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So I am curious to know has anyone married their SL partner in RL? If so are you still together and in love. Do you still get in SL together? and if you do is SL still fun?

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not every single person is lucky to meet reue love or just best friend.I know one gay couple who met in sl 6 years ago and they still love each other and live togehter in RL.but cases when one sl partner cheated on another are a bit more than good ones)

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Oh, I just posted this elsewhere.

Sort of, kind of. My partner and I met online eight years ago online, but not in SL. There was a lot of physical distance between us, so we came to SL together. I loved it; he didn't. I flew across the world to meet him six years ago, and stayed. We got married seven months ago.

 

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I was with someone for three years traveling back and forth but after Six months of talking and dating in world and voice and cam. He asked to for my hand in world wanted me to come and see him in real wanted me to marry in Sl but I had to come to him in real I did that. The relationship only lasted 3 years. I did go to him in real when we did the wedding on second life I could not being my home computer he had extra laptop I could use. Really after that wedding it was more going out in real and enjoying life but I did a lot of traveling back and forth and stayed for months. Really I feel if people go real best to wait at least  a year to marry in real and move in in a year you have to get to know the person. You wanna know what you getting on both ends in world is diffren't then real people can be also diffren't in real. Later when you find your ex to be closet drinker I tried to help did all I could he make excuses I find bags in the trash and bottles from sneaking to the gas station this gave the sign to leave. Just that people have to get there health in order and be mentally stable I do not drink and allergic to smoke with zero baggage or kids people need to be fully upfront. Truly if you go real have a back up plan when traveling have him come to you first a women should not have to be the first she needs to feel safe. Use your gut feeling it tells the truth. Just know one perfect but I know people also found happiness its just mine at first then to good to be true we live and learn just be careful.

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I have 2 very good friends who met in SL and things went so well they did get married In RL . they have been together now for 6 yrs and still going very strong  . 

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I met m husband in 2007 in second life.  We met in real life in 2009 in RL.  We got married in 2016 in real life  We have been married just under 4 years at this time 😉

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Kinda, I met my husband playing a different online game, married for 15 years in RL now. I was in Europe he in the US. Raked For 11 months 5 of which we dated long distance, then I came to visit and we got married. We started SL together but he didn't like it, we still play other games together.

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YES, We met in 2008, married in SL in 2010, moved in together in 2012 spring--married in Dec2012. I know several people that has done this. 

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On 9/9/2018 at 9:32 PM, BeyondJ said:

So I am curious to know has anyone married their SL partner in RL? If so are you still together and in love. Do you still get in SL together? and if you do is SL still fun?

 

On 4/8/2020 at 3:13 AM, Laylah Yaseotoko said:

Kinda, I met my husband playing a different online game, married for 15 years in RL now. I was in Europe he in the US. Raked For 11 months 5 of which we dated long distance, then I came to visit and we got married. We started SL together but he didn't like it, we still play other games together.

AMAZING❤️ 

 

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On 5/9/2020 at 1:46 AM, Scarlet Vavoom said:

YES, We met in 2008, married in SL in 2010, moved in together in 2012 spring--married in Dec2012. I know several people that has done this. 

Do the both of you still Sl together are apart.  

 

 

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On 9/9/2018 at 9:32 PM, BeyondJ said:

So I am curious to know has anyone married their SL partner in RL? If so are you still together and in love. Do you still get in SL together? and if you do is SL still fun?

How the marriage going along a few years later?

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On 5/11/2020 at 1:35 PM, Sheryl Carpaccio said:

Do the both of you still Sl together are apart.  

 

 

Welcome to the Forum Sheryl!..have a slice of warm Welcome Pie!.....Enjoy!😘

 

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I met someone on SL in 2008, married in RL 2009, divorced 2011. He had mental health issues that he kept well hidden & in the end he just preferred to live by himself. I had a SL friend who I’d known for years & had no interest in a relationship, SL or RL. Fast forward to 2016 & we decided to meet up to celebrate our birthdays. We’ve now been living together for 3 years & one day we’ll get married but are not in any hurry.We don’t SL together as he says the only reason he was on there in the end was to talk to me & has no interest anymore. 

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*Raises her hand*

Somehow missed this thread originally. Met Ghosty here in 2008.

After a few months or so, we got together in RL. He eventually moved from where he was to where I was. Partnered in SL and lived together for more than several years. We got married in 2017. 

We still hang in SL together but mostly do our own thing. My work hours get me up really early so I'm exhausted by the time a lot of things he's into doing are just getting started or that  he's himself running (he DJ's inworld). I miss out on a lot of those events, but try to get to the ones that start early enough that it doesn't impact my sleep/job. I also tend to just like to be alone and work on photography and doing home and garden decorating on our land. He's a lot more social than I am since he has a lot more time to do so. When we do hang out together, we have a lot of fun and have a large group of people we both know quite well by now and vice versa. Several of whom are RL partners also.

Doesn't really matter because we're pretty much on top of each other as our RL house is rather small lol. I don't see the need to be on top of each other 24/7. It's good to have separate time to oneself. 

 

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On 5/14/2020 at 12:39 PM, Selene Gregoire said:

*sniffs* Smells like SLU/VVO pie in here. Sid? Free? shiftyeyes.gif.7834b582ef9606fb18182beacc8fd189.gif

Thought the same. Funny how the wheel turns full circle.

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