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Looking for a "daddy" type relationship with an older man, 50-65s. Once we get to know each other better, maybe a sexual relationship too. A little about me, I'm a female in my early 20's, a bit shy and I play a lot of video games. I also stay at home a lot so Im on SL most of the time. Not looking for a serious relationship though. Just a daddy. Thank you for reading. :)

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7 hours ago, Sylvannas Zulaman said:

You'd probably have more lucky by going to that kind of sim in world, there are tons of them. Also joining groups and using the chat to say what you're looking for might help. Good luck!

Do you know of any? Ive tried looking online but no luck. Dx 

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16 minutes ago, Talligurl said:

You want a Daddy in SL, but sex is a maybe after you get to know him? I am not sure many potential Daddies are going to go for that

If we click then yeah I hope to do more, that's the intent anyways.  That's why I said maybe.

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If they're wanting to have a daddy relationship and be sexual, I don't mind. That's what I wanted. So I don't see the problem. Talking to someone before they get into it isn't unheard of. I'm not going to throw that out because someone wants just sex. Again, that's not what I want and if people have a issue oh well. 

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I don't see the conflict here. Spuddy wants a potential Daddy. A Daddy may be looking for a potential Daughter. This post facilitates the two of them meeting and potentially clicking. Neither have to go out of their way to fulfill the traditional Daddy/Daughter role on the first "date." Two people meeting to see if there is anything there. Spuddy didn't say she wants a Daddy to take her out on a shopping spree on the first date and then, maybe, just maybe, she'll have sex. 

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On 30/04/2018 at 8:38 AM, Talligurl said:

I think you will find most potential Daddies are going to want sex right away, and then if you do not click, you are welcome to leave.

Yeah .. I'm with the OP on this.

Personally, any relationship where the sex comes before the relationship isn't worth the time or emotional investment. Guys (daddy or otherwise) who want sex first can just keep on going.

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16 hours ago, CoffeeDujour said:

Yeah .. I'm with the OP on this.

Personally, any relationship where the sex comes before the relationship isn't worth the time or emotional investment. Guys (daddy or otherwise) who want sex first can just keep on going.

I agree with you completely, however when the OP uses the word "daddy" she implies she is looking for a Sugar Daddy, someone who is going to provide her with money or gifts or both, now maybe she has such a charming personality and amazing wit that some guy wants to pay for just her company, but I think the reality of SL is that she is going to find it very hard to get a guy to pay her money if she won't give him sex. If in fact she just wants a relationship and not money, then she choose poor terminology.

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On 4/30/2018 at 8:45 AM, Talligurl said:

 

4 hours ago, Talligurl said:

I agree with you completely, however when the OP uses the word "daddy" she implies she is looking for a Sugar Daddy, someone who is going to provide her with money or gifts or both, now maybe she has such a charming personality and amazing wit that some guy wants to pay for just her company, but I think the reality of SL is that she is going to find it very hard to get a guy to pay her money if she won't give him sex. If in fact she just wants a relationship and not money, then she choose poor terminology.

If I wanted a sugar daddy, I would have put sugar daddy. My terminology is just fine. Lol There isn't anything wrong with my post, I'm being honest on what I want. Daddy is the correct term for someone I'm looking for. You just misinterpreted my post and trying to save face. Lol 

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57 minutes ago, spuddyzombie said:

If I wanted a sugar daddy, I would have put sugar daddy. My terminology is just fine. Lol There isn't anything wrong with my post, I'm being honest on what I want. Daddy is the correct term for someone I'm looking for. You just misinterpreted my post and trying to save face. Lol 

I don't think I am the only one to misinterpret what you meant, but you can put anything you want. But if you want to get a particular response to a particular request, it is a good idea to be sure people are going to understand just what you are trying to say.

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On 4/30/2018 at 7:38 AM, Talligurl said:

I think you will find most potential Daddies are going to want sex right away, and then if you do not click, you are welcome to leave.

 

 

That is the problem with most in SL, they just want to wank off, then go climb into bed next to their wife as if nothing happened.  Those are wham bam guys.  Gentlemen that know how to control their libido rarely exist in SL anymore, the ones that enjoyed taking the time to know you, woo you & then you end up with them for a few years at least...they are dinosaurs and already taken by women smart enough to know to keep them. 

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They are out there, but I think the avoid the "Daddy" label, because that comes with so many bad associations and they want to avoid being associated with it. I know a few, they take good care of me, but "Daddy" isn't a part of the relationship.

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On 4/30/2018 at 11:45 AM, Talligurl said:

Well most likely any guy you find who is willing to want to do that for you will have a different focus

There are many Daddy types that arent looking to bed every female in SL. I'm one of them. 

 

1 hour ago, Talligurl said:

They are out there, but I think the avoid the "Daddy" label, because that comes with so many bad associations and they want to avoid being associated with it. I know a few, they take good care of me, but "Daddy" isn't a part of the relationship.

That only applies to the... creepy guys who hang out at the "child playgrounds." She is looking for a Daddy Dom, not a paedo. There are plenty of DD/BG sims where she will find what she seeks. 

7 hours ago, HaileeTempesta said:

That is the problem with most in SL, they just want to wank off, then go climb into bed next to their wife as if nothing happened.  Those are wham bam guys.  Gentlemen that know how to control their libido rarely exist in SL anymore, the ones that enjoyed taking the time to know you, woo you & then you end up with them for a few years at least...they are dinosaurs and already taken by women smart enough to know to keep them. 

Except for those rare few of us that have yet to find the one they are seeking as well. That goes the other way as well, there are just as many women in SL that are sex starved maniacs.

Then there are the gold diggers. The sheer number of "OMG you make clothing!!!  I would Loooooooove to model for you!!" comments i get on a "date" would fill opensim. That is a deal breaker for me. I keep my work apart from my relationships. If I ask you to model its one thing, to come out and almost demand it though... Nope. 

And finally the lonely housewives. The ones that are online 24/7 and will NOT leave you alone to get a damn thing done. "Whatcha doooooin?" "Can i come over?" "I'm here, where are you?" "Why are you up in the clouds?" "How do i get up there?" "wait, why did your security orb bounce me?" 

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13 minutes ago, Drake1 Nightfire said:

"OMG you make clothing!!!  I would Loooooooove to model for you!!"

I would never say that, "OMG you must have a big house  in SL!!!! You neeeeeeeeeeed to buy some nice paintings for your walls"

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6 minutes ago, Talligurl said:

I would never say that, "OMG you must have a big house  in SL!!!! You neeeeeeeeeeed to buy some nice paintings for your walls"

how about: omg you make porn movies? I'd love to be in your next one 

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7 minutes ago, Talligurl said:

I would never say that, "OMG you must have a big house  in SL!!!! You neeeeeeeeeeed to buy some nice paintings for your walls"

Paintings?!?!?! Those are usually 3LI each!! Heck no.. My house is ... sparse.. Some furniture is pretty much it, maybe a plant or three. 

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7 hours ago, HaileeTempesta said:

That is the problem with most in SL, they just want to wank off, then go climb into bed next to their wife as if nothing happened.  Those are wham bam guys.  Gentlemen that know how to control their libido rarely exist in SL anymore, the ones that enjoyed taking the time to know you, woo you & then you end up with them for a few years at least...they are dinosaurs and already taken by women smart enough to know to keep them. 

Based on all the comments you made this morning and some things you said about others.............. I'm guessing you've recently been burned.

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