Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 I can admit when I was wrong. I can admit to letting my anger get the best of me. No, I wasn’t right for being foul to people and I apologize for it. It was a horrible thing to do and I should have been mature about it. And, to Seicher and Beth and whoever else I bad mouthed, I truly apologize. I saw red and was simply out to hurt. I didn’t care and it was childish of me. But, I refuse to make it seem like I’m the only one in the wrong. In the end, all I want is just to share my photos and hope others will enjoy it with me. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth Macbain Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 (edited) Not going down the rabbit hole again. Time to close the forums for the day. Edited April 24, 2020 by Beth Macbain 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 57 minutes ago, ClariceRose said: She's right, just saying. I don't have a bone in this but I've seen it in the past. People harass Ashlyn and think that's ok, but she's not allowed to defend herself. That's my pet peeve for the day. People who can dish out but can't take. I didn't have a bone in it either, as I'd never exchanged a word with her before today. A short while ago, I suggested that if other people were getting more likes than she was on an avatar vanity thread, it might be because their avatars were better. She "defended herself" by swearing at me. She's edited it now, but there's been no apology. She's also now making excuses for sending death threats to someone. I don't know, what has anyone been "dishing out" to warrant this kind of "self defence"? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solar Legion Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 5 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: I didn't have a bone in it either, as I'd never exchanged a word with her before today. A short while ago, I suggested that if other people were getting more likes than she was on an avatar vanity thread, it might be because their avatars were better. She "defended herself" by swearing at me. She's edited it now, but there's been no apology. She's also now making excuses for sending death threats to someone. I don't know, what has anyone been "dishing out" to warrant this kind of "self defence"? Nothing - not for the response level anyway. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 4 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: I didn't have a bone in it either, as I'd never exchanged a word with her before today. A short while ago, I suggested that if other people were getting more likes than she was on an avatar vanity thread, it might be because their avatars were better. She "defended herself" by swearing at me. She's edited it now, but there's been no apology. She's also now making excuses for sending death threats to someone. I don't know, what has anyone been "dishing out" to warrant this kind of "self defence"? I did apologize, but in case you didn’t see it I’m sorry for swearing at you. It’s taking a lot of balls for me to say that considering you basically called my avatar ugly. But, it’s all good. Like I said, I’m sorry. If you or anyone else chooses not to accept it then that’s fine. I can make ten million apologies and it won’t mean absolutely nothing if those people choose not to accept it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 13 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said: Not going down the rabbit hole again. Time to close the forums for the day. Eat, drink, sleep, rest, come back soon, Beth. It does get a little tedious at times for sure. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 (edited) 18 minutes ago, Ashlyn Voir said: I did apologize, but in case you didn’t see it I’m sorry for swearing at you. It’s taking a lot of balls for me to say that considering you basically called my avatar ugly. But, it’s all good. Like I said, I’m sorry. If you or anyone else chooses not to accept it then that’s fine. I can make ten million apologies and it won’t mean absolutely nothing if those people choose not to accept it. I'd rather have no apology at all than a mealy-mouthed fauxpology designed to attempt to spread the blame for your own actions (you sent death threats???). You know, by claiming you're "not the only one in the wrong" or that I called your avatar ugly when I did no such thing, or that others are at fault if they don't accept said fauxpologies. If you really are sorry then please leave us all alone and go and work on yourself with someone who's qualified to help you. Edited April 24, 2020 by Amina Sopwith 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sassy Kenin Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 2 minutes ago, Ashlyn Voir said: I did apologize, but in case you didn’t see it I’m sorry for swearing at you. It’s taking a lot of balls for me to say that considering you basically called my avatar ugly. But, it’s all good. Like I said, I’m sorry. If you or anyone else chooses not to accept it then that’s fine. I can make ten million apologies and it won’t mean absolutely nothing if those people choose not to accept it. This won't be my most popular posting😁 My advice is just use the mute features/tools on the forum, only read things when logged in..I've had to mute several who think they run the forums or claim to be linden pets..most people here are not looking to argue and can be very helpful but a handful want to argue with you so you get in trouble...BTW I like your work & pictures🙂 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 1 minute ago, Sassy Kenin said: This won't be my most popular posting😁 My advice is just use the mute features/tools on the forum, only read things when logged in..I've had to mute several who think they run the forums or claim to be linden pets..most people here are not looking to argue and can be very helpful but a handful want to argue with you so you get in trouble...BTW I like your work & pictures🙂 I think I realize that now unfortunately. My apologies are called phony but I really meant it. Anyway, thank you for being kind and I truly appreciate it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: I'd rather have no apology at all than a mealy-mouthed fauxpology designed to attempt to spread the blame for your own actions (you sent death threats???). You know, by claiming you're "not the only one in the wrong" or that I called your avatar ugly when I did no such thing, or that others are at fault if they don't accept said fauxpologies. If you really are sorry then please leave us all alone and go and work on yourself with someone who's qualified to help you. If you don’t believe it then that’s on you. I’m not going to keep apologizing if you don’t want it or care about it. I owned up to my actions and that’s that. Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 9 minutes ago, Ashlyn Voir said: If you don’t believe it then that’s on you. I’m not going to keep apologizing if you don’t want it or care about it. I owned up to my actions and that’s that. Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day. Nothing is "on me". I am not responsible for the appalling way you have treated people, and I owe you nothing for it. Now if you're really sorry, please leave me alone. And speak to a professional in RL. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 2 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said: Nothing is "on me". I am not responsible for the appalling way you have treated people, and I owe you nothing for it. Now if you're really sorry, please leave me alone. And speak to a professional in RL. Please take care of yourself and enjoy the rest of your day 💜 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Huntsman Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 1 hour ago, AylinVali said: Oh lordy, you're right. How did I forget those abominations? Edit: and my newest pet peeve of the day, my inability to find cute gothic or ouji styled clothing for my body (V tech/maitreya) that isn't overly skimpy. (I do like some skimpy but sometimes i just wanna be a cute prince ok..) Heck, it's hard to find some stuff I like that is not overly skimpy or makes me feel like I am way too revealing. Being that I am very modest in how I dress, I tend to float to certain companies in SL. But it does get hard to be adventurous and leave those brands and try to not look like a skimpy bombshell. Lol 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seicher Rae Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 Any time I get accused of being lumped into a Forum Elite, posse, gang... I don't know if it is a pet peeve or amusing. My Forum memory goes back a long ways, and yeah... no. Not even close. Pet peeve: People who tell me I have no idea what it is like to have a troll. Again, many folks with long memories will understand why that bugs me. Pet peeve: Still having to deal with snow in RL. Pet peeve: Getting 202 (? I think that's the number) notices when trying to post images (often gifs) to the Forum that are way under the limit of 4.88MB. Pet peeve: Not remembering where I left my avatar or what state of dress (or undress) she's in which hampers my logging in from a landmark given in a blog post, unless I want to live dangerously. 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kali Wylder Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 42 minutes ago, halebore Aeon said: Heck, it's hard to find some stuff I like that is not overly skimpy or makes me feel like I am way too revealing. Being that I am very modest in how I dress, I tend to float to certain companies in SL. But it does get hard to be adventurous and leave those brands and try to not look like a skimpy bombshell. Lol Now that we have BOM, you can always make a system under-shirt for your self with a modest neck line to wear under things that would be nice if they weren't so skimpy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seicher Rae Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 2 hours ago, AylinVali said: and my newest pet peeve of the day, my inability to find cute gothic or ouji styled clothing for my body (V tech/maitreya) that isn't overly skimpy. (I do like some skimpy but sometimes i just wanna be a cute prince ok..) Don't know if this does it but have you tried Oubliette? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kali Wylder Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said: Pet peeve: Not remembering where I left my avatar or what state of dress (or undress) she's in which hampers my logging in from a landmark given in a blog post, unless I want to live dangerously. been there, done that, peeved at self over it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kali Wylder Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 Pet peeve, Just once I'd like my pricing math to come up with the same number as the original processor's and/or the provider's appeal. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said: Pet peeve: Not remembering where I left my avatar or what state of dress (or undress) she's in which hampers my logging in from a landmark given in a blog post, unless I want to live dangerously. Living dangerously is what SL is for. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selene Gregoire Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 3 hours ago, Beth Macbain said: Oh FFS. Can my pet peeve be people who defend people who send death threats to other people? What the? Man, that's a damn good way to get yourself (general) locked up for a long, long time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kali Wylder Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, Selene Gregoire said: What the? Man, that's a damn good way to get yourself (general) locked up for a long, long time. I don't think that being peeved is a crime. Death threats on the other hand, can be prosecuted 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love Zhaoying Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 3 hours ago, Selene Gregoire said: Pics or it didn't happen. Keeps happening to my right shoulder from stumbling drunk into door frames! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love Zhaoying Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 17 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said: Don't know if this does it but have you tried Oubliette? Is that like a bidet? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 (edited) Why bother if they’re just going to keep pressing it? im also still seeing posts from people I blocked. Why? Edited April 24, 2020 by Ashlyn Voir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amina Sopwith Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 7 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said: Is that like a bidet? Isn't an oubliette named after the French word for "forget"? If you can forget that you're using a bidet, it's not working! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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