I cant even get my Avatir in his house..

[Tala52]

I paid 72.00 and i am stuck. I get nothins except there are no friends here.

[Lindal Kidd]

You need to go back and read the directions!

First of all, you don't need to have paid $72.  What you have done is pay for a one year Premium subscription.  That's good, but it was not required.

But, since you DID, one of the benefits of your Premium membership is a free Linden Home.  To get it, you have to apply for it.  Read here for how to do that.  http://community.secondlife.com/t5/English-Knowledge-Base/Linden-Homes/ta-p/700103

After you've read that, go back and read this, for an overall introduction to Second Life.  http://community.secondlife.com/t5/English-Knowledge-Base/Second-Life-Quickstart/ta-p/1087919?lang=en-US

And this, for a lot more in-depth information.  http://community.secondlife.com/t5/English-Knowledge-Base/Second-Life-User-s-Guide/ta-p/1244857