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~~~ SPOIL ME & I'LL SPOIL YOU~~~~

My perfect relationship situation-
Seeking a man who likes to take control. A loving man who likes to show a woman she is appreciated. I love gifts and being in a virtual world; it is hard to feel a togetherness connection without showering your special someone with attention, loyalty, gifts, and affection. As a woman, I appreciate knowing that you are thinking about me; and wanting to make my time in world as happy and comfortable as possible. I dont mind giving you 100% of my attention when here; and not being employed as I prefer to feel spoiled by my man. I shouldn't have to feel burdoned with working here everyday if I am in a relationship & dedicating all of my time to my man :) , as I am my happiest when I feel a strong male presence; who wants to take care of his woman. I am very giving too, so my man will be spoiled too with just as much affection here in world; don't you worry. Just as in the real world, I feel that as a woman, I want to feel a protection and comfort in knowing my man can hold everything together and take care of his woman.
I'm not one of those hoes, who will be with you but still wanna be dancing all up on a pole everyday. I am not a dancer, so that is a plus!!! As most women seem to hold that as their employment in world. I will give you my loyalty if you give me your generosity.

So many men here I have met and dated do not have any creativity or generosity. Never planning a special place to take me, or even taking me on a date. I always seem to be the one planning those special moments, and being left disappointed on the other end. I want to feel what it is like to feel wanted here; as silly as that sounds. I will be honest, I am in a relationship in real life; but an unhappy one; where I do not feel very happy and wanted. I feel like I am stuck here, and SL gives me a way to perhaps experience that side of this game. I don't want to sound like I am a gold digger, or want to be a sugar baby; what I am seeking instead is the feeling of a real relationship here. With romantic gestures; time spent together, & the gifts are just a little special reminder that you are special to someone here. I have never experienced that. If you are out there. Drop me a line........Maybe we vibe well; and I will warn you I can be a freak at times :P

Would be open to roleplay. Open to exploring with that perfect man. Open to a family. Just wanting to find that special someone to spend my time with here. I am open even to exploring having children; or not (If that is not something you want to explore).... It's not something I am dead set on, but I am willing to try with someone special if that is the direction we decide to go in

I do not mind if you are single, married, or in a relationship in RL as right now I am trying to find myself again; and feel love (Even if just here in world)....

SL ONLY for now. please & thank you. We can discuss things as it progresses, or doesn't. I am open to seeing where things go

 

A little about me

I am 35 years old. I am in the USA Texas. I prefer someone in the USA as well, as it is hard to be on at the same time when we are both accross the world.

I do have a photo in world, yes that is me; yes I feel comfortable sharing that here. I prefer someone who also feels comfortable sharing at least who they are; so I know who I am developing feelings for. Of course, some ananimity is good in SL, especially in the beginning; so no. I won't require your name or outside SL contact information.

I do voice on occasion. I usually must feel comfortable with you before I do voice, at least in long conversations; I can't really explain why, it just feels odd to talk on voice to total strangers I dont know, until I become comfortable with an individual..... Maybe thats just me. dunno.

I am an artist. I enjoy painting in my freetime, so I am creative. I am also a stoner, so if you have problems with Cannabis in general we probably shouldn't hang out. lol

I love exploring here in Sl and doing different things, even if it is roleplaying having a dinner together, sometimes those things make you feel closer to someone, as if they are really there with you. I also love taking photos, I dabble a little in photography; & building. Share with me your passions here. I would love to learn about you!

 

❤️ Enjolie Mccullough

Please sent me a notecard in world, if I am not online as my IMS get capped by stupid group messages lol. At least then I can get back to you & not lose your communication :)

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...yepp seems that way..... sadface. ...

So the night of this posting, I also made a board at a dating agency, and I met someone whom I actually clicked incredibly well with. Then today, I get a message saying "This isnt going to work with us" with a copy of this posting here from the forum..... I made the forum post before we even met, so I really didnt see why the issue; mainly bc I was completely up front about everything I said in here. With them in our own conversations. SO there should be no surprise. However, now I really wish I could just delete this post, because all it has done is left me feeling sad

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Just now, Enjolie McCullough said:

...yepp seems that way..... sadface. ...

So the night of this posting, I also made a board at a dating agency, and I met someone whom I actually clicked incredibly well with. Then today, I get a message saying "This isnt going to work with us" with a copy of this posting here from the forum..... I made the forum post before we even met, so I really didnt see why the issue; mainly bc I was completely up front about everything I said in here. With them in our own conversations. SO there should be no surprise. However, now I really wish I could just delete this post, because all it has done is left me feeling sad

you can report it and ask the mod to remove, not sure they will, but if they do you'r free of this history.
Think twice if you post information that can work against you :)

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Cindy. Thank you for that, you are so right...

Then after he sent me a link. I tried to respond to him and literally it said "This member has blocked you for being a dumb *****, have a great day" and im like WTF, I can't even respond to any of it? So, you're right. How can you try to get to know someone who completely shuts you out when they get angry and irrational.

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6 minutes ago, Enjolie McCullough said:

Cindy. Thank you for that, you are so right...

Then after he sent me a link. I tried to respond to him and literally it said "This member has blocked you for being a dumb *****, have a great day" and im like WTF, I can't even respond to any of it? So, you're right. How can you try to get to know someone who completely shuts you out when they get angry and irrational.

Hopefully he is following this thread and can see your responses and that we think he is the dumb whatever ;) 

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well. I posted this Wed morning at a lil past midnight @ 12:16 am.. Went to sleep and woke up and had my first conversation with this person on Wednesday at 11 am. Almost 12 hours had passed from me posting this, and our first communication. I checked chat log to make sure of the time. he is claiming I posted this at 6 am I am guessing he doesn't know how to tell time on chat logs? Either way I never spoke to him til 11 am in the morning, so why would it even matter anyway??? lmao. He unblocked me for a moment, and now I just think he might be a lunatic.Whatever though, you've helped me feel a bit better, so I thank you :) I won't dwell on this anymore. I'll just leave up the post, and see what happens; which, im not optimistic anything will lol, but we shall see.

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1 hour ago, Enjolie McCullough said:

Cindy. Thank you for that, you are so right...

Then after he sent me a link. I tried to respond to him and literally it said "This member has blocked you for being a dumb *****, have a great day" and im like WTF, I can't even respond to any of it? So, you're right. How can you try to get to know someone who completely shuts you out when they get angry and irrational.

better now than after you had invested months in the relationship ?

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You dodged a bullet. He is most likely a stalker/googler to have found the post. So, imagine a month down the track, or two, when his overbearing nature really shows and you find yourself tied down to your home, forbidden to leave, and unable to have friends. Then when he finally cracks over something and stalks some more, this time on personal details you shared.

Personally I thought your post was fine, anyone who was offended by that has to have a screw loose.

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20 hours ago, Enjolie McCullough said:

Cindy. Thank you for that, you are so right...

Then after he sent me a link. I tried to respond to him and literally it said "This member has blocked you for being a dumb *****, have a great day" and im like WTF, I can't even respond to any of it? So, you're right. How can you try to get to know someone who completely shuts you out when they get angry and irrational.

OMG, girl.  You just dodged a bullet.  Don't let him hurt you by him showing his true self.  

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be glad he bolted sounds to me like he was more interested in playing you in the long run doesn't matter if you posted on here first. the sad part is in percentage wise witch is pretty long so not gonna break it down too much but about 25% (actually the percentage is higher than that but w/e) of the guys on here will play you and than leave you or more often than not dangle you along while they get with your other female friends the whole spoiling only comes into play when they know or if they think it'll get them something extra...I've been gone for 8 yrs just came back oh about 6 months ago yeah took a break from SL but when I was on hell I spoiled everyone equally if you was friend chances are you'd be spoiled too but to expect other males to spoil you don't hold your breath Lady McCullough. as for this guy that blocked you my best advice is forget him as I said before sounds to me like he was more interested in what he could get than actually getting to know you.  

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47 minutes ago, Caine Kestrel said:

be glad he bolted sounds to me like he was more interested in playing you in the long run doesn't matter if you posted on here first. the sad part is in percentage wise witch is pretty long so not gonna break it down too much but about 25% (actually the percentage is higher than that but w/e) of the guys on here will play you and than leave you or more often than not dangle you along while they get with your other female friends the whole spoiling only comes into play when they know or if they think it'll get them something extra...I've been gone for 8 yrs just came back oh about 6 months ago yeah took a break from SL but when I was on hell I spoiled everyone equally if you was friend chances are you'd be spoiled too but to expect other males to spoil you don't hold your breath Lady McCullough. as for this guy that blocked you my best advice is forget him as I said before sounds to me like he was more interested in what he could get than actually getting to know you.  

Are there any chances to make you using punctuation characters?
No one is asking for a overwhelming text with fancy words or expressions. But if you just would use commas, or at least a dot to mark the end of a sentence, that would be awesome and help us to understand, what you want to tell us. The way its written at the moment, wants me stop reading after 3 lines already.

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30 minutes ago, Resi Pfeffer said:

Are there any chances to make you using punctuation characters?
No one is asking for a overwhelming text with fancy words or expressions. But if you just would use commas, or at least a dot to mark the end of a sentence, that would be awesome and help us to understand, what you want to tell us. The way its written at the moment, wants me stop reading after 3 lines already.

I thought it was a quote from James Joyce!

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