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1 hour ago, NataliaAdele said:

I'm Feeling bored in SL and I would like to build up a SL family with someone well settled in SL.

I'm excited to see viewer's comments :P

I am a little confused by your post.  Are you asking to join a family?  Or meet a special someone?  Either way it  might be  prudent to describe yourself, the type of family  you would like to have/be a part of, the sort of partner you are looking for, stuff like that.  

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i'd say check your groups and hide, or leave some... sugar girls and daddy groups, porno production and other adult activities not often provide a solid base for family play.

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2 hours ago, Zeta Vandyke said:

Boredom seems like a very solid foundation for starting a family.

Boredom as a reason for starting a family... It's a very common one...


 

...

Her: I'm BORED! Saturday night, no cash, crap on the TV, what shall we do?

Him: Babeo Scorchio! Meo Macho! Tuo poseballo con meo? Jiggy Jiggy!

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I also would like to say something mean, but someone has to be kind and sensible, so:

Natalia, this thread is wrecked already.
Better head for an ingame dating agency. Or just go to popular places, make many friends, and maybe you find your familiy this way. It may take more time, but thats more natural than asking for.

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2 hours ago, Quinn Lysette said:

im bored in sl all the time and im recently lookin for a  SL wife but  she has to understand if she moves in the living arrangements are awry 

What do u mean?

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   I don't know, I've heard of a lot of curious ways for people to meet, but 'It's time to settle in SL - proposals are invited' on the profile is a new way to go; if it works out. Isn't it a bit of a weird place to start, to say 'I want a family, time to find Mr/Ms X and get started' - usually it would be 'I've found Mr/Ms X, and with him/her I want to start a family'? 

   Besides, your profile doesn't say much about you, what you enjoy, what you are like, why anyone should be curious about you - you just want a family, which might be contradictory depending on how one chose to interpret your little quote about living loose just above it. 

   You haven't really gone into any detail of what 'family' is to you. See, this can be a great many things in SL - it can be roleplay, it can be actual love, it can be a cliche of misfits who find mutual support in each other, it can be a vampire coven or a pack of dogs. By not having specified anything and not having gone into any detail of yourself, or anything else for that matter, one would expect you want a 'vanilla' family - but even so the way that works can differ a lot from the Johnsons to the Andersons. 

   My suggestion would be, decide for yourself what sort of relation you would want with a partner, i.e. your husband/wife, and start by finding that person - and don't rush. If you find a half dozen people who want to be sons and daughters and aunties and grannies before having that piece of the puzzle, you may have to jigsaw your way through things to make it work. 

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And, continuing on from Orwar's advice, look at this desire for finding love, and possibly starting a family as a journey.  Resist the temptation to fall in love quickly just because you are bored.  Get to know the person by spending time doing things together, and seeing if you have similar interests and genuinely like each other as friends first.  Jumping in the sack (so to speak), too quickly,  will also have an impact on finding the right person since one night stands are very common in SL (mostly gold chain Lothario types).  Be patient and you never know when that right person comes along

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