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Storm Clarence
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TW Fierrens wrote:

Not another freaking pretend Domme.  Get a clue and read some real literature on the subject.

The Loving Dominant by John Warren

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Willam Brame and Gloria Brame

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon

Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction  by Jay Wiseman

Female Domination by Elise Sutton

No wonder i avoid wanker D/s in sl.  Its 99% porno.  Save us from players dabbling in things they have no comprehension.

Of course I am pretending.  Isn't it my world, my imagination?  All Domme's had to start someplace.

Do any of these books come in audio format - my reading skills are not to where they should be?

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Sandra Frascati wrote:

... Dommes have to constantly think of things for them to say and do. In a group they sit around bored and silent waiting for Master/Mistress to appear and order them about.

If you say so, Miss.

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Storm.Clarence wrote in part:

TW Fierrens wrote:

Not another freaking pretend Domme.  Get a clue and read some real literature on the subject.

Of course I am pretending.  Isn't it my world, my imagination? 

I think you hit the nail on the head That's exactly why all those True Mistresses and Masters™ amuse me. I'm the first one to admit that I have pretty much zero BDSM experience in RL. But I also freely admit that I'm not a pink elf in RL (or female, for that matter).

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It's much easier to talk like a submissive: "Yes Miss/Master" and "mmmmm".

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Were you requested to speak?

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Ok Storm!

Hippie finishes cleaning up his computer!  Sigh

1.  Dominatrix is a woman who is always "on top" of the situation. Men are  her tools and nothing more then that. She knows what she want and never  lets anyone or anything get in her way.

2.  Get confident. You have to love yourself a dominatrix  is a woman who is basically "bulletproof". Nothing can throw her off  her throne. She never lets anyone cross her. She is the boss.

3.  Dominatrix look can be achieved with a thick lining of  eyeliner on upper lid, some dark toned eyeshadow could also be added.  Black layer of mascara. Flawless skin and dark lipstick. Dominatrix  make up tends to sometimes be vulgar. But the look can be achieved with  just the right balance depending on individual.

4.  Clothes have to be revealing. Flashy with some  leather and lots of black! A dominatrix women are not afraid to look too  sexy with exposing too much cleavage etc.

5.  Accessories should be as well flashy. But don't do  too much.

6.  Get the right attitude. Men are only there for your  fun. You make them do what you want, and obeying your will still gives  them pleasure. Give hints of that you can get aggressive and that you  "wear the pants" in the relationship.

7.  Be a challenge. Not in the traditional way, but  rather rebellious. Its either will be your way or no way.

Now for the talking part Storm!

8.  Use some dirty talk. Don't be all up in your face  person. You make the men come to you and beg you to give them a chance  to do something for you or to you. If you are the one to approach a man,  you can say something like,"I will have you and you will discover  things youve never had before." Dominatrix doesn't care what people  think and says what she wants to say.

9.  Don't abandon girl company. Be the girl that is  sophisticated, unique and rebellious, sometimes might be arrogant. But  never starts problems with people unless they really are asking for it.

10.  A dominatrix doesn't care about the rest of the world.  Its her life and she is in full control of it. The world revolves  around her and if it doesn't then she will use her "tools" to get her  way.

And here is some tips Storm.

  • Be something like a trap. Don't show your aggressive and controlling  side straight away when you approach someone. Be flirtatious, "lead"  the guy into subjects that you want to talk about, maybe sometimes  "dangerous" subjects. He shouldn't realize straight away what he is  getting into.
  • Don't put yourself out there. People come to you not the other way.  It doesn't mean you should isolate yourself from the society but keep  mystery and don't run after anything or anyone. Its their loss not  yours.

And here are some warnings

  • Dominatrix woman tends to get in trouble a lot as she is rather  aggressive so don't be too pushy with trying to obtain the image.
  • Try to find your individual harmony for the look and the character.

I hope this helps you Storm in your um... err.... endeavors!

Peace!

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Storm Clarence
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Ishtara Rothschild wrote:

I think you hit the nail on the head That's exactly why all those True Mistresses and Masters™ amuse me. I'm the first one to admit that I have pretty much zero BDSM experience in RL. But I also freely admit that I'm not a pink elf in RL (or female, for that matter).

I don't care what or who you are - your words to me are always kind and considerate.  I read, with enthusiasm, almost everything you post.

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Caitlin.Tobias wrote:

(What Venus said!)

Also,I think you need to contact Richard, I am sure he can teach you everything you need to know (and some more .)

But, Richard is into Gor and tosses that 'tarsk' word about.  Although the similarity would be RL gender playing the opposite SL gender.  That would be about it, I'd guess.

/me sighs

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Sandra Frascati
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Also dommes are fantastically flaky. They are always going off for a week with a headache and when you talk to them they say they are lonely and bored

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Sandra Frascati wrote:

Were you requested to speak?

Now, that's the spirit!

/me takes note of the firm tone used in Sandra's admonishment of Kelli.