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Chad, darling...

Don't call them "domis".  They are "Dommes".  They get upset when you get that wrong.

You sound like a submissive sort of fellow.  If you hang about D/s areas, it's possible a Domme will take pity on you and make you her pet.  Just do everything she tells you, and reply only "yes, Mistress."

Oh...you'll need a slave collar.  Search "Open Collar" and get yourself a free one.  Wear it at all times.

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Chad Denver wrote:

They seem to charge like twice as much as regular girls...

 

Is it worht it ? What's the difference?

 

every one may try to feel wat"s be charched .  May have fun .not every girl can be domina.

 

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Bree Giffen wrote:

From what I've seen it's more like the submissives are in charge.

yes and no. The submissive sets her limits beyond which the domme can't go (and a decent domme respects those limits), but yields control to the domme within those limits.

It's a power exchange, the submissive choosing whom to yield to. That puts the submissive in charge to decide whom to engage with, and in part what to do, but the domme is in charge of the actual implementation.

Of course there are degrees to both submission and domination, from play acting to total power exchange where the submissive effectively yields total control over their existence to their domme (but will still choose the domme and time and place of yielding that control).

 

For me, it's somewhere in the middle. I love freedom to do my own thing at times, but with the blessings of my domme and I try to not do things She would not want me to do. In effect I try to be stricter for myself than She would be.

Of course that's for a longterm relation, not a scene between an escort and customer.

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My Master, love and best friend. thats says it all, but for the many people who see it as something different, they are welcome to there own experience. Submission for me is a beautifull thing, Ultimately its about 4 things

Honesty, obiedience, love and trust

Dont put yourself into the hands of someone who is abusive becuase they where abused themselves.

And dont give up responsability either, you carry your dommes name in your profile. Its just like any other relationship, Give and take. And If you're just having fun or looking for a quiky, forget what I have said and go hire yourself a domme by all means. Its a lifestyle choice based in love, not a cheap thrill.

 

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Why i think that the "passive" one should be a dominant one and not the other way around? When you dominate you can make the other do the work for you? :matte-motes-bashful-cute: :P

 

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The main difference between an escort and a domme is that an escort will sleep with you. :P

Seriously, an escort is someone who gives her clients sexual satisfaction for a price. With an escort you, the client, are in complete control. What you say goes; what she wants is irrelevant or at least secondary. If you want a blow job, the escort will provide it for you, whether or not she's attracted to you or likes giving blow jobs. She will do what you ask in order to earn a fee. Now, you can ask an escort to urinate on you or beat you with a belt, but that doesn't turn her into a domme. She may be inflicting pain, but she is doing it on your command, because you want it and because you paid her. She is providing a service for a fee. You pay an escort to do whatever you want. With a domme, you pay her to do whatever *she* wants. You pay to serve *her* and what she says goes. The escort's client enjoys being the boss; the domme's sub enjoys NOT being the boss.

You can definitely hire an escort and demand that she whip you or tie you up, but you will never make her into a domme, because you're the one in charge. And if being in charge is what turns you on, an escort is what you want, and it would be foolish to seek a domme. :)

 

 

 

 

 

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