Looking to meet others

[Silverchild24]

I joined SL about two months ago and have more or less settled in save for one thing, finding others to hang out with. I am sure that I have no explored everything as of yet but I was hoping after two months there would be something else to do other than shop and explore.

Anyways, does anyone have tips of how to meet others and connect.

[Tex Monday]

Hey there....

Welcome to SL. My suggestion is for new residents to check the search function for groups tha tyou might be interested in. Put in your interests and see what comes up. When you find a group that you like, join it..most are free. When you do that, find out who's on...send a group message out..see who says hi. Or just IM the moderator, if they're on. Most people are pretty friendly in world so you should get a few responses.

Good luck....

[Thinkerer Melville]

Here are some tips about how to use SL resources to find people with interests that fit yours: 

How do I meet people? 

TKR

 

[Madeline Blackbart]

I found most of my friends from hanging out at popular sims or clubs. Antoher good way is to join groups like people said or if your into something like bloodlines then join a clan.

[Hippie Bowman]

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Silverchild24 wrote:

I joined SL about two months ago and have more or less settled in save for one thing, finding others to hang out with. I am sure that I have no explored everything as of yet but I was hoping after two months there would be something else to do other than shop and explore.

 

Anyways, does anyone have tips of how to meet others and connect.

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Hi Silverchild!  Welcome to SL and to the SL forums.  I don't have any tips other then what the others have suggested.  I do own a fairly active spaceport with lots of people there.  If you want Friend me and contact me in world.  I would love to hook you up to some great people for you to meet!  Far out!

 

 

Peace!

[Bunky Snowbear]

Hi Silverchild24,

 

In my experience, it can take a while to make good friends in SL. I'd recommend...

- filling out your profile first. Be honest about the type of person you are but don't give away too much about yourself.

-Spend some time in places that interest you. It might be arty sims or one that follows certain fashion, musical style or nationality or age group for example. Really just somewhere you feel comfortable and where there is some consistent local chatting.

- Don't be shy, but don't be too outspoken at first. Participate in local chat when appropriate. Say "Hi' to people. Ask questions.

I would recommend avoiding...

-IMing strangers. Older residents can be suspicious about being IMed by strangers.

- asking older residents "How do i change clothes?" or "How do I make money?" These may be good honest questions but they can take a long time to answer and a lot of residents won't give you the time.  If you are having trouble with these things its probably best to read about it or go to a sim that is designed to help new residents get their head around the basics.

- Don't offer a friendship request until you have actually bonded with someone, ie had a few friendly conversations over a few days or weeks. People will likely consider you a pest if you send friendship requests to strangers.

 

Anyway, this is just my opinion based on my experiences. It can take years to find good, real friends that you can trust and rely on. It can be tough out there, so be patient and try not to wear your heart on your sleeve. Don't be afraid to ignore/mute the trolls, haters and griefers. That said, the overwhelming majority are nice, civilised people.

 

Good luck! :catvery-happy: