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Diana Beauchamp

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at first.. you can not hide on SL

groups access is useless... your partner can most likeley join the same group

you can rent/buy your own parcel, and restrict access...

 

but in all cases.....how you explain being online and there when your partner is also online?...you can not hide your online visibility.

If you really want to have multiple partners... be open about it ... or accept lots of drama..

 

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SL is full of secret hideaways. :)

Unfortunately, most of them will contain folks already in hiding.

If you'd also prefer your boyfriend can't see what's going on even from nearby, is a parcel that's access restricted and has avatar visibility disabled. Unless this is a kink, and then maybe the idea is that he can see. ;)

I'd agree with Alwin that the most productive route is the honest one. There's no need to be limited by the modern era's obsession with monogamy, but doing so ethically and fairly is most sustainable - and more fun all around as it can remove the risk of heartbreak or pain.

Take it from someone with experience - of affairs, and of (more recently) honesty.

 

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Diana Beauchamp wrote:

ty making an alt seems to be the most logical solution. thank you

and your partner can't read the forums?....

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1. Going behind your partner's back to have an affair doesn't usually end well. The best solution, if he's open to the idea, might be for you to both agree that you can have other play-partners in SL.

2. Most people who decide to cheat on their SL partner do so by creating an alt account that their partner doesn't know about.

3. There are plenty of nice adult places in SL where you can meet like-minded people to fool around with. A few are free to join, but most cost around $L 300 to $L 500 to join. This fee helps to pay for the sim & keeps out griefers & newbies. Elysion is my favorite adult sim of this type. The owner changes the sim seasonally & has parties on the weekends for people to meet. During the rest of the week, the sim is pretty quiet & has nice little semi-private cottages & such. The Chamber is one that always has people in it's lounge, but they can seem kind of cliquish to a new person. The Inner Room is smaller & usually empty, but has some parties now & then. - Note there is no real privacy in these places since anyone else there can cam on you & your partner. If you want real privacy, then you need a second home with privacy settings turned on.

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The thing about creating an alt for cheating on someone is that it creates a negative space. Ergo, if you are on SL regularly, or even irregularly, and your partner is fairly aware of when you are on, they will notice when you are NOT there. When they start asking you turn into Cleopatra queen of denial.

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Persephone Emerald wrote:

2. Most people who decide to cheat on their SL partner do so by creating an alt account that their partner doesn't know about.

 

 

 

and really nice surprise to start dating a new guy on this alt.... and appears to be your own bf doing the same..

 

/me looks forward to some new dramatic threads about cheating bf's

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