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Hi there

Firstly thank you for taking the time to view this post amongst the many posts in this thread

I have noted quite a few people wanting to tell me what I should do, want and need; to these people please read below..

"There is something I want to point out to you before you read on - I am not asking for an opinion from you, or your disection of what I should want or need or even how I should choose to live in SL and RL, If you have a comment to this thread about what I should want, expect, need, do, or anything other than respond to the thread with a view to contacting me to further a conversation then please in all respectful conscience keep it to yourself.

I'm fully aware of what I want, need and should do and would like to hear from people who have a GENUINE interest in commenting or wishing me good luck, and not reading negative comments or lifestyle advice... you have come to read this thread because you were either interested in the topic or you are here to troll the thread, so please only comment if you have a genuine interest in contacting me"

Thank you...

 

Now thats out the way :)

My name is Socrates (Soc for short) in SL. I live in the UK (United Kingdom) in RL, I'm 41yrs old and drive semi's (trucks) for a RL living. At this time my RL mirrors my SL life in that I'm straight and single and have been for many years through personal choice.

I usually login to SL during the hours of 7am - 10pm SLT (4pm-7am LONDON GMT {over night}) (at the extremes) I'm obviously not online during all that time...lol and on mixed days of the week depending upon my RL work schedule.

I would love to meet an SL female so as to become better acquainted with you in SL and look towards finding a more resolute, equal and meaningful SL relationship. 

"I can NOT reiterate this enough!!, I am NOT looking for a SLexual partner,"

So a little about me as Soc, well despite what this thread lists me as; "New Resident" I've actually been here for 3 years (just recently celebrated my 3rd rezday). I love to build, and tinker with things in SL pulling them apart seeing what makes them tick and putting them back together again. I suppose I'm a DIY (Do It Yourself) enthusiast but for prims...lol

I enjoy going out and about to other places in SL meeting new people and trying new things. Looking about in SL is like a holiday everyday if you go into it with an open mind and are willing to try something new. I find adventure interesting and exciting.

Who would I like to meet?
Well the honest answer is ANY lady who is genuine.

:matte-motes-kiss: Honesty
:matte-motes-kiss: Caring
:matte-motes-kiss: Respectful
:matte-motes-kiss: Intelligent
:matte-motes-kiss: Genuine

:matte-motes-sick: Secretive
:matte-motes-sick: Selfish
:matte-motes-sick: Disresepctful
:matte-motes-sick: Idiots
:matte-motes-sick: Lying & Dishonesty

I would like to find a caring, thoughtful and understanding girl, who is not too mothering or attention deprived, but someone who is willing to 'pitch in' when a time calls for it. Who enjoys laughing, meeting people and likes to relax as much as be adventurous, enjoys a wide range of musical tastes and is basically easy going about everything.

Someone who can be open and honest about themselves both SL and RL. I don't like people who hide their RL identity from the SL world.

What are they hiding that is so secretive they must hide who they really are?

You should be someone who wants to discover more of SL and introduce me to other things I may not have already seen or done.

I am not looking for a RL relationship that is a romantic/sexual relationship, but a personal friendly relationship outside of SL that extends to emails, skype, text messaging and possible phone calls is acceptable as we grow and get to know eachother better

So drop me a notecard with your name,RL and SL ages and a little about who you are in RL and SL or email me at socrates.romanas@gmail.com with the same info.

You must confirm you are genuinely female in RL, 
I've already had a guy con me into believing he was a female during our SL relationship and it freaked me out!

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this novel of a thread, but I wanted you to understand and not be blind to what is sought after :)

If you decide against contacting me, and I sincerely mean this, good luck with your search and happiness when you find the right guy :)

 

Soc Romanas

 

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Hey Soc,  what a great post.  

I have written in my profile the words of Confucius: "Have no friends not equal to yourself."  

In my three years (next week) in SL I have acquired only very, very few friends, and some are female.  I consider myself to be a very lucky person because of the relationship I have with these individuals.  All I can say is good luck to you, I am sure you will find what you are seeking.  They do exist.

 

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I hate to tell you but most of the people on sl are very VERY secritive about who they are in real life. So finding someone who is willing to share there real life in anyway with you will be VERY HARD. I mean I am open about my real lifre but people like me are far and few between in sl. Still good luck with your search.


that said I do understand the suspicion in you saying you want someone for friendship only and then saying you want real women only? Ic an understand wanting someone honest about there real life but why does it matter fi there a man if your only going to be friends anyway?

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because we dont control our destinys and if any feelings were to emerge over time how do you think i would feel to find that the person i had fallen for is a MALE.

I cant accept and i'm not homosexual and i dont say there is anything wrong with being homosexual, but you wouldnt expect a homsexual to want a woman or a man if they wanted same sex would you? so why is it any different for me as a straight single male? Why is it ok for woman to say they want only women but not for a guy to say he wants only a woman? 

Seems a little biased to me how society judges peoples motives without fully understanding a person first.

 

 

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because genuine implies that they are not full of BS! and that they want the same things as me. As for the sex comments, obviously your interpretation of my motives is obscured by your own desires or wishes, either that or you hold some opinion of everyone having the same desires. Sex is not the important thing here, I'm looking for a connection to someone not a physical release, (quite frankly that can be done away from SL if it is required at all). SL to me is a communication and socialising medium not a pornographic theatre.

Regards
Soc

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I'm not a person who shouts from roof tops so perhaps that is why I used a small inconspicuous font :) thanks you for your kind words and well wishes.

 

Like I replied to a member further down this thread.... Sex is not the important thing here, I'm looking for a connection to someone, not a physical release, (quite frankly; that can be done away from SL if it is required at all). SL to me is a communication and socialising medium not a pornographic theatre.

 

once again Tamara

Thank you

 

:D

Soc x

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Just a point, you are probably aware that certain people hide or are reluctant to share their RL info with everyone in SL for many reasons. It could be that they have a RL relationship, it could be that they are worried about being stalked, its a defensive measure and all power to them. Speaking for myself I only share my RL info with my man, he gets to know it all, but for everyone else well a general bio in my profile is enough.

Good luck in your search, I would recommend hanging out in a few places for long periods so that people get to know you and appreciate you. London Soho is probably your best bet, the people there are in your timezone, great bunch to hang out with.

luck

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SL is not the medium to find RL people, in my humble opinion. Many have told you already that people are secretive about their RL. An added problem is the possibility SL offers to play games using alts. Add to it the ever present people who are only here to make the life of others miserable and you end up with an environment which can turn even the most level-headed truck driver into a gibbering mass of suspicion.

My advice is to enjoy your SL as-is, and search your RL bliss in RL. C'mon, you're British, I don't have to show you where the nearest pub is, right? :-)

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Socrates Romanas wrote:

because we dont control our destinys and if any feelings were to emerge over time how do you think i would feel to find that the person i had fallen for is a MALE.

I cant accept and i'm not homosexual and i dont say there is anything wrong with being homosexual, but you wouldnt expect a homsexual to want a woman or a man if they wanted same sex would you? so why is it any different for me as a straight single male? Why is it ok for woman to say they want only women but not for a guy to say he wants only a woman? 

Seems a little biased to me how society judges peoples motives without fully understanding a person first.

 

 

Because a woman seeking for another woman for friendship is normal. Its the same as a man seeks for another man for friendship. I bet we all had our best friends and since childhood those persons often are from the same gender. Together with the % of people being homosexual, its more likely that this kind of search is truely about friendship and nothing else.

If you now come with "What if...", you also would need other informations. I mean, what if you fall in love and its someone in a relationship or they stay at the point of not wanting any onlineromance and therefor answered to a friendshipoffer. And if you already know from the beginning that the person behind the avatar is male...I mean then you won't fall in love, right?

So, I basically struggle with the reason why both (avatar and person) have to be female. Do they also have to match other preferences?

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Thank you for your input its noted, however this thread is being over analysed and debated.

 

I wasn't posing a question about if it would be wise or prudent, it was an advertisement for a like minded individual. I accept all points made but people are full of advice about what I should want or look for. Isn't it for me to decide what I accept and need?

 

Thank you for you perspective though, I appreciate your opinion regardless.

 

:)

Soc

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Socrates Romanas wrote:

Hi there

Firstly thank you for taking the time to view this post amongst the many posts in this thread

I have noted quite a few people wanting to tell me what I should do, want and need; to these people please read below..

"There is something I want to point out to you before you read on - I am not asking for an opinion from you, or your disection of what I should want or need or even how I should choose to live in SL and RL, If you have a comment to this thread about what I should want, expect, need, do, or anything other than respond to the thread with a view to contacting me to further a conversation then please in all respectful conscience keep it to yourself.

I'm fully aware of what I want, need and should do and would like to hear from people who have a GENUINE interest in commenting or wishing me good luck, and not reading negative comments or lifestyle advice... you have come to read this thread because you were either interested in the topic or you are here to troll the thread, so
please
only co
mment
if you have a genuine interest in contacting me
"

Thank you...

 

Now thats out the way
:)

My name is Socrates (Soc for short) in SL. I live in the UK (United Kingdom) in RL, I'm 41yrs old and drive semi's (trucks) for a RL living. At this time my RL mirrors my SL life in that I'm straight and single and have been for many years through personal choice.

I usually login to SL during the hours of 7am - 10pm SLT (
4pm-7am LONDON GMT {over night}
) (at the extremes) I'm obviously not online during
all
that time...lol and on mixed days of the week depending upon my RL work schedule.

I would love to meet an SL female so as to become better acquainted with you in SL and look towards finding a more resolute, equal and meaningful SL relationship. 

"I can NOT reiterate this enough!!, 
I am NOT looking for a SLexual partner
,"

So a little about me as Soc, well despite what this thread lists me as; "New Resident" I've actually been here for 3 years (just recently celebrated my 3rd rezday). I love to build, and tinker with things in SL pulling them apart seeing what makes them tick and putting them back together again. I suppose I'm a DIY (Do It Yourself) enthusiast but for prims...lol

I enjoy going out and about to other places in SL meeting new people and trying new things. Looking about in SL is like a holiday everyday if you go into it with an open mind and are willing to try something new. I find adventure interesting and exciting.

Who would I like to meet?

Well the honest answer is ANY lady who is genuine.

:matte-motes-kiss: Honesty

:matte-motes-kiss: Caring

:matte-motes-kiss: Respectful

:matte-motes-kiss: Intelligent

:matte-motes-kiss: Genuine

:matte-motes-sick: Secretive

:matte-motes-sick: Selfish

:matte-motes-sick: Disresepctful

:matte-motes-sick: Idiots

:matte-motes-sick: Lying & Dishonesty

I would like to find a caring, thoughtful and understanding girl, who is not too mothering or attention deprived, but someone who is willing to 'pitch in' when a time calls for it. Who enjoys laughing, meeting people and likes to relax as much as be adventurous, enjoys a wide range of musical tastes and is basically easy going about everything.

Someone who can be open and honest about themselves both SL and RL. I don't like people who hide their RL identity from the SL world.

What are they hiding that is so secretive they must hide who they really are?

You should be someone who wants to discover more of SL and introduce me to other things I may not have already seen or done.

I am not looking for a RL relationship that is a romantic/sexual relationship, but a personal friendly relationship outside of SL that extends to emails, skype, text messaging and possible phone calls is acceptable as we grow and get to know eachother better

So drop me a notecard with your name,RL and SL ages and a little about who you are in RL and SL or email me at socrates.romanas@gmail.com with the same info.

You must confirm you are genuinely female in RL, 

I've already had a guy con me into believing he was a female during our SL relationship and it freaked me out!

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this novel of a thread, but I wanted you to understand and not be blind to what is sought after
:)

If you decide against contacting me, and I sincerely mean this, good luck with your search and happiness when you find the right guy
:)

 

Soc Romanas

 

You should consider going 2 eharmony or 1 of those sites and opening a profile.

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Hello Soc, I don't mind sharing RL information I am just leery because of all the scammers. However if a person can gain my trust I have no issues. I understand about the making sure the other woman is well a woman but why is the RL information so important when you arent looking for a RL relationship. I have friends who arent about secrets and they share no Rl info. Its there choice. Doesnt make them a bad friend or a secretive. They just keep there stuff seperate. I dont say this as an attack. I am just curious as I am interested. IM me if you are Sephina Frostbite.

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