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As a male escort and considering the success of companions who are female escorts i can see a trend going on. Not sure if its just me or my point of view but it seems female escorts are far more successful than male escorts, despite having more competition. Just rouzing up a discussion so i would like to hear your thoughts on the matter, Do you think females have the upper hand in dancing/escorting or do males have the upper hand or is it just a matter of what you're doing/how you're doing it and who you know? Give me your thoughts :)


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I presume you are suggesting that males impersonating women are likely to find more gullible male clients than ingenuous males are to find clients among males impersonating females.

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thats not the discussion at all. the discussion is femae (geniun female) escorts success vs males (genuin male) escorts success. if it easier for women to persuade men or easier for men to persuade women

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Females look better on the poles.

Srsly, I'm not sure why this comes as a surprise to you.  Out in the real World the men pay for sex in a variety of ways and the women dole it out as needed.  Then they get married and the man goes out and cheats because he's stupid like that.

In second life it's interesting though.  As a male escort I would suspect the majority of your clients would be gay guys or gay guys pretending to be women with the very, VERY rare woman just wanting attention without having to deal with all the relationship BS.  If you're cool with that you might get along fine.

In this game tho the women are definitely at a disadvantage because actual men are kind of scarce.  Next one I pick up for a date I'll ask her if she wants to pay me.  We'll see how that goes.

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If you are talking about heterosexual escorting, not as many women are willing to pay for it as men, just like in RL. While it is dangerous to generalize and there are exceptions, on the whole women are wired differently than men and place more value on the relationship side of sex than many men do.  A woman may want to scratch an itch occasionally, but that doesn't mean they are willing to pay to do it.  Why should they when it is relatively easy to find it for free if you are willing to put yourself out there for it?

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Why should a woman hire a male escort? She wouldn't get any benefit from that, as she would be well aware that all he is doing or saying is just because he got paid. There is no real success to that and why should she feel better from false compliments?

If she wants to find someone for naugthy fun, she can easily get what she wants. There are many men around just looking for that and who won't say no, if she has at least a small idea on how to flirt and act. Guys seem to have a much harder time doing the same. Also they benefit in a different way from an escort. They can blend out that she doesn't tell the truth and he can feel proud of being able to pay for her.

 Last but not least: SL has always been sort of a bizarre mirror of the real world...female prostitutes are part of that.

(also...yes, those danceanimations look far better with a female avatar).

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In general this is just a matter of human nature. Men and women have different drives and preferences. Few of us can actually put those in perspective or obtain real proportions for how many prefer what. 

In the San Diego area they have the typical strip joints, women dancing topless and/or nude. There are no male dancer places in the SD area AFAIK. But, for a time there were. The newspapers say the male dancer clubs were packed. They had as many attendees as any female dancer clubs. But, the ratios of female to male clubs makes it hard to say the audience of women wanting to see male dancers was more than the other way around. But, there definitely was an audience for male dancers. 

The escort businesses are hard to quantify. I expect the ratios in SL and RL to be similar. But, anonymity in SL is somewhat like the anonymity in Las Vegas. Women often travel some place where they feel they can be more anonymous to do their chasing and get lucky. I would expect women to be less inhibited in SL than RL. 

I suspect gigolos do better than escorts in SL and RL. I only know one real gigolo. He does very well financially and there seems to be no end to women pursuing him. 

Because women are generally more into relationship than a quick ride, the more discrete and long term relationship a gigolo provides compared to an escort may be more appealing. Also, women tend to require more understanding of our sexual nature. We are not as easily satisfied as males. For some women reaching orgasm is a complex mix of emotional state and specific physical stimulation that may not be possible for a stranger to accomplish. Only one that knows a woman well may be able to set the mood and provide the specific physical stimulation to bring her to orgasm. 

My opinion is escorts cannot satisfy the group of women that need more than basic physical stimulation to reach orgasm. Thus the audience for male escorts is rather limited. For female escorts it is more of an anything works assembly line where any escort can handle any client. 

Women tend to look for partners that will spend the time needed to understand and meet their needs. Long term lovers and probably gigolos have a better chance, or are perceived as, of doing that.

 

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I've actually considered hiring a male escort a few times. Not to have cartoon sex really, but for an afternoon of exploring, flirting, dancing, etc. The reason being its incredibly easy to find someone...anyone ready to fornicate with you, its much more difficult to find someone willing to relax and enjoy some harmless fun with no expectations.


I think part of the reason women seem to be more successful as escorts is because a mans needs aren't as multifaceted as a womans. Thats not an insult, its just an observation. A man doesnt need the same emotional and mental wooing a woman does to feel physical satisfaction. So it is much easier to service a man than it is with a woman who most likely has very specific ideas of what will and will not do the job well for her.


I've often wondered if escorts (male or female) really make much money within SL. I keep hearing stories about this one girl that so-n-so knew or heard of that made enormous amounts of money. Ive just never met one. So far....

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it's not really a discussion on if its true or not its a discussion on WHY YOU think its true or why you think its false. just your justification for it hahah Just state your thoughts i have my own beliefs and convictions about it

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In my experience, with my female friends, if they go out looking for male dancers, is to have a laugh at them.  They would pay to hear the gesturing and laugh at the creativity.  And yes, I've been there, forced into a female av, so they can have fun at me, I don't mind as long as they have their fun.

 

But, tho they go looking for male dancers, they have never expressed an interest on doing the same with a male escort.  As they say, they have "been there, done that" and revisited.

 

On the other hand, I have to be careful not to be too friendly to some as to avoid being "offered" to pay for my things.  I'm a friendly guy, I'm happy with my RL and I come to SL to build, to talk to friends and to help at a friend's business.

 

So, finally going to what's on the topic.... this women have a fine tuned radar for bs.  They hate it with a passion, they can see the sex question miles away before it happens and they are ready to maul whoever dares to ask for it.  They love sex (with someone significant), they just hate the bs.

 

Main complaint they have is a male av looking cheap, and it doesn't have anything to do with how much a guy spent on their looks.  The oily, pumped bodies of the dancers, the long hairs, doesn't matter how expensive, looks cheap to them and they are happy to laugh at those.

 

As some have already pointed, a girl can have sex for free whenever she wants if she looks for it, not hard.

 

But this I've seen, if a guy is nice, have a regular looking av, likes to talk and sometimes go around exploring, you'll be offered things you never asked for, financially speaking.  In other words, the boyfriend act, the feeling of having someone actually care for them, even if it's just to ask how their day was.  But this doesn't work if they feel its fake.  Tho, some do love to play if it's agreed in advance, but for that they have the rping games, also for free.

 

I don't see how a male escort can provide that feeling of trust and being the "only woman" for a fee.  Or maybe you can offer it but the word itself (escort) is playing against you.

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Actually, you will make more money catering to homosexual and bisexual men only. Many men do enjoy paying for certain services in Second Life.:matte-motes-big-grin:

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texasthomas wrote:

it's not really a discussion on if its true or not its a discussion on WHY YOU think its true or why you think its false. just your justification for it hahah Just state your thoughts i have my own beliefs and convictions about it

I smell an end of the year essay for a college student...

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texasthomas wrote:

it's not really a discussion on if its true or not its a discussion on WHY YOU think its true or why you think its false. just your justification for it hahah Just state your thoughts i have my own beliefs and convictions about it

It occurs to me that if you want to control the parameters of the discussion this tightly, you might consider posting both the question and the conclusion and have done with it.

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Drake1 Nightfire wrote:


texasthomas wrote:

it's not really a discussion on if its true or not its a discussion on WHY YOU think its true or why you think its false. just your justification for it hahah Just state your thoughts i have my own beliefs and convictions about it

I smell an end of the year essay for a college student...

My nose was detecting a more youthful bouquet, but I think we are on the same page.

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