Penny Patton Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 I also find it incredibly obnoxious when I try to talk in group chat and inevitably there is some creeper (usually several) who take it as an invitation to a private IM session. It always happens, without fail. I'll either try to start a group chat session, or respond to one that someone else started, and within minutes some creep I don't know from Adam will ignore the group chat and just IM me. Usually with some variation of "hi" followed up with some passive aggressive comment when I don't respond. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fionalein Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 (edited) 56 minutes ago, Penny Patton said: I also find it incredibly obnoxious when I try to talk in group chat and inevitably there is some creeper (usually several) who take it as an invitation to a private IM session. It always happens, without fail. I'll either try to start a group chat session, or respond to one that someone else started, and within minutes some creep I don't know from Adam will ignore the group chat and just IM me. Usually with some variation of "hi" followed up with some passive aggressive comment when I don't respond. To be fair group chats pretty often suck. I had to IM several people recently with an opening line "Sorry group chat ate my answers, hence IM" to help them... Edited June 2, 2018 by Fionalein Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebe Bunny Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 "hey wanna have fun?" 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 1 hour ago, Tari Landar said: So I should probably not call you panda then, huh? (ftr..I would never do that to someone I don't know, lol, but I have a little niece in rl that insists her name is Amanda-it's not-so I must call her Manda Panda) You can call me “Panda” friend :-) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 (edited) Them: “Hello, are you a Submissive?” Me: “Only to Lord Thanos” Edited June 2, 2018 by AmandaKeen 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Patton Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 10 minutes ago, Fionalein said: To be fair group chats pretty often suck. I had to IM several people recently with an opening line "Sorry group chat ate my answers, hence IM" to help them... That's totally different. If someone sends me an IM because their response or part of the ongoing conversation was lost as another sacrifice to the Linden Server Gods, that's fine. I'm talking about trying to have a conversation with a group of people and having that creepy person try and drag you away from public chat so they can hit on you one on one. I'm all for flirting in public then taking it private after hitting it off with someone, but if I don't know you, don't IM me for the sole purpose of awkwardly hitting on me then get butthurt when I give you the cold shoulder. At the very least take the hint gracefully. You know? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Patton Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 Seconds after making that post, it happened to me again. Literally seconds. And I only made the original post about how annoying this is because someone else did it to me in another group right before I made the post. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrah Abattoir Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 Don't you love those IMs where some submissive explains you in details exactly how you're going to dominate him/her, while presenting it simultaneously as "serving" you ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Kyrah Abattoir said: Don't you love those IMs where some submissive explains you in details exactly how you're going to dominate him/her, while presenting it simultaneously as "serving" you ? Well, theoretically that’s how BDSM works - but the idea is to be more sophisticated about how this is communicated. Those kind of detailed “limits” posts are “instant gratification culture” at work. Edited June 2, 2018 by AmandaKeen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrah Abattoir Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 Just now, AmandaKeen said: Well, theoretically that’s how BDSM works - but the idea is to be more sophisticated about how this is communicated. Those kind of posts are “instant gratification culture” at work. They also typically TP away if you don't answer in the next 5 minutes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 Just now, Kyrah Abattoir said: They also typically TP away if you don't answer in the next 5 minutes. I’m gonna double down on the “instant gratification culture” comment :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 (edited) Them: “Can I Dominate you?” Me: “You’re having confidence issues aren’t you?” Them: “&*#k You!” Needless to say, no Sexxorz were had that day..... Edited June 2, 2018 by AmandaKeen 1 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ren Toxx Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 As it’s turned into an “annoying lines” compilation, here’s another usual I just got again: “can I have your [social media] account?”. Still doesn’t bother me, they get the same as with most anything else from this thread: a headache. 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted June 2, 2018 Share Posted June 2, 2018 Here is the perfect example of a friend zone escape attempt blocked by quick thinking.. hehehehe 2 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 A TP request along with am IM that just says "come" I am not your dog, and you are now blocked. 12 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyelaNewLife Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 Quote Him: Hello Me: Hiya Him: Is that how you address a gentleman? I'll let you know when I find one, hun 5 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jameson2001 Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 My Raarw mesh cat needs and operation can you spare a 1000 lindens to help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derekmate Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 what is under my eyes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laoise Rumsford Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 On 6/3/2018 at 5:42 AM, Talligurl said: A TP request along with am IM that just says "come" I am not your dog, and you are now blocked. omg yes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet Voxel Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 There are some goodies in here. The one that gets under my skin lately is “What are you doing” or “WYD?” I’m talking about someone on the same sim that can see you. The one that cracked me up, made me spit my soda out last week went like this: *ding ding* Rando: Your avi looks just like my baby mother RL! Me: *I’m not sure where he’s going to go* Ok? Long pause Rando: Same look, same style...*another long pause* same big t***ys. That wasn’t the funny part. When I closed the box he was standing in front of me in a static pose with his mouth hanging open. I walked away from him and he followed me around like that until I tp’d away. Then he IMs me again. Rando: You even treat me like her 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhonda Huntress Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 hour ago, janetosilio said: The one that cracked me up, made me spit my soda out last week went like this: *ding ding* Rando: Your avi looks just like my baby mother RL! Me replies: Your avi looks just like my last BM too? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coby Foden Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 I'm dancing with my friend in some club. Then some guy standing further away IMs me with single word "hi". And then silence. Naturally the proper way to do it is to say "Excuse me if I'm disturbing, but..." and then explain why they are IMing. That would be ok, and many nice persons even do that. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drake1 Nightfire Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 Tan lines that dont line up with mesh clothing, or any clothing for that matter. On 6/2/2018 at 1:37 PM, AmandaKeen said: Them: “Hello, are you a Submissive?” Me: “Only to Lord Thanos” 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aislin Ceawlin Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 On 6/1/2018 at 4:59 AM, Fionalein said: The usual opener I get is: "You look beautiful" Somtimes it is an innocent compliment but most of the time... I started answering "I better do - I payed a good bunch of Lindens to do so." SO MUCH THIS!!! lol! Or, "You have such a sexy avie". It's almost never an innocent compliment. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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