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How many of you ladies are into SL sex?  Just wondering if I need to get good at it or not. 

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I don't mean this answer to be snarky :-)

Sex in SL covers a LOT of territory since SL has many residents who come here to not be constrained by the "normal".

Sex is here and many female avatars participate in it. But that breaks several broad ways;

Poseball sex (visual)

Voice sex (auditory)

Text/Cyber sex (Textual / Descriptive Relations)

So you might get more accurate sponsors if you were clear which kind of medium you're wanting to pursue sex within.

A word about any specific fetishes would probably help too and which specific groups  you are interested in:-) (bondage, pony girl, furries, aliens, vampires, etc)

Also, as SL is safer for those of us leading alternative lifestyles, you will see many more overt same-avatar-sex relationships meaning that many females here are looking for females, or vice versa.

Overall, SL is not a dedicated sex game, but it does have its erotic areas. If that's what your main drive is here, you might start in the Adult-Rated groups and on the Adult Continent.

Have fun !

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8 hours ago, kurt28 said:

How many of you ladies are into SL sex?  Just wondering if I need to get good at it or not.

Just do what most SL guys do...

Buy a Prison Gym Steroid Abuse Body, marinade it in dark orange spray tan for 72 hours, add some gheto-thug wannabe tattoos, a gold medallion, some baggy crotch at knee height jeans and a pair of canoe sized Faddidas-Crike Clown-Max Inflatable Designer Running Shoes (tm) and some really really bad 'used janitor mop' hair. 

Then tp to a sim with women on it, walk up to the group, say "HELLO LAYDEEEEEES!" after which you stand silently, with your viewer cam-locked on the largest pair of boobs, lean back in your chair, take your hands off the keyboard and press them both to your temples, and concentrate really hard while chanting the mantra... 

"The Power of Macho Compels You... IM Me and beg for sex... Please?"

Over and over for about an hour, then tp to a different sim, rinse and repeat.

Congratulations, you have learned the Art of the Class 1 Loiterer. Note, if you cave in and IM them, you will be downgraded to a Class 2 and forced to live in Eternal Shame because your Macho failed!

;) 
 

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8 hours ago, kurt28 said:

 wondering if I need to get good at it or not. 

next to the other replies, wich should make you think about the route you want to take in SL ( after 5+ years.. and still ask this)

 

do something with your profile... not just show some groups, perhaps even better hide some to attract broader public, or go more explicit to attract others

Where is your pic? where are yours picks? what do you like? and other things that might speed up connecting to people... sexual or social, no difference.

 

Oh .. also... if you really want to have a good laugh, and you practice your skills a lot to "become good at it", ask them to voice when you'r done... a large number of females are in fact males.... and lot of males are female :)

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29 minutes ago, Klytyna said:

Just do what most SL guys do...

Buy a Prison Gym Steroid Abuse Body, marinade it in dark orange spray tan for 72 hours, add some gheto-thug wannabe tattoos, a gold medallion, some baggy crotch at knee height jeans and a pair of canoe sized Faddidas-Crike Clown-Max Inflatable Designer Running Shoes (tm) and some really really bad 'used janitor mop' hair. 

Then tp to a sim with women on it, walk up to the group, say "HELLO LAYDEEEEEES!" after which you stand silently, with your viewer cam-locked on the largest pair of boobs, lean back in your chair, take your hands off the keyboard and press them both to your temples, and concentrate really hard while chanting the mantra... 

"The Power of Macho Compels You... IM Me and beg for sex... Please?"

Over and over for about an hour, then tp to a different sim, rinse and repeat.

Congratulations, you have learned the Art of the Class 1 Loiterer. Note, if you cave in and IM them, you will be downgraded to a Class 2 and forced to live in Eternal Shame because your Macho failed!

;) 
 

 this pretty much sums it up

+ a good laugh

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2 hours ago, Jeny Howlett said:

I prefer the "real" deal

Me to, but I have no desire whatsoever to make SL sex more real by adding cams or voice or anything else. Sex is a part of my SL Avis life, it is a part of her story, which is separate from my RL story. As a creative person, a part of the appeal is in writing the story of a girl who is different than myself. I am a happily married wife, she is a wild promiscuous woman. She also has no problems with using sex for financial gain, either by directly acting as an escort, or creating pornographic images to sell, or just endearing herself to guys who might support her business propositions. You do not have to be good at it, but having some obvious financial resources doesn't hurt.

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One additional note:  Us Forum ladies represent a very small percentage of the women in SL. Pop on over to the adult continents and you'll find a whole lot more folks into SLex.

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2 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

One additional note:  Us Forum ladies represent a very small percentage of the women in SL. Pop on over to the adult continents and you'll find a whole lot more folks into SLex.

oh there are more women, out of the forums. into SLEX?... i wonder about the males  :)

(must be why it's so silent in my naughty box after being mostly only on the forums)

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3 hours ago, Jeny Howlett said:

I prefer the "real" deal

They are not mutually exclusive, you know.
I have been known to do both at the same time ;)

 

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Anyway ...

@kurt28, what do YOU want.  Don't change who you are to fit someone else mold.  There are so few men per women in SL that you will find someone who matches what you are comfortable with.

As far as what "good at it" means, take a look in the Role Play section and read the discussion about para-role play vs semi-para vs one liners.  There is no one right way to do it.  So do what feels right to you.  If you just want a girlfriend or boyfriend to chat and possibly cuddle with, just say so in your profile.

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I'm not a lady, but I have female avatars. With that said, it seems many males in Second Life are obsessed with sex (although I admit I enjoy a fling sometimes out of curiosity.) My female characters get a lot of IMs and I can tell those guys want something from them and not just a simple greeting.

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In my noob days i used to go in for all that SLEX nonsense there'd always be male av's looking for a hook up i remember someone taking me to an island dedicated to SLEX, BDSM Gorean etc. i have some vague memory it was called pigeon island forgetting the SLEX it was a really lovely place to visit used to go there regularly 

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I have my sex in this world

Turn on's

Shopping

Dancing and shopping

Men that are afraid to cry that like to go shopping with me.

 

Turn off's

Not being able to find anything to wear..

Oh wait,that means  it's time to go shopping..Turn on!!

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3 hours ago, Rhonda Huntress said:

They are not mutually exclusive, you know.

Sorry, in retrospect perhaps I came off as judgemental. That's not what I meant. OP asked how many women are into SL sex. I know women who are into SL sex will reply. I just wanted to make sure that OP got a clear picture that we aren't all into SL sex. 

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33 minutes ago, Atosuria Daviau said:

100% pointless what is the fun in watching to 3d models bump uglies using a poorly made animation loop.

With all the new mesh stuff, the 3d models ain't so ugly anymore  

:SwingingFriends:

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@Atosuria Daviau

Swing-and-a-miss-02.jpg

If that is how you think it's done, do the rest of the residents a favor and never try it. :P

If it's not your thing or you just don't get it, why not say "it's not my thing and I don't get."  Condescending attitudes don't help your case.

 

OK, dig it,

8 hours ago, Jeny Howlett said:

I prefer the "real" deal

No attitude, no judgemental snide, this is simple direct and to to the point.  It also lets her opinion be known without actually being dismissive of other people's opinions. Nalytha agreed and again, just a statement of preference as was requested.

 

33 minutes ago, Atosuria Daviau said:

100% pointless

Does not leave much room other people to exist in your fantasy world. Why do we pretend I just asked for pixel sex so you can stamp my ticket to Mute city?

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@Rhonda Huntress, when you put it like that.... I should have just said I do not participate in Second Life sex and left it at that. My bad. I hope I didn't offend too many people. People come to Second Life for so many different reasons and I didn't mean to belittle anyone for their reasons. There's absolutely nothing wrong with Second Life sex. 

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15 minutes ago, Nalytha said:

Sorry, in retrospect perhaps I came off as judgemental. That's not what I meant. OP asked how many women are into SL sex. I know women who are into SL sex will reply. I just wanted to make sure that OP got a clear picture that we aren't all into SL sex. 

Oh, I know.  I was just being silly and giving an alternate view. There is a wide range of people out there; while the "dos" are more obvious, the "do nots" are probably more numerous.

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Just now, Rhonda Huntress said:

Oh, I know.  I was just being silly and giving an alternate view. There is a wide range of people out there; while the "dos" are more obvious, the "do nots" are probably more numerous.

I honestly don't know about that. I feel like the do nots might be the minority? I have no data to back that up except personal experiences with other SL users. 

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6 minutes ago, Nalytha said:

I have no data to back that up except personal experiences with other SL users.

And this tiny sampling here.  2 for, 3 against and a few "meh" responses that could go either way.

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1 hour ago, Atosuria Daviau said:

100% pointless what is the fun in watching to 3d models bump uglies using a poorly made animation loop.

I've seen you comment in several forum posts now and you are incredibly negative in almost all of them. Maybe SL isn't the experience for you anymore if you feel so vexed by it. 

 

Anyway, SLex just doesn't do it for me. I'm sure it does for others but it's just not my cup of tea. It's already been stated but can stand to be reiterated; find what interests you the most. If you are interested in more adult themed entertainment, find the SIM that aligns with what is appealing to you and like minded people are sure to be there. Good luck!

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1 hour ago, Atosuria Daviau said:

100% pointless what is the fun in watching to 3d models bump uglies using a poorly made animation loop.

 

44 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

With all the new mesh stuff, the 3d models ain't so ugly anymore  

:SwingingFriends:

And when your partner is an animator there is not need for a poorly made loop either :P

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