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Tracy Redangel wrote:

SL is definitely interactive porn, the operative word being interactive. You can't escape the fact you're interacting with a live person. On one hand in the original post's scenario, I can appreciate the guy's honesty about his relationship status. There are plenty of men in SL who do the opposite, they feign love and romance so they can get to the sex. Sometimes they convince themselves it truly IS "love" but then sure enough, two weeks later they grow tired of the person they're with and find another person to play house with.

Now back to the original point, people can say it's just 'cartoon sex' all they want. But the traditional Hentai/Adult anime cartoons don't reciprocate sex talk. Slex is interracting with another person (unless they boinkin' a bot or dead avi, etc).

i've made dinner while someone was playing with my avatar hehehehe..not to be mean ..but it was just time to make dinner hehehe

is that still sex if i am not naked i come back to type in a couple of lines then run back to stir the sauce before it burns?

i mean i would think if it was sex and real they would notice if i was really involved..since it takes two to have real sex hehehe

is it sex when only one is doing anything and the other just types?

honestly shopping is my true sl sex..

my marketplace is always open..

most times if i do something considered sex in sl it's to help someone with a bed they are setting up..or they just SAY they are setting it up and need help and are lying lol..it doesn't take long to see what they what was really getting set up there hehehehe

 

 

 

 

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Tamara Artis wrote:

So everyone except me are having SL sex?? :smileysurprised:

Ack! No no no, I meant SL sex...not SL itself lol I just re-read my own post LOL

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Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:

SL is definitely interactive porn, the operative word being interactive. You can't escape the fact you're interacting with a live person. On one hand in the original post's scenario, I can appreciate the guy's honesty about his relationship status. There are plenty of men in SL who do the opposite, they feign love and romance so they can get to the sex. Sometimes they convince themselves it truly IS "love" but then sure enough, two weeks later they grow tired of the person they're with and find another person to play house with.

Now back to the original point, people can say it's just 'cartoon sex' all they want. But the traditional Hentai/Adult anime cartoons don't reciprocate sex talk. Slex is interracting with another person (unless they boinkin' a bot or dead avi, etc).

i've made dinner while someone was playing with my avatar hehehehe..not to be mean ..but it was just time to make dinner hehehe

is that still sex if i am not naked i come back to type in a couple of lines then run back to stir the sauce before it burns?

i mean i would think if it was sex and real they would notice if i was really involved..since it takes two to have real sex hehehe

is it sex when only one is doing anything and the other just types?

honestly shopping is my true sl sex..

my marketplace is always open..

most times if i do something considered sex in sl it's to help someone with a bed they are setting up..or they just SAY they are setting it up and need help and are lying lol..it doesn't take long to see what they what was really getting set up there hehehehe

 

 

 

 

Facepalm! lol And I agree about the shopping!

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Storm Clarence wrote:

The closest I get to sex in SL is chasing Ceka in the forum (for the past 2+ years.)  I am a forum whore, so any sex I have is right here on this very board.  

i am too ebil :matte-motes-evil:  fear mah ebil image \o/

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Tracy Redangel wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:

SL is definitely interactive porn, the operative word being interactive. You can't escape the fact you're interacting with a live person. On one hand in the original post's scenario, I can appreciate the guy's honesty about his relationship status. There are plenty of men in SL who do the opposite, they feign love and romance so they can get to the sex. Sometimes they convince themselves it truly IS "love" but then sure enough, two weeks later they grow tired of the person they're with and find another person to play house with.

Now back to the original point, people can say it's just 'cartoon sex' all they want. But the traditional Hentai/Adult anime cartoons don't reciprocate sex talk. Slex is interracting with another person (unless they boinkin' a bot or dead avi, etc).

i've made dinner while someone was playing with my avatar hehehehe..not to be mean ..but it was just time to make dinner hehehe

is that still sex if i am not naked i come back to type in a couple of lines then run back to stir the sauce before it burns?

i mean i would think if it was sex and real they would notice if i was really involved..since it takes two to have real sex hehehe

is it sex when only one is doing anything and the other just types?

honestly shopping is my true sl sex..

my marketplace is always open..

most times if i do something considered sex in sl it's to help someone with a bed they are setting up..or they just SAY they are setting it up and need help and are lying lol..it doesn't take long to see what they what was really getting set up there hehehehe

 

 

 

 

Facepalm! lol

hehehehe

see i  am pure ebil  hehehe

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I see no difference in watching a porno, or interactive web cam porn, or sl sex.  I do not think it's a crime to watch porn and it's not a crime to **bleep**, even if you aren't thinking about your wife or husband.  Though I have heard that many people think it is a crime.

I would rather have my man sitting at the computer rubbing one off than out physically having an affair.  It would be easier to get over him masturbating to a pixel than telling me he is in love with another woman.  It's no different from me fantasizing about Dean Winchester!  Or reading a good erotic novel!  It does not mean we are perverted or are cheating.   

I think if the pixel or porn queen shows up at your doorstep or if Dean Winchester shows up at mine, then there might be a problem.  But I know my husband would give me a "hall pass" if he did!  :P

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Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:

SL is definitely interactive porn, the operative word being interactive. You can't escape the fact you're interacting with a live person. On one hand in the original post's scenario, I can appreciate the guy's honesty about his relationship status. There are plenty of men in SL who do the opposite, they feign love and romance so they can get to the sex. Sometimes they convince themselves it truly IS "love" but then sure enough, two weeks later they grow tired of the person they're with and find another person to play house with.

Now back to the original point, people can say it's just 'cartoon sex' all they want. But the traditional Hentai/Adult anime cartoons don't reciprocate sex talk. Slex is interracting with another person (unless they boinkin' a bot or dead avi, etc).

i've made dinner while someone was playing with my avatar hehehehe..not to be mean ..but it was just time to make dinner hehehe

is that still sex if i am not naked i come back to type in a couple of lines then run back to stir the sauce before it burns?

i mean i would think if it was sex and real they would notice if i was really involved..since it takes two to have real sex hehehe

is it sex when only one is doing anything and the other just types?

honestly shopping is my true sl sex..

my marketplace is always open..

most times if i do something considered sex in sl it's to help someone with a bed they are setting up..or they just SAY they are setting it up and need help and are lying lol..it doesn't take long to see what they what was really getting set up there hehehehe

 

 

 

 

Facepalm! lol

hehehehe

see i  am pure ebil  hehehe

Ebil people are the most fun, and that gave me a good chuckle :D

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Tracy Redangel wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:


Tracy Redangel wrote:

SL is definitely interactive porn, the operative word being interactive. You can't escape the fact you're interacting with a live person. On one hand in the original post's scenario, I can appreciate the guy's honesty about his relationship status. There are plenty of men in SL who do the opposite, they feign love and romance so they can get to the sex. Sometimes they convince themselves it truly IS "love" but then sure enough, two weeks later they grow tired of the person they're with and find another person to play house with.

Now back to the original point, people can say it's just 'cartoon sex' all they want. But the traditional Hentai/Adult anime cartoons don't reciprocate sex talk. Slex is interracting with another person (unless they boinkin' a bot or dead avi, etc).

i've made dinner while someone was playing with my avatar hehehehe..not to be mean ..but it was just time to make dinner hehehe

is that still sex if i am not naked i come back to type in a couple of lines then run back to stir the sauce before it burns?

i mean i would think if it was sex and real they would notice if i was really involved..since it takes two to have real sex hehehe

is it sex when only one is doing anything and the other just types?

honestly shopping is my true sl sex..

my marketplace is always open..

most times if i do something considered sex in sl it's to help someone with a bed they are setting up..or they just SAY they are setting it up and need help and are lying lol..it doesn't take long to see what they what was really getting set up there hehehehe

 

 

 

 

Facepalm! lol

hehehehe

see i  am pure ebil  hehehe

Ebil people are the most fun, and that gave me a good chuckle
:D

my trick is ..get them wiff teh serious..then when they are not specting it..it's ebil time!! hehehehe

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Naturelle Starbrook wrote:

I see no difference in watching a porno, or interactive web cam porn, or sl sex.  I do not think it's a crime to watch porn and it's not a crime to **bleep**, even if you aren't thinking about your wife or husband.  Though I have heard that many people think it is a crime.

I would rather have my man sitting at the computer rubbing one off than out physically having an affair.  It would be easier to get over him masturbating to a pixel than telling me he is in love with another woman.  It's no different from me fantasizing about Dean Winchester!  Or reading a good erotic novel!  It does not mean we are perverted or are cheating.   

I think if the pixel or porn queen shows up at your doorstep or if Dean Winchester shows up at mine, then there might be a problem.  But I know my husband would give me a "hall pass" if he did! 
:P

I definitely see the point in that, and agree, although if my boyfriend wants to watch porn I prefer he watches it with me. And Dean Winchester..YES! :D

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How do you know his wife isn't doing the same thing? At the same exact time? Or even looking over his shoulder? Maybe it helps to spice up their love life.

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Ceka Cianci wrote:


Senobia Xenga wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:

so what is real..because there is someone typing on the other end?

Exactly. It's the human interaction they want, else they WOULD be reading the book. So if all is just jolly good and perfect at home in RL, *why* do they seek stimulation here?

 

Ceka Cianci wrote:


Senobia Xenga wrote:


Ceka Cianci wrote:

ETA: is Shugah supossed to be you calling me sugar?

like some sort of bimbo?

 

I'm from Texas, shugah. We call everybody shugah - darlin' - baby. Don't get excited.


 

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Alrighty - as I expected no (well, maybe a couple did, got lost in the fray) RL married men could/would provide an answer to my question. Eh, well. I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt and let their sides be heard, but I reckon we'll have to go on making our own inferences.

 

Thanks for participating, to those of you who did. 

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Tamara Artis wrote:

So everyone except me are having SL sex?? :smileysurprised:

 

I could fix that for you.:matte-motes-evil:

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Senobia Xenga wrote:

Alrighty - as I expected no (well, maybe a couple did, got lost in the fray) RL married men could/would provide an answer to my question. Eh, well. I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt and let their sides be heard, but I reckon we'll have to go on making our own inferences.

 

Thanks for participating, to those of you who did. 

I did, you just missed it. Technically, you didn't ask a question though.

here's my response, so you don't have to hunt for it.

"So now it's perverted to interact sexually in SL?  OK, so he is happily married in RL, so what? Maybe his wife has no issue with it since its not going to become RL. Maybe he get aroused by SLex and it spices up his marriage. Personally, I don't "Rub a few off" during SLex but i do get aroused, and my wife benefits from it. 

As stated on the wall of my Skybox.. "What happens in the cabin, stays in the cabin."

And just to ask... why shouldn't married people be in SL? Not every person in SL is here for the sex.

Perhaps your view of SL as a sex playground is the perverted thought."

I bolded the pertinent part, I think.

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Senobia Xenga wrote:

Alrighty - as I expected no (well, maybe a couple did, got lost in the fray) RL married men could/would provide an answer to my question. Eh, well. I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt and let their sides be heard, but I reckon we'll have to go on making our own inferences.

 

Thanks for participating, to those of you who did. 

OK, now I'm confused.

Did you want a simple answer to your question or the reasonings?

The simple answer is "Yes it can be ok."

Most of the detailed reasonings are in the "fray" above.

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Tamara Artis wrote:

So everyone except me are having SL sex?? :smileysurprised:

 

I could fix that for you.:matte-motes-evil:

 

Fix? So my avi is broken?? oh

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Drake1 Nightfire wrote:


Senobia Xenga wrote:

Alrighty - as I expected no (well, maybe a couple did, got lost in the fray) RL married men could/would provide an answer to my question. Eh, well. I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt and let their sides be heard, but I reckon we'll have to go on making our own inferences.

 

Thanks for participating, to those of you who did. 

I did, you just missed it. Technically, you didn't ask a question though.

here's my response, so you don't have to hunt for it.

"So now it's perverted to interact sexually in SL?

Yeah, but pixelated perversions was less likely to be mod'd/deleted than pixel F'kn so call it what you want to.

 

OK, so he is happily married in RL, so what?

Yeah, could be. So what? But I'm still curious  - so what?

 

Maybe his wife has no issue with it since its not going to become RL.

Yeah, could be. So what? But I'm still curious  - so what?

 

Maybe he get aroused by SLex and it spices up his marriage.
Personally, I don't "Rub a few off" during SLex but i do get aroused, and my wife benefits from it. 

So you use it as pixel Viagra. Got it.

And just to ask... why shouldn't married people be in SL?

Did you read me saying they shouldn't? I said I wasn't going to get into THAT debate and I'm still not.

Not every person in SL is here for the sex.

Right. This thread was directed at married men who
do
partake in pixelated perversions. 

Perhaps your view of SL as a sex playground is the perverted thought."

Actually, no - what I said was,
"
Joe Blow is on a pixel sex/RP sim trolling for a pixel piece of .....well, you know. He's a frequent visitor to these sims and loves, loves to partake in pixelated perversions" -
to imply there are places for this kind of thing, not that it's what SL is all about as a whole. 

 

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Perrie Juran wrote:

 

The simple answer is "Yes it can be ok."

Most of the detailed reasonings are in the "fray" above.

No, there's no 'detailed reasoning' there. Just a bunch of skirting around the issue.

I didn't ask if anything was 'ok'. I asked why do these men act all uppity and proper using their RL partners/spouses as an excuse for not wanting/looking for serious relations here - because they are so totally giddy, happy and smitten with them - but drop those morals as quickly as their drawers when it comes to partaking in the aforementioned pixelated perversions. Why the double standard? If your RL gal is good enough not to sneak around on to maintain another relationship, why ain't she good enough not to screw around on, too? 

 


 

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I can point out several RL divorces  in which the residents used to always say "It is just roll play" till one ran off with their roll play partner..lol

 

Like I said.. When 2 humans are involved. you can only lie to your self so long,....

It's unhealthy for any marriage lol

 

And a book has nothing to do with anything in this post, that's a whole other topic.. it's not another human lol

Granted there are some who have a "mutual" agreement about Sl And not all of them work out I know of many that did'nt. But how many of the men and or women tell their spouse about their sexual encounters online in SL? Laffs. more lies

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Wait... this sounds strangely like a differently worded Dissertation cry for help... Delete your posts!!!

 

ETA.. @OP

Perversion is a concept describing those types of human behavior that are excessive or deviated from what is considered to be orthodox or normal . Although it can refer to varying forms of deviation, it is most often used to describe sexual behaviors that are seen by an individual as abnormal, repulsive or obsessive. Perversion differs from deviant behavior, since the latter refers to a recognized violation of social rules or norms. It is often considered derogatory and in psychological literature the term paraphilia has been used as a replacement,though this term is controversial, and "deviation" is now used instead by others.

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I am perplexed!

I read words her like adultery, sinful behaviour, perverted behaviour as a term used for sexual activity in Secon Life. I do tolerate people that have such morals and believes, I even tolerate christians. But only if its a two way street, but it usually isn't!

I am married! I have sex with other partners in SL and in RL. I even have sex with my partner and other people together at the same time. To me that is nothing sinful nor is it perversion. It is how I (we) have chosen to live my (our) live(s). I give nobody the right to be judgemental about that, nor do I have time to listen to attempts to convert me to their religious or moral belives, its just nobody elses f*cking business, literally. 

Those that think I am sinful or perverted because of that, should stay well away from me - I don't have the time to discuss my intimate live with them. I give nobody the right to be judgemental about that, its just nobody elses f*cking business. I will rot in hell? So it shall be. 

I am married not dead!

Oops I did it again:

http://carolineinsecondlife.wordpress.com/2012/05/07/lets-talk-about-sex/ 

 

 

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