Cesartje Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 I have a stalker for more than an year now - how can I get rid of him? Can I report for harrassment? what should I do, I need help.So far I ignore him, but he keeps sending messages saying he is reporting me to LL - making similar profiles as mine. Any suggestions?thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alwin Alcott Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 mute/block and derender, if he does more than just stalk you can try a abuse report, but for real actions on that it has to be against TOS. Disputes between residents won't get any action from LL. don't go to places he also goes, SL is large enough to find other great places to hang out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roughplay Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 As far as I know is that problem more complicated because that stalker followed him to FB too and is kind of blackmailing and accusing him for things he never had done. But more Ces should tell ya. It is not a inworld stalker that as avatar follows him on sims. This is more an activity behind Ces back to harm him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alwin Alcott Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 let him do the talking himself, the more meanings the more confusing. If it's not SL why is it posted here? useless.... report it to the autorities where it belongs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cesartje Posted August 21, 2015 Author Share Posted August 21, 2015 It is Second life, I post about Second Life on facebook too. But you guys are right - mute and block every alt of him that sends me message.. oh dear, to some people Sl is all about drama! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cesartje Posted August 21, 2015 Author Share Posted August 21, 2015 Thanks for the reply, made me feel better. I have no idea who the person is, only alts are used. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roughplay Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 it was SL AND FB. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuka Katana Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 Frankly, I wish there was a way to get rid of them. I suspect you're on your own and Linden Labs doesn't appear to care. I've had someone passing out my RL name to anyone she can, possbily rapists and murderers, and they've done NOTHING despite several reports by several people. I wish you the best of luck, and am sorry this has happened. If possible, you may want to involve law enforcement as Linden Labs, though they have several options (including IP bans etc) will apparently do NOTHING to help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lobserver Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 If it make you feel any better, there are much easier ways for rapists / murderers / muggers to find their prey rather than targetting someone whose RL name got passed around in SL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tari Landar Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 This is an answer that applies to anyone...If you are concerned about RL safety, take your concerns to RL authorities. They, and only they, can actually do something about it. If it is not serious enough to take to RL authorities, you may be overly concerned about trivial matters (note, I said *may*). If you choose to make a report, or even multiple, for Sl violations, LL does not have any obligation(and will not take the initiative to) discuss any action they choose to, or choose not to, take against those violators with you. Use the tools you have available to you within SL to stop what you can. That includes banning, muting, ignoring, and stoping interactions with others who may be offending you in some manner(including shared associates, if necessary), and discontinuing going to places where you may find these issues to exist more frequently. You can contact sim owners too, but they, like LL, have no obligation to do anything at all against any potential offenders. For FB, you have similar tools available there, so use them. You have more power than you likely believe, and you should use it. Giving in to people who "stalk"(and I use that term very loosely, sometimes) by giving them attention is precisely what they want. For some, maybe most, it's purely a game, and giving into that shows them that they won the game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cesartje Posted August 21, 2015 Author Share Posted August 21, 2015 Thanks very much for all the comments. You guys have been very helpfull with the post. and made me feel better. thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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