Question for Subs/Doms

[Tallulah Bilavio]

Hi readers  

My SL partner has decided she wants to be my sub.  We both know a little about it but not how to set up.  She wants a collar but there are so many for different lifestyles that it's so confusing.  Anyone have any advice please? 

[Alyona Su]

@Tallulah Bilavio

Before spending money on any of the gadgets in common use by D/s genre, search places for "Temple of the Collar" - go there and grab an Open Collar - they are free. That way you can both learn it, play with it, get to know what it can do, how it works, and what you want to do with it all before investing money into additional things. That way, if you decide it's not for you, or you decide to approach it in a different way, you haven't over-invested, etc. If you decide it is something you wish to delve into deeper, then you'll, at least, know what you're looking for or see something that will actually interest you.

And D/s is still 80% "vanilla". (If you don't yet, you will eventually know what that means later)

Edited December 4, 2019 by Alyona Su

[Tallulah Bilavio]

Thank you so much