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Are the littles all desperate growns? Now I understand why to avoid child avis!

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Would sure like to hear other people's take on this.

I did the adoption agency thing...(I am a SL n RL gay older male)

Long story short after weeding through the TEENS with jiggly parts much to big for most women OBVIOUSLY looking for poseball action and no talent to speak of with RP,I found a little one.  He/She RPed a child avi pretty well and it was lots of fun.  THEN the flirting started, and the grabbing and ...ugh lets just say it became nightmarish for myself and another who lives in my SL home.  The so called child became jealous or wanted to see the adults...have adult relations. I made a specific G rated area for the child and child's friends.  Even monitored their TV watching in game....they wanted to watch 50 shades, I had them watching cartoons.

Then the ADULT/Teenish avi was drug out by the child avi...with the Oh Please mister take me-speech ...etc etc.

Ultimately it became clear to me that this person has some real RL issues going on and slowly, and as nicely as I could I had to shut them down till they were finally..blocked due to rather desperate IMs.   It just felt creepy to me.

In talking to a SL friend about this, RL adult female who plays both children and adults and been in SL over 8 years, she explained that despite TOS this happens ALL the time.  Then just before I had to block the child avi's player she contacted me saying she was now staying on a Daddydom/baby girl sim still wanting *her daddy* aka me.  I looked a few up..not knowing that places like that even exsited and it seems they sugar coat it in NO AGEPLAY etc. etc. but..ehhhh...uhhhhh....

Stupid me thought that people playing children wanted to be CHILDREN not ...*that*.  Now I am am bleeeping terrified of child avis and will not let any on my sims for the time being. Cute as can be, but I do not want to be around one.

Are there ANY role played by adults children out there that actually just want to be CHILDREN and arent looking for a free ride with L's a home ....or ....WORSE??

 

 

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Unfortunately that's the downside. I have been in the family RP community for years now (I lost track) and I have had my share of the same thing you had. But on the flip side I have had some great kids toi. Its a matter of weeding them out. 

Me personally the first time they tell me or show me that they participate in age play I kick them to the curb, same with begging for items/L's.  I personally won't stand for it. If you are wanting the adult side then have an adult avi and go there with them. 

I have had kids that play both roles, adult and kids. To me, that is fine as long as its different accounts. That's just my take on it. It takes time to weed through the kids to find the ones that want to RP as actual kids and not messed up sicko's. 

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JamesKisson wrote:

Would sure like to hear other people's take on this.

I did the adoption agency thing...(I am a SL n RL gay older male)

Long story short after weeding through the TEENS with jiggly parts much to big for most women OBVIOUSLY looking for poseball action and no talent to speak of with RP,I found a little one.  He/She RPed a child avi pretty well and it was lots of fun.  THEN the flirting started, and the grabbing and ...ugh lets just say it became nightmarish for myself and another who lives in my SL home.  The so called child became jealous or wanted to see the adults...have adult relations. I made a specific G rated area for the child and child's friends.  Even monitored their TV watching in game....they wanted to watch 50 shades, I had them watching cartoons.

Then the ADULT/Teenish avi was drug out by the child avi...with the Oh Please mister take me-speech ...etc etc.

Ultimately it became clear to me that this person has some real RL issues going on and slowly, and as nicely as I could I had to shut them down till they were finally..blocked due to rather desperate IMs.   It just felt creepy to me.

In talking to a SL friend about this, RL adult female who plays both children and adults and been in SL over 8 years, she explained that despite TOS this happens ALL the time.  Then just before I had to block the child avi's player she contacted me saying she was now staying on a Daddydom/baby girl sim still wanting *her daddy* aka me.  I looked a few up..not knowing that places like that even exsited and it seems they sugar coat it in NO AGEPLAY etc. etc. but..ehhhh...uhhhhh....

Stupid me thought that people playing children wanted to be CHILDREN not ...*that*.  Now I am am bleeeping terrified of child avis and will not let any on my sims for the time being. Cute as can be, but I do not want to be around one.

Are there ANY role played by adults children out there that actually just want to be CHILDREN and arent looking for a free ride with L's a home ....or ....WORSE??

 

 

You are confusing a couple of things..

1. Littles are adults who get into a childish mindset at times. They are NOT child AVs. EVER. Daddy Dom/Mom//Little relationships are a part of BD/SM, not part of parent/child RP.

2. When your child first started with the "adult" RP, that was the moment to mute and bann. You let them continue and play ut the part.

3. Daddy Dom/ Babygirl sims are not ageplay sims. There are NO child avs allowed there. Do NOT lump DD/LG relationships into paedo territory. Thank you.

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I was checking out beaches and was tpd to a family nude beach where child and adult avis were naked. It creeped me out and I left once I realized it was a nude beach for all ages. I got several IMs wanting me to be a naughty mommy. Instantly block. I stopped looking to be a parent as well. 

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The reasons to avoid child avatars are manifold. What you have described isn't even in the Top Ten.

Alec - that they are all soooo precocious

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Sephina Frostbite wrote:

I was checking out beaches and was tpd to a family nude beach where child and adult avis were naked. It creeped me out and I left once I realized it was a nude beach for all ages. I got several IMs wanting me to be a naughty mommy. Instantly block. I stopped looking to be a parent as well. 

Ow that's very wierd :smileyfrustrated:

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Do NOT lump DD/LG relationships into paedo territory. Thank you.


I don't see much difference, outside of the shape.

The talking is the same, the spread of power is the same, the clothes are often the same.

Just the shape.

 

 

But that said... honestly, so what? You are both adults no? Why shouldn't one of you play the other's little daughter?

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TakumiAigan wrote:

 

Do NOT lump DD/LG relationships into paedo territory. Thank you.

I don't see much difference, outside of the shape.

The talking is the same, the spread of power is the same, the clothes are often the same.

Just the shape.

 

 

But that said... honestly, so what? You are both adults no? Why shouldn't one of you play the other's little daughter?

Please stay away from my children if you really see no difference between DD/LG and paedophilia. One is a loving comforting relationship between two adults, the other is a sexual attraction to children. If you can't see a difference, you are a sick individual.

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Invariably I have seen that Daddys and their little daughters get very defensive if their choices are questioned, to the point they start throwing around insults at anyone who dares are a question. But I still fail to see how an adult who chooses to play a man's daughter is any different from an adult playing a little girl without a dad sucking on a pacifier.

Maybe Drake you could tell me, how someone pretending to be the daughter of a grown man is different - but not in terms of insults, in terms of a rational explanation on why what you choose is ok and not creepy?

To me it seems akin to the barely legal naughty schoolgirl porn that some people seem to like. It's ok to pretend to be a schoolgirl in trouble with her teacher as long as you really are an adult and it's just play acting. Is this it?

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The difference is Pedophiles are attracted to children. DD/LGs are not children. They are adults. A baby girl doesn't act like a child. She doesn't act under age. She's not pretending to be a baby. Most times she's not even the DDs child. Just his baby girl. There's a huge difference. One is a predator and the other isn't.

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TakumiAigan wrote:

Invariably I have seen that Daddys and their little daughters get very defensive if their choices are questioned, to the point they start throwing around insults at anyone who dares are a question. But I still fail to see how an adult who chooses to play a man's daughter is any different from an adult playing a little girl without a dad sucking on a pacifier.

Maybe Drake you could tell me, how someone pretending to be the daughter of a grown man is different - but not in terms of insults, in terms of a rational explanation on why what you choose is ok and not creepy?

To me it seems akin to the barely legal naughty schoolgirl porn that some people seem to like. It's ok to pretend to be a schoolgirl in trouble with her teacher as long as you really are an adult and it's just play acting. Is this it?

As Sephina said, DD/lg is a relationship between two adults. When a little is in little mode: as in she is feeling childlike, scared, needy, or just in need of comfort, the Daddy (or Mommy) does not start a sexual moment. That would break their trust in the Big to protect them at all times.

It's not that our choices are questioned, it's when we are called paedos. Yeah, we get defensive about that. Wouldn't you?

Someone who is sexually attracted to children is sick. Caregiver/Little is a mindset, not about sexual attraction. What the OP was talking about was a toddler av having sex with an adult. That is sick and twisted. There are plenty of incest sims to get your daddy daughter fix, it is with two adult avs.

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