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Well I need some help with this hehe
Okay.
How do you start a sex roleplay session (girls call it "sexy time" I guess) with a girl that never had sex before in RL, in other words, a virgin .
She's 23 yo, I've been dating her for about one year, and seriously when she made this confession to me I did not believe her at the beginning but then we got closer, I knew many things about her, she's quite shy  and now I think it's all true.
She' doesn't want to go on voice, or cam, (but she once sent a picture of her to me) so all we got is... let me see ... err... ummmm... a keyboard :(
I got some experience, but, this is special, and I want it to be special for her too... I need to be gentle and take the first step.

So how, what, when, where :$ ... HELP!!! lol
Thanks all.

PS: I'd prefer to know girls opinion.

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You'd do it exactly the way you would in real life. As in, taking your time and building her up very slowly, and sorting out the 'logistics' in advance. Also, if you don't really know what you're doing either, expect a lot of awkward fumbling.

Pick out a location that's at least semi-private. Test the furniture first, make sure you know the animations you want to do, and make sure it includes some cuddling and some foreplay. You do not want to be exploring the options menu mid way through. When I say foreplay, I am not talking about fingering or oral sex. That's important, sure, but you can't just open with that. Some cuddling, some kissing, some massages or other handsy poses. Bonus points if there's an intercourse pose that isn't a jackhammer. 

If you too have a normal, non-sexual RP style then perhaps follow that, if not then 2-3 sentence mini-paragraphs are probably your best bet. Control the scene, but let it flow naturally, try to avoid OOC or mechanical interruptions if possible. Ideally you'd get her to sit on the bed/couch/rug for some cuddling, she would close the menu for that, and you'd control everything else on that one piece of furniture. 

And for the love of Christ don't be one of those guys that uses the sex poses purely as porn to jack off to, with the occasional "ahhh yes baby thats so hot" thrown in. No girl has ever been turned on by that nonsense. Paint a picture with words. Talk about the way her skin feels under your fingertips, the way she smells as you hold her close to you, the way your pulse races as you look at her. Your job is to stimulate her imagination, and let that do the rest.

Playing the pronoun game rather than always naming body parts is a good idea - which sounds more appropriate; "... your eyes rolled back as I pushed deeper inside you", or "... your eyes rolled back as I pushed my ***** deeper inside your *****"? The latter style can work really well with something more raunchy, but you aren't doing that here, you are making love to your girlfriend for the first time. Also don't try and powerpose in an orgasm for her, and don't be put off if a RL and SL virgin doesn't climax, aim for that after a couple of attempts.

That's more words than I expected to write, but let me know if you have any questions, or if you need to talk through a plan or anything like that.

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Wow! You girls are a blessing from heaven! lol  Thank you very much, now you've answered many questions in one. I had some ideas, as you said, like RL it happens,  but I was not sure, now I got it all more clear. So I'm gonna prepare my plan of attack :D Thank you again.

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On 9-5-2018 at 3:50 PM, AyelaNewLife said:

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Where have you been all my (second) life?

But seriously, follow @AyelaNewLife's advise, not a lot more to add really. She worded it quite perfectly!

Might surprise some people since I own a sex sim and can be quite blunt and direct, but I am quite introvert and shy myself. And the worst thing in SL sex to me, is feeling rushed or forced into it. Soon as I feel pressured into anything I'm not comfortable with the fun and excitement is out of the experience directly and completely. In you case where it will be a first time, be 100% sure that the moment is right and she is ready for it. Don't feel awkward or weird to ask her what she would like and what excites her. If you two are close enough to go for it, you should also be able to talk about that kind of stuff too and it helps a lot if both your expectations are on the same level.

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Aftercare, Aftercare, Aftercare.....make sure to do this longer than it took you to undress her at least, if not 100 times longer.  Never ever with anyone of any level of experience finish something and then go "I'm really beat, I need to head off to bed.  See you tomorrow?"  Cuddle with her, show her how special the moment is and how much you treasure it...AND MEAN IT! 

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