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How to Get Females to have Skype fun with you?

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MoiselleErin Teardrop wrote:

The OP might think, "But I don't want to pay for it". Well, here is a reality - "Adult fun" is something that women sell and men buy.

In SL, some escorts vanish after they get paid, like immediately so save your money. Instead - I think they still have adult phone lines you can call. They are not connected to skype or SL but if "adult chat" is your thing, that is your best bet.

 

BUT - if you are willing to take the long route and get to know someone first, be careful not to fall into that friend zone. Any type of relationship one wants needs to be conditioned from the onset.

Men sell it as well.. and just as many women buy it.

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MoiselleErin Teardrop wrote:

The OP might think, "But I don't want to pay for it". Well, here is a reality - "Adult fun" is something that women sell and men buy.

In SL, some escorts vanish after they get paid, like immediately so save your money. Instead - I think they still have adult phone lines you can call. They are not connected to skype or SL but if "adult chat" is your thing, that is your best bet.

 

BUT - if you are willing to take the long route and get to know someone first, be careful not to fall into that friend zone. Any type of relationship one wants needs to be conditioned from the onset.

Men sell it as well.. and just as many women buy it.

Men sell it as well to other men who pay a lot for it. I wonder what the going rate for voice escorts is nowadays? A few years ago, I knew someone who was getting 1000L for 15 minutes.

Alot of men come to SL for sex, alot of women come to SL for romance. I have a male friend who goes to clubs, looking for women to fool around with and zero interest in romance or love.  He happens to be polite and charming and witty, with a great sense of humor, and he will listen attentively when he encounters a woman looking for true love, and then back away slowly.

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There are escorts in SL that will do this.  You of course have to pay them. 

If you don't want to pay or take the time to build a long term relationship and trust, you could go around and just ask women outright.  However, the last thing 99% of SL women want to hear from a newb like you is "wanna have da sex?".  So if you take this course of action be prepared to , develop a bad reputation, become the butt of a lot of jokes,  get virtually slapped in the face a lot,  blocked by a lot of women and banned from a lot of places, before you find one that will.

Contrary to what you may have heard of SL's reputation some SL women may be somewhat more free with their favors than they are in RL (but not all by any means), but are not sl*ts.  Pretty much the same dating rules apply in SL as RL.

 

 

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This exactly! I don't come to SL to find people to Skype with and thats what a lot of men seem to want. It's like they think SL is just another dating site and BAM! lets move this into RL as soon as possible. No thanks.

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Yes thats all they want these days. Voice or even better cam...

Its kinda poor if you ask me. They can't let themselves flow on the fantasy and seek only RL stuff in a virtual world. (and if you won't do it, you a probably ugly, a man or both). :catwink:

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Lucretia Brandenburg wrote:

In my experience, a number of women come to SL for dating, whereas a seemingly large number of men come for sex, not exactly dating, there's a pretty wide gap between the two.  

There is this divergence of opinions as to what "dating" someone includes and entails. 

Some girls I know don't like using the word "date" when going to do different things with them.  They tell me that the idea of "dating" implies a complete relationship which includes sex. 

Isn't what the women you refer to doing more accurately described as "socialize?"

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LOL to me, dating is socializing for the purpose of getting to know someone better with an eye toward potential romance. Sleeping with, hooking up shacking up, fooling around, being exclusive (which is a very weird, badly constructed fragment) ... those are terms I've heard for dating plus sexual activity. So to clarify, what I've noticed is that a lot of women come to SL looking for romance which may lead to "love making" (a whole other discussion to define THAT) whereas a lot of men come to SL looking for sex.

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Lucretia Brandenburg wrote:

LOL to me, dating is socializing for the purpose of getting to know someone better with an eye toward potential romance. Sleeping with, hooking up shacking up, fooling around, being exclusive (which is a very weird, badly constructed fragment) ... those are terms I've heard for dating plus sexual activity. So to clarify, what I've noticed is that a lot of women come to SL looking for romance which may lead to "love making" (a whole other discussion to define THAT) whereas a lot of men come to SL looking for sex.

"dating is socializing for the purpose of getting to know someone better with an eye toward potential romance"

Isn't that called "courting?"

 

p.s.  Very happy to see you used the phrase 'a lot,' not dumping all into a stereotype.  I heard someone say once that, "A woman can have sex with any man she wants to and that a man will have sex with any woman who will let him."  While there may be some truth to this generalization, I don't think it is an absolute.

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Your asking a big question here, go to your local book store, there will be a huge range of books on relationships. I actually think the question your asking, with a little desperation is, will anyone f%&k me please. I don't think many women find that attractive, and even if they wanted some mindless fun, I don't think they are looking here on the forum for strangers to play with on skype. (I may be wrong, perhaps your cup floweth over) Try cultivating a personality, a sense of humour and listen to what women are saying to you, instead of trying to work out when the best moment is to ask them to skype with you.......in other words, you can't push a river dude!

Or you could pay for it.

While a lot of guys come here for sex, there are many who want to build connections with women, that may or may not include intimacy of the kind you are looking for, but for many isn't the only motivation, just saying.

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Actually, according to Oxford English Dictionary:

female, n. and adj.

A. n.

1. A person of the sex that can bear offspring; a woman or a girl.

a. Paired or contrasted with male. A member of this sex in a group or set of persons of both sexes.

b. Simply: a woman or girl. Also occas.: a wife or mistress.

2. An individual of this sex (contrasted with male); a female animal (including the human being considered as an animal species). Also: female individuals or the female sex considered generally or collectively etc.

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My first, biggest and best advice is to make your ava hawt. Women are vain, we like eye candies. (this is a generalization I know, but a true one!) Once you've become said eye candy, go out and about and practice your flirting. Speaking for myself, the guys that I added to skype were the ones that made me laugh, and made me curious. 

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Having only recently had the courage to cam my Master, I can say with a lot of conviction that the experience is deeply thilling, Love makes all the difference squill. be patient and you will be rewarded, SL like RL isnt only about instant gratification

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I should have said in common, accepted, contemporary usage it's best to consider it an adjective. Of course, if someone is hit on the head and wakes up thinking he's Jane Austin, or falls into a time vortex and is transported back to the late 18th century, that's different. It's sexist and dehumanizing to refer to women as females; as a noun, it's best left to refer to so called "lower ordered" critters.

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Lucretia Brandenburg wrote:

I should have said in common, accepted, contemporary usage it's best to consider it an adjective. Of course, if someone is hit on the head and wakes up thinking he's Jane Austin, or falls into a time vortex and is transported back to the late 18th century, that's different. It's sexist and dehumanizing to refer to women as females; as a noun, it's best left to refer to so called "lower ordered" critters.

Earth Females never cease to fascinate me.     ;)

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I think you should be even more specific about usage otherwise all of the following is dehumanzing by your definition:

Like Illinois General Assembly with its Business Enterprise for Minorities, Females, and Persons with Disabilities Act.

Or Departament of Health and Human Services with Leading Causes of Death in Females (http://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/)

Or Rudy Simone with her book: Aspergirls: Empowering Females With Asperger Syndrome.

Or Leah Campbell's book and site (about herself): Single Infertile Female.




 

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Don't see why people search from real things on a virtual platform. The only thing real you can get here is money tbh.

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It's hard to make generalizations about SL... scroll up a few threads and there's a bunch of people on here talking about how their SL relationship went RL and how happy they are. I happen to also fall into this minority - I wasn't looking for a relationship in SL, but it happened anyway. I fell in love head over heels in '07, and we ended up together in RL in 2008. Things worked out great and we're still together and happy.

RESULTS NOT TYPICAL.

So, if you ask me, you can probably get what you want out of SL - but only as long as you have something to offer someone else. (That's true in the real world, by the way.) 

Here's the hard truth:

Nobody cares about what a "nice guy" you are. Nice guy? Go help Grandma across the street. How will these hypothetical females BENEFIT from  a relationship with Mr. Nice Guy - and I don't necessarily mean LTR dating, this can apply to the short term as well.

Are you funny as hell? Not just by your own definiton. Can you genuinely make people laugh? Are you the life of the party at clubs? Can you spark a conversation and get people to talk instead of gesturebating? Build you some social skills if you haven't got some already.

Are you loaded? Having Lindens means you've got the discipline at some point in either life to acquire and maintain wealth. Ditto with owning property in SL.

Can you build? I mean decent building, not slapped-together prim structures. Or maybe you can script or animate stuff. It shows that you're smart, patient and have focus.

Do you look decent? Or are you just wandering around noob places with the noob skin and no AO and the freebie organ poking up from your hips?

Do you respect yourself? Or are you whining and broadcasting on open chat how SL is fake and sucks and everybody in it sucks and you're all buttdevastated that nobody will open up a skype window with you the nanosecond you IM them with 'hi' because you think life is a movie and you're entitled to free Skype-sexin's on demand?

What I'm saying is, if you want someone to skype with you and "have fun", you've got to make it worth their while, because there ain't no Salvation Army of Skypesex. SL is not a charity. And the way you word your questions, suggests to me that you don't understand women very well yet. Take it from the old man: It is well worth your time to get to know and respect the women you meet AS HUMAN BEINGS, and not female-shaped cardboard cutouts that you want to stick your noobdick into. You will all benefit from the friendships (and perhaps more) that result!

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