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Ladies - what do you think about sex in SL?

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It's my fantasy, I do whatever I can't do in RL in here pretty much. With that said, I'm very choosy and if you walk up to me as some steroid shaggy haired mfer going "HI SEX NOW PLS" there's no chance. Put in the effort, please.

 

Oh, and emoting. Please practice emoting, it really helps the lady get into it. For example, I had a guy I was with where I'd write something descriptive and he'd respond with stuff like... "nice" and "good", and that'd be it. It was hard to work with and it didn't last much longer than that.

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5 minutes ago, epiclolz said:

It's my fantasy, I do whatever I can't do in RL in here pretty much. With that said, I'm very choosy and if you walk up to me as some steroid shaggy haired mfer going "HI SEX NOW PLS" there's no chance. Put in the effort, please.

 

Oh, and emoting. Please practice emoting, it really helps the lady get into it. For example, I had a guy I was with where I'd write something descriptive and he'd respond with stuff like... "nice" and "good", and that'd be it. It was hard to work with and it didn't last much longer than that.

I have to admit that I have brought some things back to RL that worked for me and my then RL boyfriend.  But that "HI SEX NOW PLS" stuff never works.  And depending on my mood, whatever guy tried it on me get's anything from ignored to being dropped into an active volcano.  

The emoting has to be interesting and exciting or it just won't work for me.  Or even worse, the clickers that jump between animations without a word.  Just leave them there doing whatever it is they're doing all by themselves and see how long it takes them to notice.  

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Lol the clickers are definitely those same people who respond to an emote with like one sentence and then afk for like 6 minutes at a time with no warning. Or I'm trying to fit a description with the pose currently happening and they keep changing it every three seconds. Give me time!!!

 

Aaaaand the ol ignore trick. It's hilarious when I do it and then the guy acts like I owe him something. I said "wazzup" to some guy in public chat like a week ago and then he IMed me asking "where are you babe" and then 10 minutes pass and he's like "soooo ???" I'm like did I tell you something was gonna happen? Lmao

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On 7/26/2017 at 11:31 PM, kurt28 said:

How many of you ladies are into SL sex?  Just wondering if I need to get good at it or not. 

I love SL sex; I'm very good at RP, too.  It's a real mood killer when I'm with someone in an erotic sim and I'm giving it my all but their verbal/writing skills are sub-par.  The fantasy is not just seeing the action onscreen, but the heated erotic chat or voice that provides the context and story of your shared sexual activities.  So yes, my friend, please get good at it.  Practice RP with escorts if you can't find a free partner, they're usually supreme role-players themselves and will be glad of the business.

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On ‎07‎/‎27‎/‎2017 at 7:33 AM, Talligurl said:

Me to, but I have no desire whatsoever to make SL sex more real by adding cams or voice or anything else. Sex is a part of my SL Avis life, it is a part of her story, which is separate from my RL story. As a creative person, a part of the appeal is in writing the story of a girl who is different than myself. I am a happily married wife, she is a wild promiscuous woman. She also has no problems with using sex for financial gain, either by directly acting as an escort, or creating pornographic images to sell, or just endearing herself to guys who might support her business propositions. You do not have to be good at it, but having some obvious financial resources doesn't hurt.

I could have written that, but probably not as well.

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been there, done that, taught that in free RP classes - I´ll pass on that

But that´s prolly because I found THE perfect man for me in RL  - suddenly all my characters in...any game, universe and version are single XD There´s just nothing that compares to him or gets me in the mood ever so slightly when he´s not involved. He is very interested and up to date with my SL but that´s enough for him. So it´s celibacy for Kasha. She´ll cope and she doesn´t have time for that anyways...

But yeah GET GOOD AT IT!!!! Be descriptive, don´t break the 4th wall - nobody cares what you´re touching where in RL and it kills the mood to get asked questions about the current RL actions...- and for heaven´s sake - DON´T IM people "I rape you" ! No matter what the sim description, no matter what the setting, her looks, the role you want to play in this - DON´T!!!! NEVER! READ her profile, ask if she´d be interested in IMs, maybe eye her silently, "notice" her in char with interest in local chat and see if she picks it up... Oh and just don´t whine and b.tch when she´s not interested! Make sure your looks are fitting to the role you want to play and of GOOOOOOOD quality. Even if you decide to be an ugly mug! 

It was mentioned before that you brush up your profile, too, with a nice photo, picks of sims you like, likes and dislikes and your limits (which are vital in any kind of adult RP ). 

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