amount of time. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EveniosReturns38 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 (edited) 5 minutes ago, kali Wylder said: Just because you can doesn't mean you should. - when someone posts their lists of pet peeves and you are tempted to personally attack them for it. good advice for us all. Edited May 28, 2019 by EveniosReturns38 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 46 minutes ago, EveniosReturns38 said: - when someone posts their lists of pet peeves and you are tempted to personally attack them for it. good advice for us all. What is it like to have absolutely no self awareness? What is it like to complain of a bad smell everywhere you go, and yet be utterly convinced that it's everyone else? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selene Gregoire Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Latest new pet peeve: People who post a bunch of what they claim to be pet peeves but in reality are just a means of trying to control manipulate others so they can accuse those others of personal attacks that never happened. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolig Loon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: What is it like to complain of a bad smell everywhere you go, and yet be utterly convinced that it's everyone else? It's called Chutzpah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 7 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: What is it like to have absolutely no self awareness? It's pretty damn great. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Mistwalker Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 19 minutes ago, Madelaine McMasters said: It's pretty damn great. … sets you on fire Snugs said I could. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 28 minutes ago, Madelaine McMasters said: It's pretty damn great. I know just the guy for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 34 minutes ago, Rolig Loon said: It's called Chutzpah. Oy vey, but no. Chutzpah, that is just cheekiness, yes? But this man, he has all the schlimazel, but it is everyone else's fault, nu? He has so much tsuris, always he kvetches. Perhaps he could learn to treat people with respect, nu? Even older women and submissives, nu? This consent, nobody owes it to him, nu? Oy gvult, until he learns to behave properly, he is gornisht helfn, he will get bupkis. Feh! 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolig Loon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Ikh bin mskhim. Deyn visn fun eydish iz fil beser vi mayn. <<< And you can thank Google Translate for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela Galli Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 45 minutes ago, Selene Gregoire said: Latest new pet peeve: People who post a bunch of what they claim to be pet peeves but in reality are just a means of trying to control manipulate others so they can accuse those others of personal attacks that never happened. That's my latest one too, esp re crybabies who drag their personal issues into the forum in order to get sympathy or orchestrate some kind of revenge. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 19 minutes ago, Rolig Loon said: Ikh bin mskhim. Deyn visn fun eydish iz fil beser vi mayn. <<< And you can thank Google Translate for that. "Ikh is mskhim. The dough is fun fun eydish iz file we mayn." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerilynn Lemon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 20 minutes ago, Rolig Loon said: Ikh bin mskhim. Deyn visn fun eydish iz fil beser vi mayn. <<< And you can thank Google Translate for that. 6 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: "Ikh is mskhim. The dough is fun fun eydish iz file we mayn." Haven't a clue to what that means (thanks Google Translate) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolig Loon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Yeah, and thank Google Translate for that too. Why couldn't chutzpah be Swedish? That would be so much easier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 I was using this: https://www.dailywritingtips.com/the-yiddish-handbook-40-words-you-should-know/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolig Loon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 14 minutes ago, Jerilynn Lemon said: Haven't a clue to what that means (thanks Google Translate) It's what I got when I ran Rolig's post through Google Translate. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerilynn Lemon Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 5 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: It's what I got when I ran Rolig's post through Google Translate. Google Translate must be high today. I get " Their bin MSKHIM. Dane wisn von aydish of fil beser you mine " and shows as russian. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Huntsman Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 3 hours ago, Alyona Su said: Based on your comment, *I get the impression that* you are paranoid about leaving reviews at the marketplace that are detailed and truthful, even if negative because then the creator may take it down to clear your review. Which, to me, is you allowing them to win. Yeah, but it's not paranoia. More annoyance than anything, you try to leave a very nice, and detailed message about what you as the customer, is having a problem with. They immediately delete it, so it's like. What's the freakin point? Your voice is just gonna be silenced anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selene Gregoire Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 12 minutes ago, halebore Aeon said: Yeah, but it's not paranoia. More annoyance than anything, you try to leave a very nice, and detailed message about what you as the customer, is having a problem with. They immediately delete it, so it's like. What's the freakin point? Your voice is just gonna be silenced anyways. It isn't paranoia when you know they are out to get you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love Zhaoying Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 So much whine, “yadda yadda yadda”! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyelaNewLife Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 14 hours ago, Love Zhaoying said: So much whine, “yadda yadda yadda”! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyelaNewLife Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 tl:dr 4 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 I can't even . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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