Question About Passing NO COPY and them Declining

[Cranky String]

So can anyone tell me what happens to items that are passed and are no copy and they are declined.. Is there a way to contact sl and ask them to send it back to me.. the person didn't want it. and just declined it all

[Clarissa Lowell]

I think the items disappear. I told a girl I wanted to send some no copy gifts during an SL anniversary party I had just attended. They said please send to their boyfriend instead. The party was going on and they were hosting. So I did, and he declined every single one - and I was out all of that money for nothing.

When I told the girl what happened, she said "oh send them again." People don't get it. I hope anyone reading this will know to accept gifts when you throw a party in SL, because some people will send them to you. LOL

I do have one suggestion. Maybe if you let the creator know what happened they will send you a store credit or something out of pity. But it is really not their obligation. I'm not saying you meant it was.

[Venus Petrov]

Sorry, this is not something Linden Lab can fix for you.  Next time, let the person know that you will be sending them something and to watch for it.  If they had accepted and then decided they did not want it, they could send it back to you. 

However, declining it sends it into the great pixel heaven in the sky.

[Peewee Musytari]

When you decline things that are sent to you (unless they are sent by a scripted server system such as the Marketplace uses) should go to your Trash folder.

Get the person that declined it to check their trash, if they have already emptied their trash then the item is definately gone.