ok i need help on how and where to find the place to change the Avatars name

[Griffin Ceawlin]

"Legacy" V1 Style Profile:

If you have a display name and wish to change it (or if you wish to set one for the first time), you will first need to have display names enabled in Preferences / General: View Display Names. With that set, you will get a wrench icon on your profile, to the right of your user name. Click that to open the Change Display Name window.

Web Based V2 Style:

To change your own profile, click the Edit button near the top. You will get a new page showing three tabs
Profile

This has several groups, as follows:

... Display Name: This shows your current display name, and allows you to change it to something else.

 

Selecting a Profile View

To select which of the two you wish to use, access Preferences / General (the Preferences window can by opened with Ctrl-P, or from the top menu bar, Avatar / Preferences). In the upper right corner, enable Use web profiles by default to use web based profiles; disable it to use legacy profiles.

[Griffin Ceawlin]

"Legacy" V1 Style Profile:

If you have a display name and wish to change it (or if you wish to set one for the first time), you will first need to have display names enabled in Preferences / General: View Display Names. With that set, you will get a wrench icon on your profile, to the right of your user name. Click that to open the Change Display Name window.

Web Based V2 Style:

To change your own profile, click the Edit button near the top. You will get a new page showing three tabs
Profile

This has several groups, as follows:

... Display Name: This shows your current display name, and allows you to change it to something else.

 

Selecting a Profile View

To select which of the two you wish to use, access Preferences / General (the Preferences window can by opened with Ctrl-P, or from the top menu bar, Avatar / Preferences). In the upper right corner, enable Use web profiles by default to use web based profiles; disable it to use legacy profiles.

[Charolotte Caxton]

https://my.secondlife.com/settings/profile

Display Name

[Griffin Ceawlin]

Or that.

[Charolotte Caxton]

Yours was way more informative