Aimy Rayna Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 I've been on SL for years, but I have lost contact with my friends. I tried wandering the grid to find new ones but feel so out of place. It's not easy for a person with social phobia (Anxiety) and agoraphobia to find people. I end up spending all my time creating alone or sitting in my house alone. It's time to find a good group of friends 30's and up. I just want to feel comfortable enough to be myself and enjoy laughing with people. I love laughing, dancing, hanging out, hunts, exploring, photography, and creating... I am very shy at first, but once I get to know you, I will be very relaxed and open. I'm married and a mother of 4 from 25 years to 10 years old. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tinkatoi Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Hi Almy Come visit Trade Winds and get involved with us in some 18th century pirate roleplay ;p. We're actually a very nice community that has dances, events, sailing battles and a whole lot of other nonsenical chatty mayhem. There are people here that have been friends for years and I am really lucky to be a part of the community now. Its also a great spot for photography, hanging out, searching for treasure ;p and its an inspiring place to create. Its a group of 10 regions so you may need to explore a little but there are Navies, Corsairs and other firendly lowlife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aimy Rayna Posted November 23, 2013 Author Share Posted November 23, 2013 That sounds interesting. Never roleplayed or spoke like a pirate though. Kinda scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chic Aeon Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Another good place to meet people is in classes like at New Citizen Incorporated. Lots of folks hang around there and chat and you learn something in the process. Personally I think the best plan is just to get out and do what you enjoy doing and not worry too much about "finding" people. When you look too hard it seems to be counterproductive. Find some groups with activities that you like and join those. Most likely there will be folks there interested in making new friends. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Chic Aeon wrote: Another good place to meet people is in classes like at New Citizen Incorporated. Lots of folks hang around there and chat and you learn something in the process. Good luck. Yep, I totally agree. Here some pics and the slurl of the place: http://www.second-life-adventures.com/kuula-citizen-incorporated/ If you search for it , use the name "Kuula" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aimy Rayna Posted November 23, 2013 Author Share Posted November 23, 2013 Oh yes, I've been there once. I felt invisible. It's hard for me to strick up a conversation with people I don't know. I'll have to try again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anjelikka Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 Hi....we would love for you to stop by our retreat... Our garden is great for photo shots...or just explore the house...we love visitors and hope to make new friends. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Monty/224/41/82/?title=A%26M%20RETREAT/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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