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Well I have done it. I'm almost ran out of money. Just another week and I will be homeless. Therefore is seek new slaves willing to support me. Please European timezone only.

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Mistress Jodi

Reading all your comments mayby I have to explain.
Till now i paid every month around 5000 L$ for my castle and sim. My slaves expect me to give them a home. So is it fair I expect a little fee providing them a home? Give me one good reason why a Mistress should pay for her slaves providing them sheltur. I'm not a fin dom, only expect a small fee, in my opinion that is only fair.

 

 

 

 

 

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Well, I'd better stay well away from this thread, to escape the crowding, as there is sure to be a torrent of volunteers rushing in to fund a penniless baglady whose slaves have all run away from her mistreatment.

**********Rudi**********

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85% of all homeless people are Men. I wonder if there is something women have, that those homeless men do not.

I've only see one woman hitch hiker while driving but the car in front of mine stopped so fast to pick her up, that I never got a good look at her.

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Now I have only been a pet/slave for a couple years now (SL not RL..figured I better clarify just in case) so I might be missing something but I am confused.  My Master takes care of funding a home and any clothing/items that he deems necessary or wanted......so the idea of a slave taking financial care of a Mistress is a bit alien to me.  Is it more common place for a slave to take care of the financial needs of the one they serve?  Sure its a slave's job to take care of the more carnal needs as well as companionship, cleaning, being a foot stool, and anything else a Master would require but financially..................hmmm just seems odd.

Not trying to start a fight just curious and wondering if i am not serving my Master properly.

 

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Are we talking about homelessness in SL or in RL?

If its RL:

Sorry to say that, but its not a strangers duty to support you. Needless to say what huge amounts of money would be needed to pay for your rent. And if you ran out of all money, your bills and food would have to be paid for too. I don't know much about the dutch socialsystems, but it can't be that worse. It takes A LOT untill someone gets truely homeless without a chance. And shouldn't someone who could lose their current home do other things than hanging in SL?

If its SL:

Sorry...but then you are talking about it as if it was important. And I think its unfair for the slaves.

 

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Well you seem to take good pictures, perhaps you could do that for work., oh wait, you have a store selling poses.. hmm.. add in the photography bit.

I am assuming you are a findomme. Most subs i know and have been around do not support their Dom/Domme. Perhaps you should say that upfront. Unless you aren't and just want a sugar daddy sub. Which strikes me as odd.

Good Luck!

 

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Men have the ability to compromise as well, though they may not be given as much opportunity. I thought about the 85% statistic today, then went digging, just a little. As I expected, there are lots of statistics, and many ways to parse them. If we just look at the single homeless, it's reported that just over 2/3rds of are men and the women/children population is rising fast (though they are less often single).

"Most studies show that single homeless adults are more likely to be male than female. In 2007, a survey by the U.S. Conference of Mayors found that of the population surveyed 35% of the homeless people who are members of households with children are male while 65% of these people are females. However, 67.5% of the single homeless population is male, and it is this single population that makes up 76% of the homeless populations surveyed" - U.S. Conference of Mayors, 2007

Discovering the reasons behind all the statistics would (and probably does) employ a government agency. The gender component is likely a complex stew of things, including cultural expectations/stereotypes, availability of support infrastructure (which favors children and women) and gender based behavioral differences. One would expect the different ways men and women cooperate to make a difference (I have no children, but I feel the tug of my "mommy" genes ;-), but I've no clue the magnitude or nature of that difference. I know far too little about this to make any claims.

Let's just hope that all the numbers go down.

 

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Jodi Sharple wrote:

why do I have to pay every month 5000 L$ providing my slaves a home? Seems fair to me if they pay just a small fee for it.

Sounds like you should get out of the bondage game, and move across to the Pimpin' game.

Make 'em earn their keep! :D

Paying for land is always optional.

 

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Jodi Sharple wrote:

No I'm not a fin domme. But why do I have to pay every month 5000 L$ providing my slaves a home? Seems fair to me if they pay just a small fee for it.

Who said you have to do that? In my opinion its stupid to do that and proves you aren't really a mistress lots of people would desire. :matte-motes-wink-tongue:

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Jodi Sharple wrote:

No I'm not a fin domme. But why do I have to pay every month 5000 L$ providing my slaves a home? Seems fair to me if they pay just a small fee for it.

Who said they have to live with you? My subs have always had their own place. Yes, we got toether at my place at times, other times at hers. Everyone needs their own space at times. There will come a time when your sub will say "I'm just not into it today, I need some alone time." If you don't accept that then you have no business being their Dom/Domme.

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I clicked this link to laugh at the noobs that go for this, but ended up finding a little more respect for the average SL D/s community.  And I hate to break it to ya, but when money becomes any part of a requirement for being your sub, then YEA that makes you a findomme...  and while SL is a bit of a joke, in RL findommes are looked down upon because they set a horrible example for people in D/s.  Findommes are closer to prostitutes or "escorts" than anything related to D/s.  I've had multiple subs in RL buy me lunch or gifts, but NOT because it was a requirement of any kind.  D/s is about a mutually benificial and enjoyable relationship and asking for subs to pay for your castle just makes you sound pety and broke....and doesn't help the reflection of your personality at all...it makes you seem concieted and full of yourself.

However...perhaps you're not typically like this at all....peeerhaps you're just desperate to pay the bills and don't want to lose what you've worked hard on.  And if that's the case, then that's very understandable, and there are many things someone in your situation (with a store, a large sim, etc) could do.  If you have any close subs, they might be willing to help, just like any close friends might.  But please take some advice from this forum and reflect on it, cuz if you're a good domme, then you wouldn't require money from subs.  Being a good dom/me is about mastery of one's self before others.  I have the opposite issue from you....I tend to be too prideful to accept help from my subs and friends when sometimes I might really need it.  

p.s. Your pics are good, but could be much better with a few touchups in photoshop

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If she's renting out parcels on her land for 5000 linden a month (what is that, 20 dollars?), then so long as the prim count and land piece is decently sized then I don't see the problem for what it is that she's asking--especially if she's going to provide domme services on top of that. If they get to take up prim count at all, then depending on the prim count they receive, then it's still a reasonable price paying rent is reasonable if domme services are considered. It's just unfortunate that the only submissives she desires are the ones that will take up rent with her, if we were to judge the post solely by its wording.

There's nothing terribly shameful for it, it's just not impressive.

All this finne domme hate is rather amusing. They're not that bad of a lot, and some are even quite lovely individuals.

 

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JaedenDelanaire wrote:

If she's renting out parcels on her land for 5000 linden a month (what is that, 20 dollars?), then so long as the prim count and land piece is decently sized then I don't see the problem for what it is that she's asking--especially if she's going to provide domme services on top of that. If they get to take up prim count at all, then depending on the prim count they receive, then it's still a reasonable price. It's just unfortunate that the only submissives she desires are the ones that will take up rent with her, if we were to judge the post solely by its wording.

There's nothing terribly shameful for it, it's just not impressive.

All this finne domme hate is rather amusing. They're not that bad of a lot, and some are even quite lovely individuals.

 

How did you so totally miss what she said.. SHE rents a parcel for 5000L a month and wants her slaves to pitchin to pay for HER land.

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JaedenDelanaire wrote:

 

All this finne domme hate is rather amusing. They're not that bad of a lot, and some are even quite lovely individuals.

 

On the same basis you might say Jeffrey Dahmer was quite an inventive chef.

© The Judge

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I didn't totally miss what she said.  ... Not totally. :smileyembarrassed: I'm not sure how I missed it that badly, either. I'm going to falsely blame it on wine.

Let me rephrase:

If she's renting out rooms in her castle sim, then it's not out of the question to ask for rent money, so long as they get the option to decorate their room however they please.

Incidentally, getting to rent out a sizable area for a castle with only 5000 linden is dirt cheap compared to what I faced when I tried my hand at renting good fantasy estate.


jujmental wrote:

On the same basis you might say Jeffrey Dahmer was quite an inventive chef.

© The Judge


It's a stretch to compare finne dommes to a rapist, murderer and cannibal. They're not that bad--hell, the most any of them will do is webcam with you.

 

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JaedenDelanaire wrote:

the most any of them will do is webcam with you for money.


FIFY!

On the charge of cheap prostitution: Guilty

 

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JaedenDelanaire wrote:

I didn't
totally
miss what she said.  ... Not
totally
. :smileyembarrassed: I'm not sure how I missed it that badly, either. I'm going to falsely blame it on wine.

Let me rephrase:

If she's renting out rooms in her castle sim, then it's not out of the question to ask for rent money, so long as they get the option to decorate their room however they please.

Incidentally, getting to rent out a sizable area for a castle with only 5000 linden is dirt cheap compared to what I faced when I tried my hand at renting good fantasy estate.

 

But you did miss it.. She is not talking about renting rooms. She wants her slaves to share in the cost of HER parcel.

Lets try this way.. I rent a 1024 parcel, I pay 1800L a month for it. I meet a young lady that is into BD/SM as a slave. We talk for a while and she agrees to become MY slave. At some point I spring on her that she needs to help pay for MY parcel.

As far as I have always seen, it doesn't matter who the Dom/Domme is in the relationship. If you have land, it is YOUR choice. You have no business asking your sub to help pay for it. Most of them have their own land to pay for. Why should they have to help you?

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But she's asking them to live with her, to share her "shelter" as she so put it? Surely that would mean she has some inclination to give them a personal space with a bit of prim count within that parcel.

Lol, ugh. That scenario. If I were the slave in that scenario, the only thing that would keep me from placing that dom on block would be if he were frick'n James Deen himself. But yes, when worded exactly like that, it does sound abhorrent and redonkoulous. I don't know. Maybe I'm suffering from a save-the-damsel complex and I'm trying to shed some positive light on someone who may or may not deserve it.

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JaedenDelanaire wrote:

I don't know. Maybe I'm suffering from a save-the-damsel complex and I'm trying to shed some positive light on someone who may or may not deserve it.

A few years ago, I met this guy who got super turned on by paying men to dominate him.  I thought, "Why not?" and did it.  He ended up paying me a total of 15,000L for one session, which I thought that was rather excessive.  I just laughed it off and had fun taking my sister shopping with the proceeds.  But when he IMed for another meeting, I turned him down... I just wasn't comfortable with selling myself that way.  I think of it as an experiment from which I learned that my sense of self-respect is not worth any amount of money.

Because of this, I personally find it difficult to think of someone being willing to give up their self-respect for financial gain in a positive light... even when they try to justify the action by not charging very much for it.

...Dres

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