Tallulah Bilavio Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 Hi readers My SL partner has decided she wants to be my sub. We both know a little about it but not how to set up. She wants a collar but there are so many for different lifestyles that it's so confusing. Anyone have any advice please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alyona Su Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 (edited) @Tallulah Bilavio Before spending money on any of the gadgets in common use by D/s genre, search places for "Temple of the Collar" - go there and grab an Open Collar - they are free. That way you can both learn it, play with it, get to know what it can do, how it works, and what you want to do with it all before investing money into additional things. That way, if you decide it's not for you, or you decide to approach it in a different way, you haven't over-invested, etc. If you decide it is something you wish to delve into deeper, then you'll, at least, know what you're looking for or see something that will actually interest you. And D/s is still 80% "vanilla". (If you don't yet, you will eventually know what that means later) Edited December 4, 2019 by Alyona Su 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tallulah Bilavio Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Thank you so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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