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2 hours ago, MadsMC said:

Hi, my name is Madison McCarthy, I am a newbie to Second Life but I'm looking for a boyfriend. No requirements, just need to be a straight male. IM me at MadsMC if interested.

And what is supposed to pique HIS interest?

No information about you. No idea about your interests. Not a clue about what you and he would talk about for hours on dates.

Since you have no requirements from him, other than that he must only get a stiffy in close proximity to ladyparts, I'm going to guess that the only thing you want from him is the use of his genitalia. So, instead of asking for a 'boyfriend' with all its connotations of romantic closeness, why not just advertise for no-strings sex?

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58 minutes ago, Skell Dagger said:

And what is supposed to pique HIS interest?

No information about you. No idea about your interests. Not a clue about what you and he would talk about for hours on dates.

Since you have no requirements from him, other than that he must only get a stiffy in close proximity to ladyparts, I'm going to guess that the only thing you want from him is the use of his genitalia. So, instead of asking for a 'boyfriend' with all its connotations of romantic closeness, why not just advertise for no-strings sex?

Did you forget? Men aren't supposed to have brains or personality, they're supposed to be wallets that only think about sex. Duh.

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I can easily learn about people when they IM me, instead of being so picky as to what I want, I can learn about the person and if we have chemistry, I'll pursue it. Besides, I have a boyfriend now. Don't stereotype women, I'm just looking for a SL relationship where anything could happen, I'm not interested in money or just sex, if I was, I'd be an escort. 

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38 minutes ago, MadsMC said:

I can easily learn about people when they IM me, instead of being so picky as to what I want, I can learn about the person and if we have chemistry, I'll pursue it. Besides, I have a boyfriend now. Don't stereotype women, I'm just looking for a SL relationship where anything could happen, I'm not interested in money or just sex, if I was, I'd be an escort. 

I would have said exactly the same thing if you were a man looking only for a straight woman with the same lack of clarification as your original post.

Congratulations on your new boyfriend.

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Going to play devils advocate. Just because someone enjoys the "other gender" does NOT mean sex is the only thing that someone is interested in. Sex is of course one of the things but it's rarely the only thing. I enjoy female company but I want to know what's in their heads as much as their pants.

What's more if some people want to have a more physical only relationship then so what? Anyone bashing that is simply being judgemental. If it makes them happy then that's that. Some people even, gasp, prefer physical interactions without having to worry about emotions so much. Which is something I'd never get into myself (need to know and care about the person well) but to each their own.

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On 2/11/2018 at 3:50 AM, MadsMC said:

Hi, my name is Madison McCarthy, I am a newbie to Second Life but I'm looking for a boyfriend. No requirements, just need to be a straight male. IM me at MadsMC if interested.

Hello Madison , welcome to second life :)

 

to help those reading the forums that might be interested in pursuing a relationship with you, you may want to add a bit more detail to your post to help people figure out if they should message you or the multiple other posts where people are looking for relationships.

by giving some information it can help others to see if you would be compatible with them.  this does not mean that relationships can't succeed if people don't have common interests, it's simply to help them manage their time better when looking for a relationship and for you not to get 25 messages from people you would never be interested in.

 

you may want to edit your post and include additional info.

here are some examples of things people may be interested in knowing:

  • what are some of your interests (example dancing, calligraphy, steampunk costumes, etc)
  • what are you goals for your second life (in case someone wants to be a long term partner, they may want to know if you want to have a second life family, or second life babies, or if you are only interested in dating)
  • what type of personality do you think you would be interested in and what kind of personality do you have
  • your time zone so that people can figure out if they are from a totally opposite time zone that would make  a relationship hard to keep up. this one is critical as Second life has people in it from all over the world
  • you may want to include if you see this as a second life or if you see it as a 'game' .  the answer to that will be critical to some people as how people behave inside second life can change based on how they see it.

 

these are only some examples of info that will make your post stand out from the other 14 posts about people looking for boyfriends/girlfriends

 

also, please note, when you post anything on the forums, you may always want to be careful of posting anything quick and without detail as there are many on the forums that can be a bit..."blunt" . :)   they are good people but they do happen to let you know exactly what they think so never take it personally and simply smile and carry on.

 

once again, welcome to second life. there is a lot to explore (boyfriend or no boyfriend) and hopefully you will get around to fun sims and meet nice people.

one thing to always keep in mind.  the avatars you interact with are real human beings with emotions.  please don't play emotional games with people in second life as they are not cartoon characters but real people.  ;)    .  keep that in mind and you will have a good second life.

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18 hours ago, nikita2004 Ashley said:

She is not available anymore.hahahaha read her previous post. 

now i'm super curious as to what criteria she eventually ended up settling on :)

 

the mind does wonder.  i was really hoping she would list it so that it may serve as a future blueprint for other women in the forums in getting quick boyfriends ;)

 

darn, i guess we missed our chance.

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15 minutes ago, Love Zhaoying said:

I wouldn't settle unless the guy was really hot and knew how to RP with good spelling. 

that would leave 6 guys in SL...and um me...although i'm not hot.  the 6 may only play with males ...leaving me....so ....um...*looks for the exit and starts to back up towards it all the while laughing nervously*

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1 hour ago, lostsoul2017 said:

that would leave 6 guys in SL...and um me...although i'm not hot.  the 6 may only play with males ...leaving me....so ....um...*looks for the exit and starts to back up towards it all the while laughing nervously*

*That would leave 6 guys in SL... And, um, me... Although I'm not hot. The 6 may only play with males... Leaving me... So... Um... Looks for the exit and starts to back up towards it, all the while laughing nervously.

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