visitor cannot use scripted objects in linden home

[WildBilld]

My girlfriend is a Premium member with a Linden Home. When I visit with her, we find that I cannot change my AO or use my "scripted objects" when we want to have intimacy. 

When she tries to give me access rights in her home or deed to a group for that purpose, all options are grayed out for her.

Is there a way for me to use my scripted objects in her home?

Thanks!

[valerie Inshan]

Your girlfriend has to go to the "about land" menu > "Options" > Allow other residents to run scripts: set it to "all residents" or "group" (if you are a member of her group, of course, and if you wear the group tag when you visit her).