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I dated this guy in SL for 2 months and he left me because I got into escorting and he hated it, anyway he hasn't blocked me or left my wedding group as one of the owners and he still has me on Skype but "offline"... He has moved on with someone else and I don't know what he's doing exactly. I'm still inlove with him. What am I suppose to think? Is he Ghosting me? I have tried talking to him and everything... 

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30 minutes ago, stellvia said:

I dated this guy in SL for 2 months and he left me because I got into escorting and he hated it, anyway he hasn't blocked me or left my wedding group as one of the owners and he still has me on Skype but "offline"... He has moved on with someone else and I don't know what he's doing exactly. I'm still inlove with him. What am I suppose to think? Is he Ghosting me? I have tried talking to him and everything... 

It sounds like he is either just ignoring you or has blocked you.   Did you try talking to him before you started escorting?  If your wedding group isn't a busy chat group he might have just forgotten it's there.  He probably just doesn't want a drama and so has quietly just moved on

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2 minutes ago, Cindy Evanier said:

It sounds like he is either just ignoring you or has blocked you.   Did you try talking to him before you started escorting?  If your wedding group isn't a busy chat group he might have just forgotten it's there.  He probably just doesn't want a drama and so has quietly just moved on

But it should come up as "blocked" shouldn't it? If he HAS blocked me?

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47 minutes ago, stellvia said:

I dated this guy in SL for 2 months and he left me because I got into escorting and he hated it, anyway he hasn't blocked me or left my wedding group as one of the owners and he still has me on Skype but "offline"... He has moved on with someone else and I don't know what he's doing exactly. I'm still inlove with him. What am I suppose to think? Is he Ghosting me? I have tried talking to him and everything... 

I've highlighted the key clues for you in green.

Move on!

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I just tested that with an alt.  She blocked me, I messaged her.  I got nothing saying I was blocked and she didnt get my IM.  

 

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10 minutes ago, stellvia said:

But it should come up as "blocked" shouldn't it? If he HAS blocked me?

No, unless someone has a specific message set up to be sent out to anyone that is muted, you will never know if you are or are not blocked.

You should do exactly what he did...move on. He's likely trying to avoid exactly what you're doing (that would be, cause drama). 

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So, your were dating a guy and your in love with him, and then against his wishes go have sex with other guys. And now your sad he left you...

My advice; send him an apology and move on. And most important, learn from it.

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1 hour ago, stellvia said:

I dated this guy in SL for 2 months and he left me because I got into escorting

you simply make things up sweetie... you been in escorting a lot longer... read your own posting history.

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20 minutes ago, Alwin Alcott said:

you simply make things up sweetie... you been in escorting a lot longer... read your own posting history.

Obviously stellvia is a liar?

Why a person lies publicly when she needs help from others' advice? This is meaningless, stellvia.

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3 hours ago, stellvia said:

He has moved on with someone else and I don't know what he's doing exactly.

If you know already he has moved on with someone else, you don´t want to know what he is doing exactly.
Or do you like to stab another knife into your heart?

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7 hours ago, stellvia said:

I dated this guy in SL for 2 months and he left me because I got into escorting and he hated it, anyway he hasn't blocked me or left my wedding group as one of the owners and he still has me on Skype but "offline"... He has moved on with someone else and I don't know what he's doing exactly. I'm still inlove with him. What am I suppose to think? Is he Ghosting me? I have tried talking to him and everything... 

Seriously?!?!?!    You have fallen "in love" with someone after dating them online for only 2 months?!?!?!

 

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29 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

Seriously?!?!?!    You have fallen "in love" with someone after dating them online for only 2 months?!?!?!

Hey, I think I could fall in love with someone in the time it takes them to say "I like you, Maddy."

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34 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

Seriously?!?!?!    You have fallen "in love" with someone after dating them online for only 2 months?!?!?!

 

In two months I normally have went trough the entire cycle of falling in love to having broke up again...

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11 hours ago, stellvia said:

But it should come up as "blocked" shouldn't it? If he HAS blocked me?

If someone blocked you and you try to communicate you get nothing in return but "dead air" - UNLESS they are using a viewer that offers an Auto-Response (Firestorm does) - AND they must turn that preference ON. Just a little FYI.

By the way, I like you, Maddy.

4 hours ago, Madelaine McMasters said:

Hey, I think I could fall in love with someone in the time it takes them to say "I like you, Maddy."

 

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8 minutes ago, Madelaine McMasters said:

How many times have you driven the Road to Hana?

oh, oh, oh  

*raises hand*

I did, once 

:D

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